[Azyliux]

I kinda assumed that two or more lists was standard and that lists in signatures/blogs here on getDare only reflect a quick summary of limits for casual play and that other perhaps less restrictive limits would be used or negotiated for trusted partners or longer term commitments.

An example being pictures which many have in their signature as a limit but are willing to allow in certain situations.

Maybe part of this assumption of mine is from experience in offline meat-world play where people don't wander around with convenient labels listing their kinks and limits. Starting every play session or relationship starts with at least a quick conversation around limits. The more involved the play, the longer the discussion. Having entered into a number of long term D/s relationships over the years, all of them have had a written agreement on the arrangement including expections, limits, safewords and more. This would never be a standard agreement but something negotiated specifically for the two people involved.