Understanding folks indeed!
1. Have you met any of those bullies after you grew up? If yes, how did it go?
2. After you realized you were into it, did you actively search for occasions to have the bullying happen or was it always a bad experience for you, until you started doing it by your choice?
3. Do you consider tack bra and panties needle play? If not, have you experienced with that, maybe coating the tacks/needles with hot sauce?
4. Feet soles pain (bastinados and such) is usually really effective. Is it like that for you or do you feel like it doesn't give you much of a thrill either?
5. What are two games that you consider wildly overrated? And underrated?
If the bullies questions make you too uncomfortable, pretend I didn't ask and drop them no problem