Black out after bondage

[Thifr]

Hi everyone,

I just came back from a bondage session with a Dom. Nothing special, I was up on my knees, ankles ties together to a pole, and hands tied together, behind my back, but pulled in tention upwards, u see the scene.

Was really my first time in real bondage, I was not able to move really. It was what I was looking for, the feeling of helpless, the mind free, the pain to hold this predicament bondage...

I hold 40 minutes, mores or less, my hands were numb. I called my Dom to untie me. He did quickly. But while he was untie my ankles (he began with my hands) I "felt asleep", my head just fell, I thought I slept a few minutes, but it just lasted a few seconds. I just had a black out

Did you already had this kind of experience ?

I'm not unhappy, I'll certainly do it again, with an other position, or something easier, but I'd like to have your experiences...

[Thifr]

It can help someone one day so yes, blackout happens sometimes in bondage. Because of the stress, the adrenaline, the predicament position, the body can decide to shut down.

More info here :
http://mistressayn.com/blog/passing-...emdom-session/

[FoxLaFire]

I would assume the position. If you're bent over like that, at least that's what I'm picturing, it becomes difficult for your diaphragm to expand over time. 40 minutes is a long time and that's really on the top who put you in that position for so long. I'm sorry you experienced this

[JamieDarkheart]

I've heard of this happening. I hope it happens to me eventually as well.
My guess is that your blood pressure changed suddenly once you're arms were released - having them up like that for 40 minutes is seriously no joke!

[Sabina]

I hope more posts like these, to read in future for safety

I agree with Jamie of the position very intense (was it like strappado? It is one Spanish torture from what I know)
So probable 40 minute was too long time and generaly bothe the sub and most often the Dom/Domme must be careful of the body condition of the sub.
Having this blackout I would consider as a major mistake and be careful for future to never happen again.
In this I disagree with Jamie who hopes to experience it herself.

I would be more cautious on this!


In personal real life, no I not experienced it on myself, but some similar was to a girlfriend sub while I was Domming her.

The position was entire different, but I describe because it can be helpful for other and avoid same mistake/danger

She was standing on tip of her toes, with ankle and knees tied under and above, and arms tied at back, and crotch rope pulling knots at her labia.
Addition was the rope tied around of tits and final touch was the wood clothes pegs with little bells she had to jiggle and jingle

I was all time near her, so could hold her and lay gentle on floor and untie her quick with no trouble, but scissors was ready handy to cut ropes if was needed for safety.

Probable, becouse very hot Tuscany August weather, and the stress of pegs on tied nipple added at erotique situation did it all.


One more aspect is more psychological:
When more tranquil, in my arms and cuddle, she was near of weeping becouse she felt like she ruined the session.
I say: safety and well being of the sub ALWAYS come first
If you as sub is feeling this or your sub is feeling guilty, explain at her/he this simple thing. Safety and well being is first. And if she stops, or use the safe word (if is really necessary!) she have nothing to feel guilty about.
Instead, run away from any self defined Dom/Domme who think different becouse it is not BDSM, it is ABUSE.

it is a game with rules and must be fun for all people involved, not only few.
And generaly who is in charge is at service of who is submissive, not opposite
It is matter of maturity and respect

If any body else like to share her real life experience is good
Thank everybody and excuse my bad grammar

Miss Sabina

[selfbondage]

As i do Bondage shows at events and for video productions and usually pretty
extreme bondage, going to the limit, i have or come close to these situations
situations drom time to time.
Even if playing/less hard it can happen that you come to your limit. From what
the autor wrote, it doesn't sound to me scared or annoyed and the dom untied
him fast - which is good.

40 minutes in a difficult position is a lot and at some point the dom need to
decide it is enough as his victim might not be able to realise it anymore.
Like with tighter rope bondage on elbows and biceps - the tied person can't
tell if everything is allright if hads are numb. The dom need to check and have
the knownledge to see if bloodflow is reduces or blocked, big different and not
to speak about nerve damage.

When i tie someone into a real tight and uncomfy hogtie it is usually about
endurance for the victim and concentration for me, i have to see in a second
when time has come to get out. The untying process is very important after
intense play, the start of aftercare and welcome to normal comfy world.. lol

Boundcon event:

https://www.mediafire.com/view/wqp9b...00035.jpg/file

Anyway after this long session it is important to untie in a smart way and don't
produce the effect you have when you jump up from bed right after getting
awake.

Not having been there, hard to tell but i think nothing too bad happened,
if you don't like, play with different people or slow down.
When i play in privat i allways think twice with whom as i am the responsible
part during play and after play.

Being careful is important, but people are different and so their kink and
limts are different. I do this since about 30 years and never ever damaged
anyone.

So find your own limit to have kinky fun - enjoy

[Sabina]

Thank Mario of your expert and professional comment after my invitation to share your knowledge with us.
I think it bring this thread at upper level and many shall be curious about the untie process, to avoid to remove ropes is done too quick or wrong way, and create a sudden drop in blood pressure and faint or lose consciousness of the tied person (oh I adore when you use word “victim” about the tied submissive!)

Shoulde you like to give some recommendation, I belive many members woulde appreciate and be thankful to you!

Of course, nothing replace a rope bondage study and to join a class, this both can be useful for rope bunnies and for learning riggers or who only want to improve the techniques.

Very nice the photo you shared of one of your shows too!

Thank again and take care
Miss Sabina