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Quote:4.) Trust- Probably the most important thing I desire. Trust is the foundation of BDSM. If you don't trust your dom enough to give him power your your body, you cannot possibly enjoy BDSM. I do not want you to immediately give control of your life to me but do it gradually.
In your replies to my comments on your other blog, where i questioned your copying and pasting the work of others from Wiki, you admitted to not being entirely honest about yourself in your profile. Just wondering how these "true subs" are expected to trust someone who admits to dishonesty?!Posted 11-21-2017 at 08:48 AM by Heart -
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The thing is you can choose not to show you age on your profile, which is calculated by the date of birth you entered when you made your account, rather than mislead or lie to others. That might be a better idea.
And the fact that you have to resort to calling me dumb says so much about you and will hopefully provide a warning signal to others about how you actually treat people, despite what you write in your blogs.Posted 11-21-2017 at 01:49 AM by Masterwants -
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Old enough not to be fooled by someone trying to appear way more intelligent than they are by copying and pasting the work of others from 2001?!Posted 11-21-2017 at 01:02 AM by Masterwants -
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4.) Trust- Probably the most important thing I desire. Trust is the foundation of BDSM. If you don't trust your dom enough to give him power your your body, you cannot possibly enjoy BDSM. I do not want you to immediately give control of your life to me but do it gradually.
In your replies to my comments on your other blog, where i questioned your copying and pasting the work of others from Wiki, you admitted to not being entirely honest about yourself in your profile. Just wondering how these "true subs" are expected to trust someone who admits to dishonesty?!Posted 11-21-2017 at 01:00 AM by Masterwants -
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*cough* never talk like that to a wizard. To help you deal with wizards better, read the first point of "What you should know about wizards"Posted 11-20-2017 at 09:19 PM by saruman -
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I read your tricks, young lady. You are actually a wonderful, hot, sexy nymphomaniac girl in disguise of an old, ugly, and senile wizard fart (although Christopher Lee is a splendid choice ). Come out of your costume and dance for us.Posted 11-20-2017 at 01:45 PM by CSasha -
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Ah! It's not easy to teach a wizard new tricks. Especially the one who is older than the moon. I shall soon supplant you but if you choose to fight then... https://goo.gl/images/kDcYqtPosted 11-20-2017 at 01:32 PM by saruman -
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https://www.urbandictionary.com/defi...rm=call%20dibs
Relax and enjoy the diversity. That's what I actually want to say out of my funny mood (must be the beans).Posted 11-20-2017 at 01:28 PM by CSasha -
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Quote:5.)Spelling Mistakes
Quote:chat with you and will you you orders and tasksQuote:gramaticalQuote:I will attempt to lead you to learning your own likes,Quote:have opens lines of communication.Quote:her thoughts into email,Quote:This list will be edited it future.Quote:lighteningPosted 11-20-2017 at 12:59 PM by Drilldon
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Absolutely gotta love blog debates; It gets the mind thinking and when debates are done correctly loads of information is gained.Posted 11-20-2017 at 12:47 PM by Heart -
Posted 11-20-2017 at 12:44 PM by saruman -
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One can argue that individuals can actually be both a female Domme and a male Dom but that's an argument for another day.Posted 11-20-2017 at 12:43 PM by Heart -
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Posted 11-20-2017 at 12:37 PM by saruman -
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Or, I can just correct you on your blog.
Also, you may want to decide whether you are a female domme looking for a sub in an ad, or a straight male Dom looking for his "true" sub in his blog. You probably can't be both.Posted 11-20-2017 at 12:32 PM by Butterfly -
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So please try to understand from my perspective. I'm entitled to my own opinions and if you care so much about the new subs here, you can start a forum thread or blog that say "Saruman the wizard is a bad guy who is misleading new subs! Please ignore him".Posted 11-20-2017 at 12:30 PM by saruman -
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Quote:You may see this:
https://answers.yahoo.com/question/i...0074922AAFxIrA
Your information clearly states that a submissive is somebody who prefers to surrender control of "part of their lives" to a Dom. I didn't read anything about giving up complete control, did you?
You might also notice that each answer given was a bit different, because although the basic terms are loosely defined in the kink community, everybody has their own perspective on it.Posted 11-20-2017 at 12:27 PM by Butterfly -
Posted 11-20-2017 at 12:20 PM by saruman -
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Quote:Im sure that you know the difference between a sub and a bottom right? What you are talking about is a bottom. A bottom is in BDSM for their own pleasure but a sub/slave wants to serve their master only. I believe that my corrections have made the point pretty much clear.
I know BDSM has several variations but by reading what i expect of a sub, you can "define" a "true" sub. I agree that the sub would've had issues in the past but by gradual building of trust, the fear of dom could be eliminated. If you read my entire blog post quite thoroughly, you could finally get my point and as a note, I never asked you to be my sub so there is no need to get triggered.
By reading what you expect of a sub, I can define who your ideal sub is, but that doesn't make them "true" or not "true". Just because somebody doesn't fit into your ideal box of what a sub is, it doesn't make them any less of a sub, and that is why that term is offensive to not just me, but other s types.
You didn't ask me to be your sub, and I wouldn't anyways for countless reasons, but I have a problem with statements like the above because new subs will often read information like this and believe it because they are new and naive and believe that this is the way things should be.Posted 11-20-2017 at 12:18 PM by Butterfly