Is this normal

just.for.fun01 · 08-15-2019, 01:12 AM

Is it normal for anytime that I want sex or to play/make each other cum my gf can say no and I just have to accept it but if I say no to her she says I’m rejecting her and it starts a fight?

Now when she asks to make each other cum or to have sex I feel like I have to say yes witch makes it no fun anymore most of the time I don’t want to but feel like I have too

Oh and to be clear if I’m at work she will make herself cum and watch porn but has said she would leave me if I did the same because I shouldn’t need to go anywhere else for my satisfaction I do have some kinks that she doesn’t really let me explore so I need an outlet for them witch is where getdare comes in but that’s a different thing I need advice I’m going crazy and don’t know what to do anymore

helliswhatyoumake · 08-15-2019, 02:37 AM

you have he right to say no, make her understand that and if she leaves you over it then she wasn't a keeper anyway

depp · 08-15-2019, 09:40 PM

If this dynamic is making you uncomfortable and you can't explore the things you want sexually, maybe it's not a good match? Definitely talk to her directly about all of this. Life is short, make sure you are enjoying it!

08-15-2019, 01:12 AM	#1
just.for.fun01 Prodigy Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Canada Posts: 4,186 Blog Entries: 1	Is this normal Is it normal for anytime that I want sex or to play/make each other cum my gf can say no and I just have to accept it but if I say no to her she says I’m rejecting her and it starts a fight? Now when she asks to make each other cum or to have sex I feel like I have to say yes witch makes it no fun anymore most of the time I don’t want to but feel like I have too Oh and to be clear if I’m at work she will make herself cum and watch porn but has said she would leave me if I did the same because I shouldn’t need to go anywhere else for my satisfaction I do have some kinks that she doesn’t really let me explore so I need an outlet for them witch is where getdare comes in but that’s a different thing I need advice I’m going crazy and don’t know what to do anymore __________________ My dares: A night at the movies (public)http://getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=352740 The Edgy Workout (Female) http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=372405 My Challenges What’s one more day http://https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=400279 Chasity/Denial Weight Loss Challenge http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=404467

08-15-2019, 02:37 AM	#2
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08-15-2019, 09:40 PM	#3
depp SysOp Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Here, now Posts: 3,532 Blog Entries: 51	If this dynamic is making you uncomfortable and you can't explore the things you want sexually, maybe it's not a good match? Definitely talk to her directly about all of this. Life is short, make sure you are enjoying it! __________________ The border between the two isn't all that clear. I'll be able to enter it soon. In full range. Full motion. I'll translate myself into it.