I can't cum
Posted 06-02-2017 at 12:58 AM by andrew_b
Okay firstly I want to start by saying this isn't something about denial, I wish it was. It's a more serious issue than that.
For as long as I've known I have been able to cum whether masturbating or having sex, the only way it'll come out is by having wet dreams or when I pee.
I had told a getDare member about this years ago and he suggested telling a doctor about it, well I was too nervous to do it at the time. It took me a long time but I eventually did it this year.
After having a conversation with my doctor she got my an appointment at the hospital to get it checked and I was glad to finally have it looked into. Although after numerous tests they said in the end there is nothing they can do for me.
Basically what is happening instead of it coming out it goes into my bladder, so the long and short of it I'm never going to cum in the traditional way but also means I'm never going to have an orgasm.
To add to this if I want to had kids or maybe just one. I've go to a fertility clinic and basically it's going to be a little expensive. I mean I'm glad it's possible but just an extra frustration.
I know not many people will read this but for any of you who read the whole way through cause ever since I've found out about this I can't stopping thinking about it. It's very hard to accept. Thank you so much for taking the time to read this
For as long as I've known I have been able to cum whether masturbating or having sex, the only way it'll come out is by having wet dreams or when I pee.
I had told a getDare member about this years ago and he suggested telling a doctor about it, well I was too nervous to do it at the time. It took me a long time but I eventually did it this year.
After having a conversation with my doctor she got my an appointment at the hospital to get it checked and I was glad to finally have it looked into. Although after numerous tests they said in the end there is nothing they can do for me.
Basically what is happening instead of it coming out it goes into my bladder, so the long and short of it I'm never going to cum in the traditional way but also means I'm never going to have an orgasm.
To add to this if I want to had kids or maybe just one. I've go to a fertility clinic and basically it's going to be a little expensive. I mean I'm glad it's possible but just an extra frustration.
I know not many people will read this but for any of you who read the whole way through cause ever since I've found out about this I can't stopping thinking about it. It's very hard to accept. Thank you so much for taking the time to read this
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Posted 06-02-2017 at 03:38 AM by sir sam -
Posted 06-02-2017 at 04:33 AM by Cstelle -
Posted 06-02-2017 at 06:26 AM by wolf82 -
Posted 06-04-2017 at 11:34 AM by andrew_b -
Posted 06-04-2017 at 11:35 AM by andrew_b -
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IVF is certainly an option, even if it's expensivePosted 06-04-2017 at 11:37 AM by andrew_b -
Posted 07-31-2017 at 02:59 PM by Eager26 -
Posted 03-10-2018 at 05:10 PM by andrew_b -
First as someone who has lately been avoiding the doctor... kudos to you to having the courage. I haven't had my period since July and it scares me shit less to go to the doctor to see of its stress or my body. So for having that courage, please try to give it to yourself. It takes a lot to tell a doctor when something that personal is wrong.
Second, I know we don't really talk much, but if you ever need to talk, vent, word vomit, pm me and I will read it as soon as I can. I have some people I can do that with and I know it helps alot to even know that people to offer to be there.Posted 03-10-2018 at 08:31 PM by Wedgiebondagebabe -
Quote:First as someone who has lately been avoiding the doctor... kudos to you to having the courage. I haven't had my period since July and it scares me shit less to go to the doctor to see of its stress or my body. So for having that courage, please try to give it to yourself. It takes a lot to tell a doctor when something that personal is wrong.
Second, I know we don't really talk much, but if you ever need to talk, vent, word vomit, pm me and I will read it as soon as I can. I have some people I can do that with and I know it helps alot to even know that people to offer to be there.
The same goes for you if you'd like to talkPosted 03-13-2018 at 01:09 AM by andrew_b