Questioning
Posted 01-01-2014 at 01:24 PM by jacklynn0927
So, in life, I am a 'in control' woman, but in bed I am the complete opposite. I want to be controled 24/7. Is this normal, or am I just wacky? Haha
hmm...any feedback would be awesome, boyfriend says its normal and psychologicaly makes sense...just curious if anyone here is that way too.
THANKS!
~Jacky!
hmm...any feedback would be awesome, boyfriend says its normal and psychologicaly makes sense...just curious if anyone here is that way too.
THANKS!
~Jacky!
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Of course it's normal.
People need balance.
Being in control all the time is not a balanced lifestyle for most people. When you're in positions of leadership, you're usually expected to behave a certain way, be certain things, and generally, you need to inhibit yourself for the sake of others.
Being submissive in bed is a way of removing those inhibitions and freeing yourself from social pressures.
It's human nature to want to let go and be wild every once in a while. It's actually a need.
When that need isn't met, we end up like Miley Cyrus.
There are people in the world who thrive on being in control at all times, but it is ultimately a very small fraction, and it's also usually because those people have found other ways of releasing their inhibitions within their lifestyles, and not everyone has that privilege.Posted 01-01-2014 at 01:40 PM by Endu 
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Many, many submissives that I have met or chatted with online have similar feelings. I am also similar. Don't worry, you are not unique or weird in this situation!
-AlexisPosted 01-01-2014 at 02:06 PM by Alexis Rune
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Yay! Thanks guys! Makes me feel a little bit better about all this. Not like I'd tell him to stop being controlling, but, hey at least I know it's normal.
Posted 01-02-2014 at 06:16 AM by jacklynn0927
