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Originally Posted by Maggy
Glad to know I'm not just talking rubbish. I actually, for a while, thought it was unusual that one could become so dependant on a fetish for degradation just to have a successfull relationship; that there might be something wrong with me.
A while ago, however, I watched a movie that- when it comes to an addiction to bdsm- describes things pretty accurately. If anyone's having doubts about wether or not one could try something like this and be able to give it up, I strongly suggest you watch Secretary, based on the short story "Bad Behaviour" by Mary Gaitskill. If ever there was a generic biography for the lives of those trapped in this bdsm world, this would be it.
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I know people RL from the lifestyle that because of reasons xy or z and often starting too early they now cant experience sexual satisfaction in "normal" circumstances, some in a far more severe way than others so yea its a very real thing.