... One simply wonders about your defenitions of 'real'... Amongst a host of other things.
Some small tips- Here are some threads you may want to read.
A very good thread is
Jenna <3's "What a good ad is made of" and of course
Depp's "Want people to take your ad seriously?"
Perhaps you'll find some useful information in my thread,
'How to not be a Dumbinant', wich you can find linked from my signature -
More good reads on Dominance and Submission can be found in
Chloe's 'threads of note' thread - a very informative subthread being
'What it means to be a Master', by Star Shadows.