[Runesmith]

General questions:
Is it more embarrassing for a male or female to go to a sex shop?
Why should they be embarrassed to go to a sex shop? Are people embarrassed to go to the grocery?
Is it more embarrassing to have a male or a female as a shop clerk?
Neither is embarrassing.
Is it more embarrassing for a man to buy dildos/vibrators or for a woman?
No. It's perfectly normal to buy sex toys.
Is it more embarrassing for a man to buy bondage gear or for a woman?
No. Bondage is nothing to be ashamed of.
Which is more embarrassing buying panties or stocking as a guy?
No. I routinely buy panties and stockings for my sex partners because I end up ruining them.

Personal questions:
Have you ever been to a sex shop?
Of course.
Do you/Would you get embarrassed when entering the store?
No. And I don't get embarrassed going in to hardware stores or the bank either.
Do you/Would you get embarrassed when asking the clerk to help you find a toy (dildo, vibe,...)?
No. They are there to help. Although I rarely ask because they tend to be less informed than you think.
Do you/Would you get embarrassed when buying panties or stockings?
No. Go buy them already, for heaven's sake!