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Old 10-17-2021, 03:38 PM   #16
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Yeh can't really think of many other rougelikes that I would have played

Most of my fantasies usually involve me being 'humiliated' so like sph, cuckold type stuff, degrading name calling, I enjoy reading a lot of the more extreme stuff like toilet dares and public exposure but I ain't got balls big enough to try
Is that part of why you're here? To be coaxed bit by bit into those things?
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Old 10-17-2021, 03:39 PM   #17
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Is that part of why you're here? To be coaxed bit by bit into those things?
Haha maybe I don't really know, just looking for a fun way to pass time and meet people
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Old 10-18-2021, 11:01 AM   #18
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Got a lot of free time tonight so will be able to answer anything pretty sharpish
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Old 10-19-2021, 10:25 AM   #19
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Would we class the diablo series as rogue like, if so that

Diablo has elements of a rogue-like but I usually intend it more as the "you get one shot to try and beat the game/permadeath" kind of thing. Binding of Isaac is a pure one, but Hades and Curse of the Dead Gods get really close.

Classifications just do so much in any case, so it's not really important. They are just helpful in communicating but often everyone has a different way of interpreting them, so it's not like it makes it any better haha.

We loved to play Diablo III in 4 players, couch co-op. Was a mess at launch but after they worked on it for so long, it turned out ot be a great game. Nice choice! Also, thinking more about it, in hardcore mode with permadeath it can surely be considered a rogue-like by the standard definition.

First one I ever saw was neon genesis but was too young to take it in, the first one I was proper invested in was.... Sword art online, enjoyed it and opened my eyes to loads of new stuff especially even more isekai trash

Damn. So many people got introduced to animes by Neon Genesis, it always surprises me. It's not the easiest entry point to set foot in, at all. But it just works. That anime is a gem

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Would you ever consider trying to switch to being a dom with someone you care for, if she/he is asking for that?
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Old 10-19-2021, 01:42 PM   #20
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Diablo has elements of a rogue-like but I usually intend it more as the "you get one shot to try and beat the game/permadeath" kind of thing. Binding of Isaac is a pure one, but Hades and Curse of the Dead Gods get really close.

Classifications just do so much in any case, so it's not really important. They are just helpful in communicating but often everyone has a different way of interpreting them, so it's not like it makes it any better haha.
Agreed! Hades was so good! Those are usually called "Rogue-lite" when they include the idea of global progression when you hit certain milestones.

Of course, then that blends into metroidvanias, which take that concept and make it their main thing, with save points rather than starting completely over... heheh, so yeah, categories are pretty blurry things.

Great questions, by the way!
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Old 10-19-2021, 03:47 PM   #21
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The real question here... do you survival mode it on MC or create mode? Personally I'm not a survival kind of player, I'm too lazy to deal with the hassle of creepers and the like... don't play much, but when I do, it's for relaxation.

Any other PC games? mmorpg? LoL? Strategy games?

What table top games?

D&D?
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Old 10-20-2021, 10:50 AM   #22
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Would we class the diablo series as rogue like, if so that

Diablo has elements of a rogue-like but I usually intend it more as the "you get one shot to try and beat the game/permadeath" kind of thing. Binding of Isaac is a pure one, but Hades and Curse of the Dead Gods get really close.

Classifications just do so much in any case, so it's not really important. They are just helpful in communicating but often everyone has a different way of interpreting them, so it's not like it makes it any better haha.

We loved to play Diablo III in 4 players, couch co-op. Was a mess at launch but after they worked on it for so long, it turned out ot be a great game. Nice choice! Also, thinking more about it, in hardcore mode with permadeath it can surely be considered a rogue-like by the standard definition.

First one I ever saw was neon genesis but was too young to take it in, the first one I was proper invested in was.... Sword art online, enjoyed it and opened my eyes to loads of new stuff especially even more isekai trash

Damn. So many people got introduced to animes by Neon Genesis, it always surprises me. It's not the easiest entry point to set foot in, at all. But it just works. That anime is a gem

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Have you had sexual experiences with both sexes irl?

When did your taste for submission and humiliation started showing up?

Would you ever consider trying to switch to being a dom with someone you care for, if she/he is asking for that?
Both I guess not had too much experience with either but I think both are fun

Hmm hard to say, maybe something like my partner invites a stranger over, just to humiliate me, and forces me to watch, or maybe they tie me up and I think I'm getting some but in actual fact I'm forced to watch

Yes not actual sex but you know, blowjobs, hand jobs, fingerings etc

I'm not sure a few years ago, probably watched too much porn haha

Yes probably, I have tried domming before but I'm just no good at it

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Old 10-20-2021, 10:54 AM   #23
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The real question here... do you survival mode it on MC or create mode? Personally I'm not a survival kind of player, I'm too lazy to deal with the hassle of creepers and the like... don't play much, but when I do, it's for relaxation.

Any other PC games? mmorpg? LoL? Strategy games?

What table top games?

D&D?
Nah I've played creative a bit but I'm mainly into survival

Yes I'll pretty much get any of the new AAA titles on my PC, tried a few mmos, (wow, swtor) couldn't get too into em, tried out LoL, it's not for me,

To be honest my recall is crap, my mates really into em so he's always got something new, mainly for me though it's Magic the gathering and twilight imperium

Always wanted to try and I've got a few interested friends but no real experienced mates or dms
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Old 10-20-2021, 09:00 PM   #24
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Yes probably, I have tried domming before but I'm just no good at it

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Well... to some extent, dominance and submissiveness are inherent traits, but in the way that masculinity and femininity, or introversion and extroversion are. Everyone has some degree of both sides of all of those aspects of human personality.

Humans in general tend fairly strongly toward being submissive. That's why civilization works; most people will do what they're told, or... basically anything at all to remain accepted by, and thus protected by, their tribe or group.

So while there are things to learn about submission, they're mostly so you know what to expect, and how to stay out of trouble. The actual act of submitting is totally instinctive.

[Loooong tangent, heh] Submission is actually the strangely seldom-mentioned third leg of the fight-flight-submit-posture system in the brain, despite submission and posturing/blustering accounting for the vast majority of the times your limbic system generally activates. How many times have you backed down from someone who blustered and postured big and wide at you and threatened you? How many times have you thrown a hard look at someone, and they didn't escalate, but let you win? How many times have you actually been in a physical fight, either by choice or because some maniac just attacked you without giving you a chance to shirk out of the violence? How many times have you literally run away from another human in legitimate fear/terror? The answers to those questions, for most people, are that submission and posturing account for almost all of the instances in their life in which their limbic system activated, with the very rare (single-digit per lifetime for most people) fight or flight happening.

Anyway, point is, submission is a thing we just know how to do. It's not a skill that's learned, particularly, more like a sensation we grow more comfortable with and accepting of as we experience it more and more.

Domination isn't like that. In a sense, it is, because posturing is also instinctive, but pure posturing only gets you satisficing behavior; it gets the other person to do the minimum required to keep you from hurting them. Domination for purposes other than instilling fear/cowering responses is something that must be learned.

To dominate in just the right way to inspire aroused obedience with an altered state of mind like subspace isn't something that comes naturally to most people... just like dominating in just the right way to inspire gullibility is something a con artist has to learn.


Soooo... all of this is a long-winded way of getting around to saying: Dominance is a skill. Anyone can learn it. Different people have different levels of natural talent, motivation, and inspiration for it, of course, but... would you be willing to learn to help someone you cared about find happiness?


Ummm... and also, check out Roll20.net for tabletop RPG groups. A large portion of tabletop RP is done online on virtual tabletops and chat apps these days, with Covid, like it did for many things, providing the push into making it truly mainstream. Even my local D&D group shifted to online-only for the duration of the pandemic, to avoid cross-contamination between neighborhoods. So I just thought I'd mention that. <_<
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Old 10-26-2021, 11:52 AM   #25
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Well... to some extent, dominance and submissiveness are inherent traits, but in the way that masculinity and femininity, or introversion and extroversion are. Everyone has some degree of both sides of all of those aspects of human personality.

Humans in general tend fairly strongly toward being submissive. That's why civilization works; most people will do what they're told, or... basically anything at all to remain accepted by, and thus protected by, their tribe or group.

So while there are things to learn about submission, they're mostly so you know what to expect, and how to stay out of trouble. The actual act of submitting is totally instinctive.

[Loooong tangent, heh] Submission is actually the strangely seldom-mentioned third leg of the fight-flight-submit-posture system in the brain, despite submission and posturing/blustering accounting for the vast majority of the times your limbic system generally activates. How many times have you backed down from someone who blustered and postured big and wide at you and threatened you? How many times have you thrown a hard look at someone, and they didn't escalate, but let you win? How many times have you actually been in a physical fight, either by choice or because some maniac just attacked you without giving you a chance to shirk out of the violence? How many times have you literally run away from another human in legitimate fear/terror? The answers to those questions, for most people, are that submission and posturing account for almost all of the instances in their life in which their limbic system activated, with the very rare (single-digit per lifetime for most people) fight or flight happening.

Anyway, point is, submission is a thing we just know how to do. It's not a skill that's learned, particularly, more like a sensation we grow more comfortable with and accepting of as we experience it more and more.

Domination isn't like that. In a sense, it is, because posturing is also instinctive, but pure posturing only gets you satisficing behavior; it gets the other person to do the minimum required to keep you from hurting them. Domination for purposes other than instilling fear/cowering responses is something that must be learned.

To dominate in just the right way to inspire aroused obedience with an altered state of mind like subspace isn't something that comes naturally to most people... just like dominating in just the right way to inspire gullibility is something a con artist has to learn.


Soooo... all of this is a long-winded way of getting around to saying: Dominance is a skill. Anyone can learn it. Different people have different levels of natural talent, motivation, and inspiration for it, of course, but... would you be willing to learn to help someone you cared about find happiness?


Ummm... and also, check out Roll20.net for tabletop RPG groups. A large portion of tabletop RP is done online on virtual tabletops and chat apps these days, with Covid, like it did for many things, providing the push into making it truly mainstream. Even my local D&D group shifted to online-only for the duration of the pandemic, to avoid cross-contamination between neighborhoods. So I just thought I'd mention that. <_<
Oh wow haha not sure how to respond to that all haha, I'm a bit simple minded aha, the tabletop thing definitely seems good, I'll give it a try
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Kinda bored, not got much on so, letting people know this is still about and open
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Hi!

Your replies are interesting! Do you prefer playing RPG games?
Do you think gaming PCs are worth it?
PlayStation, Nintendo or XBox?

Would being told to not play games for X time be your most dreaded punishment? Why?
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Hi!

Your replies are interesting! Do you prefer playing RPG games?
Do you think gaming PCs are worth it?
PlayStation, Nintendo or XBox?

Would being told to not play games for X time be your most dreaded punishment? Why?
Not necessarily, I do really enjoy RPGs but only when I've got time to invest in them

Yes, if you have the money, I dropped a couple grand on mine, but it will last for ages and I use it daily not just for gaming but yeh, haven't found a game I can't play on max settings yet

I have all of em, if I had to rank ot would go 1.playstation 2.nintendo 3.xbox
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Oh I missed a question oops, yeh it would be a pretty bad punishment for me, most of my freetime is spent playing games
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What colours do you play in MTG?

Which of the Pokemon games is your favourite?

Do you play any instruments?
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