So I have no real reason behind this blog, other than I havent written for quite a while. I was racking my brain for something to write about. Well, realistically I have two topics to choose from without too much thought. And as one of my subjects (and no, I am not claiming royalty... this time, I meant blog subjects) is on vacation, I decided to spend some of the time I am not spending with her on her instead, or at least writing about her.

I think, on reflection, the exceptionally...

No matter how long you have been playing with your partner or how well you know them, there is always the potential of play going wrong. It could be circumstances you weren't aware of, or your sub or dom reacting the opposite way you had hoped for or it could even just be one of those things and seem like there is no reason for it.

So what happens when it's not the sub who gets it wrong, but the dom? We see so often accounts of subs not being able to do something or feeling lousy because...

Jaro recently asked Butterfly and I why we both like to deny him so much. Butterfly already posted a lovely blog here in response.

My reasons are pretty similiar. Why do I enjoy it?
Because it is fun to watch him squirm. To see/hear him beg to be allowed release, only to be told a big fat no. It amuses me when he offers us things of his own accord in the hope we will trade that in exchange for allowing him to touch/orgasm.

Of course, we can and do often order him...

This was written by myself and AM, I am pink and he is black.

I have quite a bit of experience as both a sub and domme and have engaged in many play times over the years along with being very willing to try out any new fantasy or curiosity that pops into my head, even when I am nervous scared or anxious. I have a couple of play partners AM has approved of me playing with in person until we can physically be together. Sometimes I will have a scene with them alone and other times AM will...

On the first day of Christmas, my Sir did give to me:
One orgasm for loving him.

Yay, orgasms! Orgasms are fun. I wasn't restricted from porn at the time of this orgasm so I got myself nice and horny with my wand while watching some of my favourite kink videos before I allowed myself an orgasm. The bad news is my wand is on its last legs and I have to hold the wire in a specific position for the wand to work. I really hope it lasts until after Christmas when I can get a new one!...

Dare - I had to check my mail while just wearing bra, panties, dressing gown and heels.....)


Well I just completed this dare..... It was the 1st time I have ever worn heels outside my apartment! I put on my matching yellow bra & panties and dressing gown. Then put on my heels (the heel is 11cm or a little over 4 inch's..) Then I got ready to go out my door. It was really scary! Took me a while before I went out the door, I kept hearing sounds of people moving about, doors opening......

I don't really make new year resolutions because I have learned over the years I give up on most of them by the end of January, despite my best efforts and intentions to follow them. I also started to question why I needed to make them as new year resloutions, why couldn't I better myself at any time throughout the year?

So for this coming year I do have goals and hopes but I have deliberately left them vauge enough to allow some leniency with them, whether that be because I am tired and...