Gags turn me on so much. It is just another loss of control. When I watch porn, I love seeing different types of gags being used.

However, I have had gags listed in my limits for a long time. This is for a few reasons:

1. I am claustrophobic
2. I don't like drool/being messy
3. It feels humiliating (makes me look and sound funny).

I have wanted to find the right person to explore this with. I have had a few Dom's come into my life and try, but it hasn't worked.

I...

I am a 46 year old, straight male Dom or Master.

I play casually on getDare as a dare and task giver, and generally participate in kink discussion and learning. I rarely (never) accept dares or tasks, but I love giving them out so my likes and limits here are as a Dom, Master, Top, or general Dare Giver.

I have experience with many forms of BDSM kink but my primary kink is submission and control. This means that I am generally willing to take account of your personal kinks and...

Toys:
Remote Controlled WeVib (Internal and External)
Pocket Rocket Mini Vib (Single Speed)
Standard Hard Smooth Vib Purple (With Dial)
Mini Cordless Wand

Bondage Gear:

Chest Harness
Leather Wrist Cuffs (Lockable)
Leather Ankle Cuffs (Lockable)
Leather Thigh Cuffs
Collar (Lockable)
Nipple Clamps with Chain
-Bed with Hard Points
-Chair with Hard Points
-Access to other Equipment...

likes:

orgasm control
toys
masturbation control
creative bondage
light public
light pain
clothing control
exercise control
just plain fun and creative dares [drinking games/dares]
General banter.


limits:

messy
pee
poo
gross
anal
permanent
illegal
extreme pain
family/friends/work
animals
photos
written reports
future dares...

I am poly and have multiple partners. I currently have four poly relationships.

1. Mr. Devious: I would consider this my primary relationship. We are married. We met here on getDare about 9 years ago. He began as my Dom and we fell in love. I moved across the country to live with him. Once we settled in to live together, we realized that a power exchange dynamic just didn't work between us. However, we are still kinky together in the bedroom.
2. Jaro: Jaro and I have been together for 6 years. We have

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After finishing my previous tasks, I was so wet and horny I couldn't resist breaking my (48 hours) denial, I just had to. Following that I felt bad for doing so, but this made this mouth soaping task that I was dreading so much a lot easier to approach, I felt like I actually needed a punishment to feel less guilty for breaking 2 days of denial (which is really not much, when other people I see are denied for months and years).

The fact that it felt more deserved due...

Since I am not currently owned, I felt the need to update my list for any potential casual play I might find myself pursuing in the mean time, because admittedly there's a lot of things that just aren't worth the risk for strangers. Besides I find that some of my tastes can shift a bit here and there. This will be updated every now and then I guess, don't know if it's normal but that's how I'm gonna have to go about it.


Likes

• Masturbation / Vibration (as a personal endeavor)
• Vaginal

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