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I'm always stunned to hear that people actually say those kinds of rude things in PMs. Like ... just how many girls has it ever actually gotten them :x Surely it's worked at some point for them to keep doing it, unless they're just that stupid.

Wait, nevermind.

*hugs* to poor people having to put up with that sort of thing all day. It's doubly annoying when I know just how friendly and patient so many of the people are that I see complaining about this.

I agree with you on all of that m'dear. *hugs*

My dad was going to name me Cactus Flower.
In which case, I would've made Spike my nickname.

Cone is like a spike

How about Spyke or something equally unusual?

I worry that this a trend that society will continue to show, the more wide spread the internet becomes the easy it is for neanderthals to access it lol. What may be considered old fashioned values like chivalry for example shouldn't be lost. But that world of ours desintegrates more and more in integrity with each passing year.

That apology didn't make sense for a while.

As a member of the group you have been hating on (people named Depp) I accept your apology.

Yeah Herbert did nothing to you. But that smelly, not hot hair guy two posts above mine deserves a little something from me. *push*

Gosh Krystal it's about time you apologized, poor suit wearing puffballs. (:

Bet there's a lot of people out there

a Dom(me) worth knowing shows respect for a sub.
A little respect goes a long way

String cheese... cheese-strings? Plastic much.

Yummy though at certain times!

Other than the asl question, and even it doesn't need to start a conversation, the others you've listed are simply rude and uneducated.

If nothing else, meet the person before giving them a dare, and certainly before you take any step to become a regular part of their life. And most importantly, sound them out to see if they are even interested in what you have in mind.

If they then let you into their "circle" of friends, take the time to find out and understand what they like, and what their limits are, and keep their needs in mind when you ask them to do something. You may be the Master, but they don't need to talk to you, and can stop whenever they decide to. If you think only of yourself, then you'll end up lonely.

In reality, the Master is not the one in charge; the submissive has all the control, because they can just say "No". To give them a reason to do so with your first sentence is just absolutely stupid.

hahaha xD

I have personally learnt to ignore anything that starts off with:

"asl"

"do you have a webcam"

"strip"

and the like.

No thoughts, no respect, no potential as a Master/Mistress.

I could give a long comment but I think the guy shot himself in the foot and gave himself so much rope to hang himself with, nothing else is needed

I just got one infact. It went

i am ur master giv me ur msn.


Ummm no.
A. Because I already have a mistress

B. She contacted me civily and we actually talked.

C. I don't even know you don't IM me unless it's for a vaild reason.

D. No just No go Home.

EPIC FAIL

...I mean, if you're desperate and fancy a chance of getting some pics, at least be *nice*

Haha xD

Idiots.

That person who did contact you is not a Master but a complete & total moron. Period. And, no, sadly I don't think it's a phase or that you're doing something to attract them... When I signed in last year one of my 1st PMs read like this word-for-word: "Hey slut, got any pics?" By ther looks of it these people contact other users randomly (sometimes they don't even check profiles & posts for gender as I know some males who receive messages like that too) What angers me the most is that they seem to think that any female who logs in here must be some kind of crazy nymphomaniac who is just waiting for messages like that... And unfortunately I know a few female users who stopped using the site because they were sick of receiving such messages on a regular basis...

Meh... I think that some people must believe that the anonymity that internet gives them is a good reason to act stupidly. I wonder if they would ever have the audacity to approach someone like that face-to-face...