First off, you have to sit her down and explain it all clearly. You'll both be nervous so take notes so you don't forget your talking points. Also make sure you have some reading material for your both, this lifestyle is one of trust and experimentation so you want to be as prepared as possible with as much knowledge as you can get. Next show her resources and even examples of the types of things she can do to be more of a Domme/Mistress to you. And most importantly communicate openly together no matter how embarrassed either of you gets.
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"...I have no precious time at all to spend,
Nor serviced to do till you require.
Nor dare I chide the world-without-end hour
Whilst I, my sovereign, watch the clock for you
Nor think the bitterness of absence sour"
From Shakespeare's Sonnet 57
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Ask me stuff, I'll answer
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