Just recently Jaro tested one of his rules with me. In all honesty I did wonder if it was on purpose when he did so as he is a very good little worm but I decided to wait for his report on the discipline first before mentioning it. In the report he was honest that he was testing me to see if I had noticed and hoped I wasn't too mad about it.

I wasn't mad at all. I smirked when I read the admittance, as it is something I also have done as a sub. And it got me to thinking if it is 'bad'...

This page is a work in progress. Picture links will be added later. Some clothes will not be listed as I'm thinking about getting rid of them because I don't like them, or because they don't currently fit and I hate wearing clothes that don't fit properly.

Clothes
Several pairs of panties, bras, and bikinis

A bunch of cute fuzzy socks and black and white schoolgirl socks

Camisoles of many colors

Plenty of girly T-shirts

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I read a wonderful blog today by Abusivemaster and I just had to say that I too am sadistic (I think we should start a club).

I don't really have a whole lot to add to the conversation, but I also don't understand where sadism comes from or why it exists.

It used to scare me a lot, I was afraid there was something seriously wrong with me, but I have come to terms with it. I am just a "kinky fucker" and there is no changing now that I am old.

The...

The following represents my own thoughts and feelings only. Naturally I am 100% correct in everything I think, do and say, but differing opinions may exist.

I am not a masochist, not even slightly. In fact, I am an utter wimp when it comes to any sort of pain. But I sort of understand the why of masochism. I am aware of the neurochemical responses which can lead to a natural high. I am cognisant of the release of emotional tension through controlled and safe pain. I get that there...

A reference for people doing RL scenes and play and things they might want to negotiate. Inspired by a list taught at a negotiation and communication class at my local dungeon.

Before you negotiate a scene with someone, check yourself.

• Are you in a positive frame of mind?
• H.A.L.T. Am I hungry, angry, lonely, tired?
• Is my judgement impaired somehow be it from alcohol, drugs, or simply lack of sleep?

People:

• Does anyone else need to consent to this negotiation? (Another partner,

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Life has been a hectic and stressful lately.

I feel like I have been doing too much adulting lately and it is draining. I just want to crawl into my bed and be little forever. Of course, that isn't really an option.

I was recently in a car accident. My brand new car had $9000 in damage and I have whiplash. Things could have been a LOT worse, so I am just trying to remain positive and remember that I am lucky.

I turned 3 this year! (I really turned 28,...

The time is running so fast, I am with my friends and we are having our sweet ice cream and cookies and we are talking and talking...
Today is Friday and my master has a free day. He has been working hard till now and he decided to surprise me and stayed at home...but I did not know about his idea so I went with my friends after work out and I did not care about the time and my chores at home before the weekend is here.
Usually I arrive home around 5pm but now I came home at 7pm. The...