Do You Like Receiving PM Dares?

[Apogee]

1. Do you like it when people send you PM dares out of the blue?
Yup, I like being "forced" into doing dares spontaneously, I like it when people just take control and start giving me orders and PM dares kinda replicate that to some extent
2. Do you like your own PM dares?
I like them as PM dares. I wouldn't enjoy or want to do all of them, especially the cumulative PM dares, but the fun of it is being forced/ordered to do things I wouldnt normally want to do
3. Would you tell people you liked doing a dare even if you actually didn't, just to be polite? Probably not, being honest is important

[MarvHarvey]

Originally Posted by Sola the Ichinensei

Just a simple question I'd love to hear your honest thoughts about. To elaborate more perhaps:

1. Do you like it when people send you PM dares out of the blue?
2. Do you like your own PM dares?
3. Would you tell people you liked doing a dare even if you actually didn't, just to be polite?

1. Oh yes, that makes it a bit more fun. To have that surprise when you haven't even been online much for weeks, or to have a complete stranger that you never heard of giving you orders - how is that not hot! You can even think of it as laying yourself open and vulnerable to anyone to give you something to do: maybe fun, maybe easy (like sending more PM dares) or maybe a challenge that will make you work or suffer a bit.

How many thousand potential members/masters? LOL. I know I sometimes toss a few PM Dares at people I don't know, or at newbies, or anyone, just for fun. Most are thrilled at the attention and the surprise. A very few I never hear from - but if I don't get reports then I never send more.


2. For the most part I like something about them, or I change them. Sometimes preferences change, and so there may be old ones that I don't like any more, so I delete them when I find them. Some are just things to do and be involved, or because other people seem to like giving them, but there are others that I try to make on the edge of comfortable, and not too easy, or else they are not dares.


3. Honesty helps everyone have more fun in the end. An honest report on how a dare went is usually a good thing, and indeed they wouldn't be dares if they were not sometimes hard or things we didn't really like or want to do! But if it doesn't work out, then you should both tell the other person and change the dare, IMHO.


AND
These are nice questions to ask about. Good work. PM Dares are handy for everyone to have at least a few.

[churroboy101]

1. Do you like it when people send you PM dares out of the blue?
yes I find them more exciting when there out of the blue and not from people in scenarios that have meant I have asked for them [e.g. from the thread a while ago trying to keep a constant chain of pm dares or the person above threads]. and the combos [at least from the list I have] people come up with are much more fun cause time was taken to look through the dare list to find ones that are well suited of more challenging to do together. I find that pm dare that come from a thread are always rushed and the only dares I end up doing from those people are which ever dares are the quickest to read and simplest to understand [not all the time but on the whole].

2. Do you like your own PM dares?
well I like some of my pm dare, but in my case my irl owner enjoys some of them way more then I do which is fine by me as long as she's happy. its difficult to balance these out. she likes dares that make me uncomfortable like slight pain and the chore style dares [or dares that make chores harder or embarrassing]. there is a certain thrill I get from those dares but my preferred dares or either bondage or pet play.

3. Would you tell people you liked doing a dare even if you actually didn't, just to be polite?
if its on my pm dare list I get some level of enjoyment out of it, it its a unique or custom dare then i'd talk to them and my mistress about it. if my mistress dosent like it then its a no go. I report if requested afterwards and if I didn't like it then I wouldn't do it again

I hope I was helpful

[poetrylover828]

1. Do you like it when people send you PM dares out of the blue? No because I’m not interested in random dares being sent without permission. If someone messages me offering to give me a date or asking me for a date I find it rather annoying. I’ve noted in my profile that I have no interest in either.
2. Do you like your own PM dares? If one day I decided to set up dates I would make sure it was things I gained some enjoyment from. But I don’t have any set and I don’t want pm dares.
3. Would you tell people you liked doing a dare even if you actually didn't, just to be polite? I would not. If I ever get into pm dares and I get sent one that is pushing limits I also would flat out refuse.

[Dublin Dares]

1. Do you like it when people send you PM dares out of the blue?

Yes, I love the rush of adrenalin I get when asked to strip and I need to find a way to do it asap, for instance. PM dares are fun but can also be a good stretch from what I would actually do if I stopped to think first!

2. Do you like your own PM dares?

Yes, of course so far so good but I'm new to dares so figuring out what works or not. Mostly, it works.


3. Would you tell people you liked doing a dare even if you actually didn't, just to be polite?
I'm more likely to tell a dare master if I'm enjoying the dare and how we communicate that discuss what doesn't. I'm a people pleaser and I don't want to offend. I'm surprised not more subs responded the same thing tbh!!

[Yourchoice]

There is something intriguing about the randomness of having a female just send a dare. I always do them as soon as I can, if possible and relatively safe...and not illegal

[BastyTheKitty]

1. Do you like it when people send you PM dares out of the blue?
I enjoy the completely random PM dares and if I didn't I wouldn't have them. There's just something exciting about checking GD and seeing a new PM with a dare in it.

2. Do you like your own PM dares?
I'm assuming you're asking about the PM dares I've listed in my blog that people can give me. Same as above, I like them a lot and if I don't then it gets removed from my list. I tend to go back with new ideas to add or change things around a bit, but I am running out of create names for my dares. To a point where two of them are almost identical and I didn't even notice.

3. Would you tell people you liked doing a dare even if you actually didn't, just to be polite?
Most of the time, I won't tell someone I don't like doing a dare. I won't say I do like it, but I generally don't respond that I didn't like it or didn't do it. Depending on my mood or a specific detail about it I can't/won't do, I might send a message back trying to explain politely.

[Cueball9802]

1. Do you like it when people send you PM dares out of the blue? Yes, always exciting when hoping on to see if anyone has decided to send one.

2. Do you like your own PM dares? Yes, I've done each of them in one form or another and enjoy them. My only concern is with certain ones while at work.

3. Would you tell people you liked doing a dare even if you actually didn't, just to be polite? Yes, as I said, I've done all of these in one form or another and enjoy them, some obviously more than others but if I didn't like then I would remove them.

[Hambone]

1. Do you like it when people send you PM dares out of the blue? Haven't got any
2. Do you like your own PM dares? none given
3. Would you tell people you liked doing a dare even if you actually didn't, just to be polite? No, I believe in being completely honest.

[LitDarkness]

1. Do you like it when people send you PM dares out of the blue? If it is one on my list, yes I do. That is what it is there for.
2. Do you like your own PM dares?Most. I don't add many dislikes to my pm dares, but you probably could find some if you looked hard enough. If I had a problem with any, they wouldn't stay on the list.
3. Would you tell people you liked doing a dare even if you actually didn't, just to be polite?No, I would rather be honest.

[jehoftm]

1. Do you like it when people send you PM dares out of the blue?
Yes!! I wish it happened more, I truly love this!


2. Do you like your own PM dares?
Yeah that's why I picked them!


3. Would you tell people you liked doing a dare even if you actually didn't, just to be polite?
No, if I didn't like doing it I'd just say so, honesty is important

[bluedieblub]

1. Do you like it when people send you PM dares out of the blue? It depends. If they are trying to make a more meaningfull contact, yes. Otherwise, its "eh".
2. Do you like your own PM dares? I like most of them. I do have to clean it up a bit though.
3. Would you tell people you liked doing a dare even if you actually didn't, just to be polite?
No I wouldn't. I would probably thank them for putting in the effort, but I would be honest.

[Damaris]

1. Do you like it when people send you PM dares out of the blue?
Not much experience, but I would. I guess preferably from people with whom I have a certain rapport, so that we're on the same wavelength from the get-go.

2. Do you like your own PM dares?
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3. Would you tell people you liked doing a dare even if you actually didn't, just to be polite?
I'd rather avoid disappointing people at all (including myself) by roughly establishing some boundaries first.

[CarmenCD]

1. Do you like it when people send you PM dares out of the blue?
Yes I do. It's one of the reasons why I did my pm list. I'm also open to new suggestions inside my limits.

2. Do you like your own PM dares?
Yes I like them and when I'll get bored with some of them, I'll change them.

3. Would you tell people you liked doing a dare even if you actually didn't, just to be polite?
When I do a dare, I always write a report and send it to a person who gave me a dare. It's always honest and sender can see what I like or not and how I respond to certain situations.
I'm always polite, but I also tell people in a nice way if I don't like something or can't do it as the sender imagined it, so we can change it to both satisfaction.

[bondboyaaron]

1. Yes

2. I like some and some i dont like and others are eh.

3. No