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Barbies Should Be Played With
You really are a fantastic writer Lola. Once again, absolutely loving the story. Also, if this is anywhere how you (would like to) behave, you are a big handful and a hell of a cock teasePosted 07-01-2021 at 12:18 PM by bluedieblub -
My Favorite Toy
thank you!! i haven't read it since i wrote it and had someone else edit it for me so i'm too scared to go back to see what the switchy cues were in particularPosted 06-30-2021 at 04:32 PM by lola.fox -
My Favorite Toy
I really enjoyed this, thank you. Particularly liked the cues of switchiness, power play and defied expectations, giving more depth and intrigue than a purely femdom story, which I don't usually go for, either.Posted 06-30-2021 at 05:47 AM by StrawDog -
Posted 06-29-2021 at 03:53 PM by lola.fox -
My Favorite Toy
Hiiii!
This is written so well. Very hot, I really enjoyed it. (And I don't usually enjoy stories with female dommes!)Posted 06-29-2021 at 01:33 PM by IceMaiden -
Posted 06-28-2021 at 05:02 PM by lola.fox -
Posted 06-28-2021 at 11:56 AM by andom4444 -
My Favorite Toy
You have some very very fun fantasies. That was an amazing read! Thanks for sharing it!Posted 06-28-2021 at 11:56 AM by bluedieblub -
A Monday Afternoon
This is an absolutely delicious read! Fun to daydream aboutPosted 09-24-2020 at 06:15 AM by Rascal. -
Posted 09-09-2020 at 06:52 PM by lola.fox -
A Spiraling Denial
I’m looking forward to this being updated!Posted 09-09-2020 at 01:36 PM by Rascal. -
A Spiraling Denial
Quote:For a long time I did it only for the thrill. But at one point when I was in a domme/sub relationship I verified my account so I can accept tokens. My motivation was very similar to what you describe here (being able to spoil a bit and also get new toys). It also made me feel more like an actual whore that way. Which I love, I must admit.
I've had some luck earning, yes. More than I thought I would. It adds to the excitement for sure, but I like it even if I don't have any luckPosted 09-09-2020 at 09:39 AM by lola.fox -
A Spiraling Denial
Quote:thank you! (: we thought it would make him more eager to do a good job knowing his incentive was to spoil me or buy something for us to play with for our next meet up. and of course feeling like an actual whore is an experience in it's self (; did you have luck earning yourself any coins or did you do it purely for the thrill?
I've had some luck earning, yes. More than I thought I would. It adds to the excitement for sure, but I like it even if I don't have any luckPosted 09-09-2020 at 04:04 AM by subDanni -
A Spiraling Denial
thank you! (: we thought it would make him more eager to do a good job knowing his incentive was to spoil me or buy something for us to play with for our next meet up. and of course feeling like an actual whore is an experience in it's self (; did you have luck earning yourself any coins or did you do it purely for the thrill?Posted 09-08-2020 at 07:24 PM by lola.fox -
A Spiraling Denial
I like the chaturbate part. I've done similar and it's amazing
Edit: I like all the other parts too. Thanks for sharingPosted 09-08-2020 at 12:43 PM by subDanni
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Posted 07-24-2018 at 12:06 PM by Butterfly -
Posted 04-20-2018 at 05:25 AM by lola.fox -
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Three Things
Excellent blog post dear. You have a gift for writingPosted 09-30-2017 at 07:16 PM by Rascal. -
Three Things
Quote:1. I have a different take on punishment. I feel that if you actually enjoy a punishment it is not an actual punishment but a funishment. For me, when I say punishment, I mean something that is really not fun to do at all. Something that really makes me miserable!
When I first joined the site I was turned off totally by all the extreme punishments. Now I am okay with it and my Misses can punish me but only if I really deserve it and need correcting.
2. I do love my rules but I do see as well that they can be a bit annoying at times to keep up with or waiting for a permission. But it works out well most of the time and I wouldn't want to lose my rules for the world.
3. I have gotten myself into a blackmail relationship now and I don't quite know yet how I feel about it. Yes it is indeed scary. But I think it's also pretty exciting as it makes online control very real. What I do know is that I think this can be done safely with the right people. I think I couldn't get better and more trustworthy people to blackmail me now. But the risk of exposure is still there, or else it wouldn't be blackmail.
As for the rules, that's good! That's the beauty of BDSM . There's no one way or right way of doing things. Even our own personal standards change with partners or over time, and I think that's awesome to be able to watch. Especially when you blog about it or have a site like this where you can look back on your posts and see how much you've changed over the years.
You definitely chose the perfect people to enter a blackmail relationship with! It's also nice that you're all beginners so you can explore boundaries and set them together rather than have preconceived notions of what might have worked in the past with different partners. I think that blackmail in general is really intriguing because of the risk, but I'm just glad I can be a bystander to it and not have to participate . Hopefully my OP didn't come off as knocking your kink, as that truly wasn't my intention!Posted 09-29-2017 at 09:01 PM by lola.fox
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Three Things
Quote:2 is a big thing. Depending on how I feel is how many rules or how much time I will dedicate to rules. Personally I find them more fun if they are smaller easy to do things generally plus maybe shorter term rules like say for a weekend. I call the smaller rules reminders.
As for 3 I think I agree with you. There is always the option to get out of things without blackmail which can be bad for trying new or scary things but personally I am too scared to send people pictures (I blame my first shitty domme) never mind give them blackmail evidence and risk it being exposed
I'm sorry you had a poor photo experience with your first domme! I get it since when I do photo threads I always end up having people overstep with keeping my photos and treating them as their personal property and it makes me want to end it all, but thankfully I have a good support system if anything were to happen, which eases my worries a bit.Posted 09-29-2017 at 08:45 PM by lola.fox -
Three Things
Quote:A nice blog! I fully agree!
I once posted a blog with similar thoughts
I guess in the beginning we find it difficult to admit we just like pain or humiliation. Especially in a committed relationship however it becomes very negative and depressing that it requires a failure to drive a treatment. It was quite liberating to admit that I liked to torture my pet even when she had done nothing wrong, and it was liberating to her to receive that without any negative thought. In fact it was much hotter to both to just "go" for no other reason than to inflict pain.
I also share your thoughts on blackmail. In my opinion it's a bad thing. I have reasons which I plan to write a blog on because it's quite elaborate but I need to find the time todo that.Posted 09-29-2017 at 08:40 PM by lola.fox -
Three Things
1. I have a different take on punishment. I feel that if you actually enjoy a punishment it is not an actual punishment but a funishment. For me, when I say punishment, I mean something that is really not fun to do at all. Something that really makes me miserable!
When I first joined the site I was turned off totally by all the extreme punishments. Now I am okay with it and my Misses can punish me but only if I really deserve it and need correcting.
2. I do love my rules but I do see as well that they can be a bit annoying at times to keep up with or waiting for a permission. But it works out well most of the time and I wouldn't want to lose my rules for the world.
3. I have gotten myself into a blackmail relationship now and I don't quite know yet how I feel about it. Yes it is indeed scary. But I think it's also pretty exciting as it makes online control very real. What I do know is that I think this can be done safely with the right people. I think I couldn't get better and more trustworthy people to blackmail me now. But the risk of exposure is still there, or else it wouldn't be blackmail.Posted 09-29-2017 at 08:13 PM by Jaro -
Three Things
2 is a big thing. Depending on how I feel is how many rules or how much time I will dedicate to rules. Personally I find them more fun if they are smaller easy to do things generally plus maybe shorter term rules like say for a weekend. I call the smaller rules reminders.
As for 3 I think I agree with you. There is always the option to get out of things without blackmail which can be bad for trying new or scary things but personally I am too scared to send people pictures (I blame my first shitty domme) never mind give them blackmail evidence and risk it being exposedPosted 09-29-2017 at 06:34 PM by Ly Ph -
Three Things
A nice blog! I fully agree!
I once posted a blog with similar thoughts
I guess in the beginning we find it difficult to admit we just like pain or humiliation. Especially in a committed relationship however it becomes very negative and depressing that it requires a failure to drive a treatment. It was quite liberating to admit that I liked to torture my pet even when she had done nothing wrong, and it was liberating to her to receive that without any negative thought. In fact it was much hotter to both to just "go" for no other reason than to inflict pain.
I also share your thoughts on blackmail. In my opinion it's a bad thing. I have reasons which I plan to write a blog on because it's quite elaborate but I need to find the time todo that.Posted 09-29-2017 at 09:38 AM by sir sam
Updated 09-29-2017 at 09:59 AM by lola.fox