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Old 07-14-2014, 04:42 PM   #1
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Question How long have you been in denial?

As a sub I have a love/hate relationship with denial.
As a Domme I love the agony/ecstasy that comes with denial for my submissives.

I'd like to know others experiences with it.
Feel free to update as your experience continues/ends.

Questions.
1. How long have you been in denial?

2. Are you in denial by choice or at the request of your Dom/Domme or a dare?

3. Are you using a chastity device (if so, what) or just good old fashioned no touching?

4. Do you like being in denial?

5. When do you expect to be able to end your denial?

6. At what point would you consider yourself in chastity?

7. Have you ever had any fantasies about long term denial/chastity? Tell me about them.

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Old 07-14-2014, 04:53 PM   #2
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1. How long have you been in denial?

I have been in denial since the day Saddi (*waves*) and I started talking, which was 21st May, so I make that 55 whole days in total so far. (Also worth noting that the last time I masturbated was probably two or three days before that, so that would knock up my total to 57 or 58 days.)

2. Are you in denial by choice or at the request of your Dom/Domme or a dare?

Not so much at the request of a Domme; more the order of a Domme

3. Are you using a chastity device (if so, what) or just good old fashioned no touching?

Good ol' fashioned no touching, for now. I hope to get my cage soon.

4. Do you like being in denial?

To use your words, Princess Saddi, it's a love/hate relationship. Sometimes I go for a while without even thinking about it due to distractions, but then sometimes I can't stop thinking about it. I love that it's for you and that it makes you happy

5. When do you expect to be able to end your denial?

I never expect it to end. I sometimes hope it will end at some point, or I'll be allowed a special occasion day off or something, but then, equally, I love being in total 100% chastity 24/7 for you.

6. At what point would you consider yourself in chastity?

I considered myself in chastity from the very start. You don't need a cage to be in chastity. Although it'll become even more 'real' when I do get a cage, as there'll be something on me to always restrict and remind me. I'll never be able to be distracted from it; it'll be a constant thought.

7. Have you ever had any fantasies about long term denial/chastity? Tell me about them.

Before I met you, Princess Saddi, I'd only ever fantasised about it. I loved the idea that my cock would be locked away forever. And then I met you and I craved it even more, and I now it's reality. I like chastity because you want it, and it makes you happy, and because you're also so damn good at teasing and torturing me whilst I'm in denial. Personally, I like the idea of being locked in chastity long-term, with occasional releases for special occasions, but I know it isn't my choice and I will happily be locked up or in denial for as long as you want. I also love the idea of chastity without a cage too, just sometimes, just as a way of me proving my self-restraint to you, to prove how much, like, I don't always need a cage to prove to you that I can resist touching myself to make you happy. If that makes sense xD So many thoughts, rambles! Basically, yeah, chastity is a big deal. I like it, you love it, and that's what matters. 55 days (or 57/58, depending on your POV) and counting. x



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Old 07-15-2014, 03:12 PM   #3
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1. How long have you been in denial?
Not currently, personal record is thirteen days

2. Are you in denial by choice or at the request of your Dom/Domme or a dare?
That was by request of sexting buddy, I've done shorter by choice

3. Are you using a chastity device (if so, what) or just good old fashioned no touching?
For the thirteen days I didn't. I was allowed to touch, and edged quite a bit.

4. Do you like being in denial?
I love it! I get annoyed though because the orgasm afterwards is never as good as it should be. It's like I would rather the denial never end.

5. When do you expect to be able to end your denial?
N/A

6. At what point would you consider yourself in chastity?
I've been experimenting with it for the past few months. My longest straight lockup is sixty hours. I've had weekends with over seventy hours in the cage but I took it off for various reasons at different points. It was a lot more enjoyable the most recent time, but I was getting so bad pains, like chaffing and blood-flow stopping at different points. It seems better after I lost a little bit of weight. It's a normal length Holy Trainer v2 45mm ring.

7. Have you ever had any fantasies about long term denial/chastity? Tell me about them.
I'm actually doing a self-made dare pretty soon here that will at most allow me to orgasm twenty times over the course of twenty weeks. I can't imagine myself being in permanent chastity. I'd say three months at the longest, and that would have to be something I work up to with a partner.
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Old 07-16-2014, 01:52 AM   #4
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1. How long have you been in denial?

5 days.. Which seems pathetically short to others but it feels like a year.

2. Are you in denial by choice or at the request of your Dom/Domme or a dare?

Hmmm... Not sure request of my Domme is the right word. I don't know whether to see this as punishment or motivation and training

3. Are you using a chastity device (if so, what) or just good old fashioned no touching?

Depended on my Dommes mood (Miss Saddi) it's either no touching. Or free to touch and edge or if she's really cruel Ben wa balls and no touching.

4. Do you like being in denial?

Love/hate. I hate being frustrated and horny constantly because I find it so hard to concentrate on much else in my life. But I love being desperate and begging to be told no. I also think it improves my behaviour a lot which pleases my Domme even more. But mostly I enjoy it if my Domme is enjoying it.

5. When do you expect to be able to end your denial?

Tonight!! (I wish) when I am able to beg well on cam. I'm guessing it will have to happen a few times and to be really good.

6. At what point would you consider yourself in chastity?

I've never considered it as chastity. More like denial. I think of chastity as devices for men. But I suppose not being able to touch at all I would consider as chastity.

7. Have you ever had any fantasies about long term denial/chastity? Tell me about them.

I haven't. But over the last few days it's starting to creep in my thoughts a bit. Mostly fearing long term denial rather than wanting it though
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Old 07-16-2014, 02:15 AM   #5
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1. How long have you been in denial?
Currently 16 days, my last orgasm was an accidental ruined one. The longest I have been in denial is 10 weeks

2. Are you in denial by choice or at the request of your Dom/Domme or a dare?
That's a difficult one. I'm being denied by my Domme, who will decide when and if I get to cum again. But of course I submitted control of my orgasms to her by choice in the first place.

3. Are you using a chastity device (if so, what) or just good old fashioned no touching?
I use a chastity device at night (a cb6000) locking myself up before going to bed and releasing myself in the morning. This is necessary now to prevent unauthorised erections during the night and stop accidents. It's not practical to wear it during the day but it's not really necessary.

4. Do you like being in denial
Yes, the thrill of having no control over my own release is addictive. The feeling of helplessness and being totally at the mercy of someone else's whim is probably the most erotic thing that I can imagine.

5. When do you expect to be able to end your denial?
I have no expectations. I'm completely dependant on my Domme for that and she has given me no clue as to if and when I will be allowed an orgasm.

6. At what point would you consider yourself in chastity?
Being in chastity starts as soon as someone else has control of your orgasms.

7. Have you ever had any fantasies about long term denial/chastity? Tell me about them.
I fantasize about chastity and denial all the time. Most of my fantasies are based around being locked in a chastity belt permanently by a woman (or women) who take every opportunity to tease and torment me and make me satisfy them using my mouth or a strap on while never being allowed any release myself.
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Old 07-16-2014, 02:38 AM   #6
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Questions.
1. How long have you been in denial?

like 2 months now.. *drip*

2. Are you in denial by choice or at the request of your Dom/Domme or a dare?

i trapped myself, went from domme to sub cause of a dare and have a mistress now

3. Are you using a chastity device (if so, what) or just good old fashioned no touching?

chastity device - my steel

4. Do you like being in denial?

love/hate relationship

5. When do you expect to be able to end your denial?

maybe i get my next orgasm in 4 monthīs, locked back in chastity and get the chance to orgasm every 3 months.

6. At what point would you consider yourself in chastity?

being locked in a chastity device and not owning the key!

7. Have you ever had any fantasies about long term denial/chastity? Tell me about them.

dreamed about so many times.. and now itīs terrible true
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Old 07-16-2014, 07:26 AM   #7
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1. How long have you been in denial?
That all kind of depends on which denial you're talking about. If we're talking about denial of touching at all that would be 5 days now, denial of orgasms about a week.

2. Are you in denial by choice or at the request of your Dom/Domme or a dare?
That's a little difficult to answer because technically by definition, I don't actually have a domme BUT I am in denial because of the request/and one of my rules given by my Mistress. I know it's kind of hard to explain how I don't have a domme but I have Mistress but just trust me on this.

3. Are you using a chastity device (if so, what) or just good old fashioned no touching?
I don't have the money to buy a chastity belt, although I will say it is a toy I hope to own some day. But since I don't have those resources I do the old-fashioned no touchy without permission.

4. Do you like being in denial?
Like everybody else denial is a love/hate relationship. Before I was put in denial I would usually masturbate on a daily basis so it has been kind of difficult for me and the desire to be able to touch myself is almost insatiable sometimes. However, I do persevere and obey my rule because the love of being in denial is because I know it makes my Mistress happy, and I do everything in my abilities to please her.

5. When do you expect to be able to end your denial?
As you can tell by my previous answers, I honestly don't know that is up for my Mistress to decide. I can say this is the first time I've been in, what I would assume is, long-term denial by her. However, I trust my Mistress whole-heartedly and she will decide the right time, by her terms, when to end my denial.

6. At what point would you consider yourself in chastity?
For me that's a little bit of a difficult question. Chastity has never been one of my likes yet I've given my Mistress control over when I can masturbate and cum and usually my dislikes aren't taken into consideration. I think for me chastity beings when that device is snapped onto you and you give the key to somebody to control it. I may be totally wrong but that's how I see it.

7. Have you ever had any fantasies about long term denial/chastity? Tell me about them.
I have actually but they are merely fantasy. There isn't much detail except for putting on a chastity belt, locking it, and mailing the key to whoever is dominating me a the time so they have the power to decide of when I can be unlocked.
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Old 07-17-2014, 02:59 PM   #8
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1. How long have you been in denial?
Not currently, but I have something coming up so I'll be starting pretty soon for about two weeks. The longest I've been in denial was 22 days.

2. Are you in denial by choice or at the request of your Dom/Domme or a dare?
I've never had a dom(me) so it's always been by choice. I feel like it helps to prepare myself and establish control over my body. It's surprisingly a good feeling having that ability to control yourself. I've been in denial once due to a dare and had to get permission from someone to cum, which took what seemed forever!

3. Are you using a chastity device (if so, what) or just good old fashioned no touching?
This is the difference between what I consider denial and what others may consider denial. I don't use a chastity device when in denial. However I do allow myself to touch and edge (the punishment is severe if I accidentally cum, don't worry). I think being able to edge and touch only increases the humiliation of being in denial yet also the amount of willpower and determination to keep yourself in denial. Knowing you can be that close and still not cum takes serious determination. And it hurts lol.

4. Do you like being in denial?
I think I may have jumped the gun with this one with the above answers - but mainly yes. I like the feel of being dependent upon something else.

5. When do you expect to be able to end your denial?
Not currently in denial, but again, I'm looking for about two weeeks.

6. At what point would you consider yourself in chastity?
There a few a factors: not being able to touch at all, and waiting for someone else to determine the length, permission, etc. If someone else is controlling your denial (which I wouldn't mind at all) then that's chastity.

7. Have you ever had any fantasies about long term denial/chastity? Tell me about them.
Nope, none yet.

Thanks for an awesome thread! Hope my answers help!
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Old 07-22-2014, 06:34 AM   #9
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Questions.
1. How long have you been in denial?

I am currently not in Denial but last was 21 day

2. Are you in denial by choice or at the request of your Dom/Domme or a dare?

Last was by choice first time ever was by being ordered by my Domme she bought me a CB3000. Other times either a GD thread or with my Muse when she kept me in Denail for a month three times in a row!

3. Are you using a chastity device (if so, what) or just good old fashioned no touching?

Both, while the CB is good and it reminds you at all times you are in Chasity it wakes me at night, self control is also a fun mind fuck

4. Do you like being in denial?

Love / Hate for the right person it is love


5. When do you expect to be able to end your denial?

N/A

6. At what point would you consider yourself in chastity?

When either told to by a Domme or when making a concious decision to follow a set of orders

7. Have you ever had any fantasies about long term denial/chastity? Tell me about them.[/QUOTE]

Yes kept in Chasity, and made to serve a Mistress with my tounge only allowed to cum once a month given a set time to do it in front of My Mistress
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Old 07-22-2014, 03:24 PM   #10
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1. How long have you been in denial?
Going on 9 days now..

2. Are you in denial by choice or at the request of your Dom/Domme or a dare?
At the request of a Domme

3. Are you using a chastity device (if so, what) or just good old fashioned no touching?
Good ol' fashioned no touching, except I'm horrible at the no touching part so am often punished

4. Do you like being in denial?
It's alright, but I'm desperate to cum and I'm constantly thinking of sex and my fantasies are getting more depraved.

5. When do you expect to be able to end your denial?
I was hoping tomorrow but after recently touching it might be moved to next weekend!

6. At what point would you consider yourself in chastity?
Maybe 2 weeks, or when I actually got a chastity belt

7. Have you ever had any fantasies about long term denial/chastity?
I've never really had long term denial fantasies but this denial currently is making me wish I was put into chastity just so the ability to touch was removed and I wouldn't have to worry about it.
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1. How long have you been in denial?
Four weeks now.

2. Are you in denial by choice or at the request of your Dom/Domme or a dare?
I started it, and she took over as a Domme.

3. Are you using a chastity device (if so, what) or just good old fashioned no touching?
I wear a chastity cage as often as possible. During the nights it is often too painful.

4. Do you like being in denial?
Yes, more than I ever expected.

5. When do you expect to be able to end your denial?
She didn't mention an end yet.

6. At what point would you consider yourself in chastity?
From the moment I decided that I am under control of my Mistress.

7. Have you ever had any fantasies about long term denial/chastity? Tell me about them.
I dreamt many times of being a submissive and live just for the pleasure of my Mistress. She is good to me and deserves all the pleasure she gets from my denial. Not knowing when this denial phase will end adds to my pleasure.
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1. How long have you been in denial?
Since 1st March (currently 51 days)

2. Are you in denial by choice or at the request of your Dom/Domme or a dare?
in denial following a loss at battleships

3. Are you using a chastity device (if so, what) or just good old fashioned no touching?
Good old fashioned no touching (although I've thought about cheating... havant though)

4. Do you like being in denial?
no because I'm so desperate but yes because I love the thought

5. When do you expect to be able to end your denial?
1st May

6. At what point would you consider yourself in chastity?
I am tempted to invest in a chastity cage

7. Have you ever had any fantasies about long term denial/chastity? Tell me about them.
Ive always wanted to be in permanent denial, have a chastity cage on and then throw the key into a river so I can never ever have it removed! I love the thought of from birth to death never having the opportunity to cum
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1. How long have you been in denial?

12 days is my personal best

2. Are you in denial by choice or at the request of your Dom/Domme or a dare?

No, but I wish to be denied by Domme

3. Are you using a chastity device (if so, what) or just good old fashioned no touching?

I have a metal chastity cage, I can't just ignore to touch myself

4. Do you like being in denial?

Yes, but it is hard to be in long-term denial in my case. My GF don't know about my kink and she isn't into denial, so my denial ends generally when we meet

5. When do you expect to be able to end your denial?

...

6. At what point would you consider yourself in chastity?

When I will be able to cum as a reward

7. Have you ever had any fantasies about long term denial/chastity? Tell me about them.

Being in control of a Domme, able to "cum" only by fucking my prostate. Long edging sessions and lock my penis in chastity cage just after. I don't really know how long I will be able to stand this, but I'd like to try my best.
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It is wonderful to see this thread being rekindled, and it was good to revist my first post on her from nearly 5 years ago.. As I am currently in denial, still to Slave_E, my Muse, Goddess and Confidant, I thought I should give an update.


Questions.
1. How long have you been in denial?

Currently a month, but I willfully broke it in a moment of madness and am now denied until the end of the year.


The longest I lasted was 127 days, but had a ruined orgasm after been made to carry out multiple edges




2. Are you in denial by choice or at the request of your Dom/Domme or a dare?
At the request (or should I say order) of my Domme.



3. Are you using a chastity device (if so, what) or just good old fashioned no touching?
Not this time but we have used a verity of devices in the past, both options have their merits.


4. Do you like being in denial?
Definitely a Love / Hate.


I become very horny, frustrated but also submissive when denied and it shows my devotion to my Goddess, and as she likes it, it is an honour to please her.

5. When do you expect to be able to end your denial?
January 1st 2020


6. At what point would you consider yourself in chastity?
The moment my Mistress decides, that I am not to Cum, although she may edge me to tease me and risk and illicit orgasm, followed by her wrath





7. Have you ever had any fantasies about long term denial/chastity? Tell me about them.


Same as before, another one was one I read where the wife has been playing with short term self inflicted chastity while her husband was away. He finds out and she convinces him to try it to. They then lock each other up and post the keys to her parents house, hundreds of kilometres away.
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