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Stop With The 20 Questions
A personal favorite of mine is people sending a “do you do dares?”
Like why do you think I’m here and post? Whats the thought process? Do you just see female and start a copy and paste script?Posted 06-04-2024 at 01:27 AM by ItsanArt -
I Only Do Getdare Tasks On Getdare
Quote:You can see GetDare at the event/club where you meet, and Kik as the private room where you end up doing stuff.
It makes a lot of sense when you have in mind people who do make pictures and videos as a normal part of task execution, the forums aren't exactly made for that.
If someone has pictures and videos as a limit but gets invited there, I suspect that the inviters think they could slowly convince to at least show a proof picture or something.Posted 05-19-2024 at 07:23 PM by Toybox -
I Only Do Getdare Tasks On Getdare
You can see GetDare at the event/club where you meet, and Kik as the private room where you end up doing stuff.
It makes a lot of sense when you have in mind people who do make pictures and videos as a normal part of task execution, the forums aren't exactly made for that.
If someone has pictures and videos as a limit but gets invited there, Sir's toy suspect that the inviters think they could slowly convince to at least show a proof picture or something.Posted 05-19-2024 at 07:12 PM by pluky
Updated 05-19-2024 at 07:56 PM by pluky -
I Only Do Getdare Tasks On Getdare
I never understand why people almost immediately want to switch to another platform. I logged into gD, so I want to have fun here, not somewhere else...
Sure, if you already have a good friend here and want to be able to initiate a chat more easily, go ahead. But being on a platform and then have to leave it and go to another platform to continue the conversation or game is quite a turnoff...Posted 05-19-2024 at 02:39 PM by Manarus -
Posted 05-19-2024 at 02:30 PM by Manarus -
Reports are pointless most of the time
Well. This exactly should go into a report
If you think deepthroating a dildo is boring and does not much to you, the report should go like
"I deepthroated the dildo 3 times. Not much of a challenge as I am used to that and do that nearly daily with a real cock."
On the other hand, if you would be a person who does hard with deepthroating, the report should be like
"I deepthroated the dildo 3 times. The first time I did really hard getting it in my mouth and I gagged on it quite early. The second time the same. The third time I really pushed myself, I got a lot further, and now my throat hurts."
Off course, for such a simple task, you don't write pages. Two sentences are mostly enough. However, what is the difference if you just write "Finished, I deepthroated it 3 times"? -> The one who gave you the task learns from it how challenging it was to you and if you liked it or if you didn't like it. From this, from so simple tasks, more apropriate, more complex, and more creative tasks can be developed. I experienced it myself first hand. But it only worked with people who did report 2 sentences for such a simple task instead of just saying "done".
Also, an other aspect to this topic: The one who gives you a dare is only motivated to keep the communication going if there is a little bit of return. So if you just write a bit of a flirty and emotional stuff to make your dare giver feel good, and you describe it in a way so he can make some imagination about you doing it, chances are a lot higher that from there a nice conversation and a game evolves. But I don't need to tell you this, do I?
But if you don't like this kind of interactions, maybe you just want to play your own games and receive PM dares which fill your todo list but without any report obligations (just assuming here, I don't know you nor do I follow your posts), its also completely fine! But then I would not accept any dare which involes reporting. Which you kinda announced with this blog post
So as conclusion, I wouldn't say "Reports are pointless", rather I think, for you reports may be pointless. It really depends on how you play here in the forum, which kind of games you are interested in. If you try to "farm" a lot simple dares (there are a ton of threads out there just for this purpose) or if you rather are the person who wants to connect with a Dom counterpart more mid- to long-term. For those people, small reports even on simple tasks do work quite well.
Edit: But in general I do agree that sometimes there are a lot of boring dares just consisting of stuff you've (or actually everybody has) done already a thousand times. I just read your comment about edging in your likes an limits It just depends on the situation, if this task is simly stupid, or the counterpart is just going to get to know you and your capabilities.Posted 05-19-2024 at 02:25 PM by Manarus
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I Only Do Getdare Tasks On Getdare
Sign up with the username "FuckOffAndLeaveMeAlone" for Kik, you will feel MUCH better next time someone asks for it. Lol.
Good luck with your journey. Onward.Posted 05-19-2024 at 12:20 PM by FrostbittenSoul -
Stop With The 20 Questions
Thanks for the blog entry. I think there can't be enough angles and posts on this topic, so more people actually doing that read and act on it.
I got used with this internet bullsh*t. I prefer when new people writing me explain why they are writing me straight away. Could be as simple as:
"Hey,
I don't mind if I bother you. I saw you in chat as one of the few female, didn't look at your profile, am not interested what you actuall want and need right now apart from what might serve my urgent desires right now."
At least that would be honest.
Of course, a sincere:
"Hi,
I spotted you [occasion where I spotted you] and checked your profile. I am curious about [detail curious about] and like to ask: [reasonable question for first contact given the context].
Many thanks"
or
"Hello,
excuse me for bothering you. Your actions in the chat caught my interest, so I checked your profile. It seems [Kink X] is your biggest love. If you check my Likes and Limits, it's the same for me as you can also see in my past getDare activity.
Would you be interested in chatting with me about that now or another day?"Posted 12-11-2023 at 02:54 AM by CSasha -
Stop With The 20 Questions
omg haha I've gotta keep a link to this blog post to send to people, this happens way too often.
Quote:Like its crazy how many guys will send me my "Bend Over" task from my signature or add me on Lovense to be used, but those same guys completely ignore the interests and limits link right between them.Posted 12-10-2023 at 09:47 PM by SluttySarah -
Posted 12-01-2023 at 01:16 PM by Toybox -
Spreading My Page
Oh, I love the idea
If you send me the link, I can spread it (but I think ladies exposed isn't working anymore) one of these days. Let me knowPosted 12-01-2023 at 01:06 PM by GivingWantingDares -
I Do Not Care About Your Tasks
I can't wait to see the screenshots of people getting linked this blog and still not getting the hint lolPosted 11-28-2023 at 11:26 AM by Mr. White -
Posted 11-28-2023 at 01:55 AM by Toybox -
Posted 11-27-2023 at 08:31 PM by pluky -
Stop With The 20 Questions
Does it sound strange when I say I know this? I often feel the same way. Stupid questions without having read the profile. Sometimes, fortunately, not often, but when I refer them to the profile, they let their dom hang out and practically want to order me to answer the question.
But as you wrote, I also think it has to do with the horny brain. Unfortunately, I'm usually far too nice and answer until it's too stupid for me.Posted 09-02-2023 at 02:01 AM by Jolly*FtM -
Stop With The 20 Questions
Quote:
Being friendly and reaching out to someone with our interests is why many of us join getDare. I like a good conversation, not really into doing interviews so much. If they run out of questions or feel like I'm not engaging with them, they usually give up. Sometimes it's their fault for just being tedious or not even trying to make conversation. Sometimes it's nothing more than a "HI" at 4am in the morning.
A one-sided conversation goes no where fast. If someone asks a string of questions, I try to fire some questions back, "Are you into doing dares naked outdoors too? Have you tried any yourself? How did that go?". When people share a bit about themselves it gives me more to talk about with them and there's an art to starting a conversation with a stranger. I've had some enjoyable conversations with people about their experiences and we've talked about our lives and so on. Unfortunately, there are plenty of people that just want to hear some juicy deets to spank off to and then ghost.
Them: How big are your tits?
Me: 36D
Them: Go outside naked?
Me: Yes, plenty of times. What about you?
Them: No. Ever get caught?
Me: Yes I have.
Them: Did you let them fuck you?
Then I try to ask another question again then its back to... Them: Yes/No. .......................?Posted 08-23-2023 at 01:12 PM by Toybox -
Stop With The 20 Questions
Being friendly and reaching out to someone with our interests is why many of us join getDare. I like a good conversation, not really into doing interviews so much. If they run out of questions or feel like I'm not engaging with them, they usually give up. Sometimes it's their fault for just being tedious or not even trying to make conversation. Sometimes it's nothing more than a "HI" at 4am in the morning.
A one-sided conversation goes no where fast. If someone asks a string of questions, I try to fire some questions back, "Are you into doing dares naked outdoors too? Have you tried any yourself? How did that go?". When people share a bit about themselves it gives me more to talk about with them and there's an art to starting a conversation with a stranger. I've had some enjoyable conversations with people about their experiences and we've talked about our lives and so on. Unfortunately, there are plenty of people that just want to hear some juicy deets to spank off to and then ghost.
Posted 08-23-2023 at 03:03 AM by SilverBlue
Updated 08-23-2023 at 03:07 AM by SilverBlue -
Stop With The 20 Questions
Quote:You're patient, I don't even reply to people who come up to me to ask a random question, the "hi how are you" type.
Also if by any chance I started answering someone's questions (they tend to start asking after I play on kik something like last pic dare), when I get tired of their questions (much sooner than you) I tell them to stop asking me questions, usually they oblige.
Everyone knows the horny male brain has tunnel vision lol
... Maybe I'm just a bitch like that lol
And 1000% the male horny brain is on a planet of its own *sigh*Posted 08-21-2023 at 11:57 PM by Toybox -
Stop With The 20 Questions
You're patient, I don't even reply to people who come up to me to ask a random question, the "hi how are you" type.
Also if by any chance I started answering someone's questions (they tend to start asking after I play on kik something like last pic dare), when I get tired of their questions (much sooner than you) I tell them to stop asking me questions, usually they oblige.
Quote:Like its crazy how many guys will send me my "Bend Over" task from my signature or add me on Lovense to be used, but those same guys completely ignore the interests and limits link right between them.Posted 08-21-2023 at 09:17 PM by pluky
Updated 08-21-2023 at 09:23 PM by pluky -
Posted 08-21-2023 at 03:18 PM by Toybox -
Posted 08-21-2023 at 03:05 PM by FrostbittenSoul -
Ladies.Exposed
This is not surprising to me,
As soon as you nudes are out there you lose control.
You can end up anywhere.
If they add information about you could be caught naked.Posted 07-05-2023 at 09:59 PM by Roberta50 -
Posted 05-09-2023 at 05:55 PM by Toybox -
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Posted 05-09-2023 at 05:44 PM by wolf82