Chastity Device

[AmberCrystal88]

I've been searching for a good chastity device for quite some time and thought I may come here looking for help.

I've had a CB-6000 but it's too small. Obvious it's supposed to be tight and uncomfortable when you get hard, yes, but... I barely fit when I'm soft and when I do get hard it just starts pushing the device off which is then very painful in other areas. When I finally go soft again I find myself almost all the way pushed out of the device and I can't adjust myself to get back in.

Most of the others I've found, cheap or expensive, are either smaller than or the same size as the CB-6000. The few I found that were bigger were just barely bigger so it likely wouldn't make much of a difference anyway, or they got horrible reviews and had pinch points.

Any suggestions on a chastity device for a girthy grower?

[ChubbyShySissy]

I think this website (https://www.houseofdenial.com/collections/metal-chastity-devices) should help, price-wise, it's what I use and I'm sure they can deliver to the US. I only have experience with metal cages and I've never had to big a problem with them. I've found that if you have to squeeze to get into one while soft then it means you can't actually get hard making it a better chastity cage and more comfortable for long term usage. If you have room to grow then it will try to actually grow and start pinching. I hope this helps!

[Cstelle]

I've had a CB-6000 but it's too small. Obvious it's supposed to be tight and uncomfortable when you get hard, yes, but... I barely fit when I'm soft and when I do get hard it just starts pushing the device off which is then very painful in other areas.

I have the same girth problem with my CB6000! My solution was to use more/a better water-based lubricant. As for the problem of the cage being pushed out - perhaps a tighter ring?

But probably you just need to find another model...

[xJohnSmithx]

Locked in lust!

They have a cage called the vice, I have mine and i love it.

Super comfy, and they have 3 sizes and a sizing chart on their website. Kik me if you want more info.

[Scrap]

Having been in chastity off and on for the last 15 years, I've learned a thing or two, mostly the hard way (pun intended).

First, girth. I used to have similar problems as described, and agree that more lubricant when putting it on helps. Ice/cold applied to the penis, and putting it on a bit after orgasm also helps. The trick is to get as much blood OUT of your member as possible. Once the cage is in place, a properly fitted chastity device will keep you from getting hard.

Second, "pushing and pulling". Also previously mentioned, use a smaller ring and smaller spacer. These help keep your penis from getting as hard, and give it less room to maneuver. The CB-x style devices also have an 'anti-pullout' addition you can purchase, as well as various other implements of destruction to... "discourage" Willy from trying to wake up.

I did a post giving some advice to a first time chastity dabbler over in KT... might be helpful, or not...

http://www.kinktalk.com/talk/showthread.php?p=104110#post104110

[Greatcornbow]

I've been searching for a good chastity device for quite some time and thought I may come here looking for help.

I've had a CB-6000 but it's too small. Obvious it's supposed to be tight and uncomfortable when you get hard, yes, but... I barely fit when I'm soft and when I do get hard it just starts pushing the device off which is then very painful in other areas. When I finally go soft again I find myself almost all the way pushed out of the device and I can't adjust myself to get back in.

Most of the others I've found, cheap or expensive, are either smaller than or the same size as the CB-6000. The few I found that were bigger were just barely bigger so it likely wouldn't make much of a difference anyway, or they got horrible reviews and had pinch points.

Any suggestions on a chastity device for a girthy grower?


I'd say Mature Metal. Something like the Jail Bird or Queen's Keep.

Is here: https://www.maturemetal.com/

Have you a key holder lined up?

[Consensus]

This is a really helpful thread and I am glad that it exists.

I find myself with some extra budget unexpectedly this year and I have been thinking about chastity for a long time. However, I would be a 'first-timer'. Also, I have no key-holder lined up and would anticipate not having one.

I have a family though and would need something that is unobtrusive and easy to hide without it making too much noise or drawing attention to itself. It's been a two year drought so far, I anticipate it will stretch much further yet, and I was looking for something to kink it up at least.

So... yeah. What options would there be for a first timer? I was looking at the following but would be interested in the views of people who have more experience than I:

1. https://www.houseofdenial.com/products/black-hod-cock-cup-v1
2. https://www.houseofdenial.com/products/pink-holy-trainer-v2-chastity-device

Are these any good? What are the pitfalls they may offer?

Sorry to hijack such a good thread.

[amethyst353]

So... yeah. What options would there be for a first timer?

https://www.sub-shop.com/collections/male-chastity-9-95-or-less/products/black-balled-locking-cock-ball-chastity-set-b-black-friday-blowout-b

This is on a big sale and comes with three different sized rings.

[Consensus]

That's a great price. Alas, the shipping makes it more expensive than the option of House of Denial (as I am UK-based). Still, the similarity of that to the options I had seen suggests that I have chosen semi-well.

Thank you.

[Jaro]

Thank you for this thread. I too would like to have a proper chastity device. I have one now, but it's silicone, comes off extremely easily and gets really painful when I get hard. Yes there is a bit or room to grow and if I understood correctly there really shouldn't be any room to grow?

I'm still confused though as to how it can prevent growing. If it grows it grows right? I can't sleep with a device as night time erections just happen and it's incredibly painful! So I'm thinking there will be some real damage if it grows in a tight steel cage.

I'm also looking for something that is actually hard to get off without the key. I'm not sure if such a cage exists since I read in multiple sources that all can be gotten out of with at least some effort.

Right now I'm thinking one of these metal cages that were suggested with a custom fit would be my best bet?

[Consensus]

So I thought I would come back here.

It's been a long time for me now, long for me, being over four days (possibly over five? I'm losing track). And I have some things to say.

Firstly, I ended up going for the Holy Trainer V2 and agree that the more blood out of the member to begin with the better. Secondly, girth. It is an issue but, and this is a big but, it can be managed by simply applying the tube correctly and quickly. I found delaying between the ring and the tube helps a great deal. Thirdly, I have to use the biggest ring. I can't wriggle out at all, but the smaller rings left marks when I tried one back in summer and prevented me sleeping. Hence the use of the largest ring this time.

What I would like to ask, and my reason for posting in here after such a long time, is what are the best ways of preventing it just clouding your mind? I'm fine at work, but I could do with something to help me in the evenings and in the mornings.

[pixie.dust]

I have not had good luck with cages in the past, I have one now that kind of works. I think it is too long though as my thingy can fill it out, but yet it shrinks up on me. I won't wear it unless I have a Dom(me) that requires it of me. I don't know, maybe if I had a custom made one it would work out.

- little alexis