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Originally Posted by iluvXTRMcbt
maybe just maybe the one that is causing you all the problems is not a slave but a submissive. There is a difference even tho I have found most online Masters and Mistresses not to reconize those differences.
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There is a lot written about the differences between a submissive and a slave, but it's no always used in the practique, a good sample is this forum, where you place ads looking for 'slaves or Masters', to some people in the lifestyle is just a matter of names, some people uses the term 'slave' even when they know that they are not using it according to 'part' of the community standards, some people just have not read or thought about the differences, and finally, some people are very strict about that.
You could say that a slave is a submissive whose limits are just his/her Masters' limits, but there are more complete definitions out there, most of them describe an utopia. Anyway, being a submissive or a slave, not every submissive is for every Dominant.