Would you rather (Kinks)?

PrincessJessica · 10-31-2017, 06:06 PM

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?

As usual with these things try to pick one in each case and the "whys" are just as interesting as the what's.

Edgeandenial · 10-31-2017, 07:32 PM

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Originally Posted by maleforyou

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place.

I would rather never orgasm

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.

I think closest family because you can trust your family that they will never leave you or share your secret with anyone else... Sharing kinks with family is a bit awkward though .

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).

Niether. But if I have to choose I would rather watch them perform

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?

As usual with these things try to pick one in each case and the "whys" are just as interesting as the what's.

I would remove whip from my limit list. It's the easiest choice.

kurious kat · 11-01-2017, 08:15 AM

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place.

What a dastardly choice! I am a little intrigued by the concept that I could only orgasm if someone took my place. I already know I couldn't go without indefinitely, so it's not that infinite denial is appealing. But not ever being able to make my partner orgasm would be quite difficult, even if making them cum wasn't something they personally felt much need for. On the other hand, if I remained in a secure relationship with a readily-available significant other, there are certain possibilities for being swapped out and sent to go listen just to get relief that could have some appeal.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.

My friends, because it seems more appropriate to share with peers. It could be a little awkward, but not as much as with family, plus a few already know -- at least in general terms.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).

I don't believe in forcing my sexuality on others, but if they were willing or it were a question of being forced either way, I'd rather be kinky in front of them than force someone uninterested to perform for me. And of course, if they were interested, I'd have more fun getting to act out my kinks than watching them have all the fun.

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?

I'd remove the inhibition stopping a hard limit! Probably the one involving being called certain names. It's there for a reason, but name-calling is mainly a psychological issue, so an utter absence of guilt or distaste around it would really change its nature, making it fairly easy to give up.

PrincessJessica · 11-02-2017, 08:57 AM

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I am a little intrigued by the concept that I could only orgasm if someone took my place

I was more thinking of a cuckold type relationship rather than someone orgasming for you...although you have now intrigued me with that possibility lol (edited my post though to make it clearer).

Interesting that both of you would rather remove a limit then go without a favourite kink, although hardly surprising that people on here want to be even more daring! I think I'd probably do the same to get over my public inhibition, it always looks like such a rush but too scary for me to commit too. I'd still hopefully keep enough common sense to avoid getting arrested though.

kurious kat · 11-02-2017, 09:50 AM

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Originally Posted by maleforyou

I was more thinking of a cuckold type relationship rather than someone orgasming for you...although you have now intrigued me with that possibility lol

Well, I mean, I'm envisioning a world in which an evil villain waves a pair of syringes maniacally and cackles, "Once injected with this drug on the left, every time your partner approaches release, your pheromones will become noxious and inhibit them from orgasm. Unless, of course, someone with healthy pheremones is closer to them than you are (darn those cuckcakes and their meddling ways)! OR... I could inject you with this on the right (mwahaha ...oh, dearie me, mustn't risk jabbing myself here! ..ahem, where was I) ...I could jab you with this one on the right, and every time *you* approach orgasm, it will block all your pleasure receptors. You'll never cum again. Now choose your fate... or DIE! MWAHAHAHAHA."

So, you know, from there it wasn't hard to envision a corollary to the first in which, a few agonizing months after that villainous act, your partner might ask: "Sorry, honey, but you're just so desperate for an orgasm. Are you sure you don't want me to call up that cutie we met? I know it won't be the same for you if you can only peek out of the closet, watching the two of us together after I leave you achingly on edge, but you could feel that bliss again. Do you think you're ready to try?"

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Interesting that both of you would rather remove a limit then go without a favourite kink, although hardly surprising that people on here want to be even more daring! I think I'd probably do the same to get over my public inhibition, it always looks like such a rush but too scary for me to commit too. I'd still hopefully keep enough common sense to avoid getting arrested though.

I imagine that a lot of it depends on the limit.

I do have several hard limits I wouldn't break for moral or health reasons, even if I could do so without guilt. I would rather give up a favorite kink than lose a limb, no matter how amazing the dare or how cool the ability to use a prosthetic limb built just for mountain climbing might be.

Psychological inhibitions that don't cross legal lines are much easier to contemplate, though! There can be some great public dares that feel amazingly risky, but pose only minimal actual danger if you're cautious and smart in your planning to avoid exposing yourself to unconsenting third parties.

Miss Arille · 11-02-2017, 10:37 AM

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove? Doctor roleplay. I love being the slutty doctor, but I wouldn't like to unleash my darkest side.

That_Guy_again · 11-02-2017, 02:45 PM

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.

Never make anyone else orgasm, they can always orgasm without me, whereas the former is absolute.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.

Closest friends, it would be less awkward and they may even help me out.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).

I would rather perform, it would be humiliating and turn me on like crazy

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?

Remove the inhibition to do body writing. Something just puts me off it completely, it feels more disgusting than other stuff (e.g anal - you are literary shoving stuff up the area where waste comes out). I don't know why but I just feel that way.

Golden_Throw · 11-02-2017, 05:50 PM

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.

I would rather never to be able to make some one else orgasm. I can bring them close and then let them finish.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.

I have no choice but to say family. I recently moved so I have no friends here yet.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).

Preform them myself. I would never foce my family to do something.

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?

I would remove a limit. Probably my hate of pain, it and heavy scat eating are my only limits that I have because I don't like them.

PrincessJessica · 11-03-2017, 05:23 AM

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Remove the inhibition to do body writing. Something just puts me off it completely, it feels more disgusting than other stuff (e.g anal - you are literary shoving stuff up the area where waste comes out). I don't know why but I just feel that way.

I kinda know where you're coming from. It used to be one of my stronger limits although I too couldn't really explain why. I've always hated having my face painted when I was younger and never would dream of allowing someone to draw/write on me, let alone doing it myself. It just felt like a gross invasion of my body somehow. Not sure when I switched to actually enjoying it. My best tip would be to draw a mark on your hand and deliberately leave it there for a hour or two, or mark yourself with something that easily wipes off for a few seconds, then build up from there if you want to experiment with moving it from your harder limits. It's not too bad, the only bit I really don't enjoy now is cleaning it all off. I think that's the most possible to move from hard limits from those listed above anyway, other than whipping perhaps.

Interesting to see how evil you are Miss Arille making your friends perform your kinks

Good to see most are nice/logical enough to willingly share their partner around.

WalkingWholockian · 11-03-2017, 08:14 AM

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.
I went 20 years without an orgasm and even then I dont see the big deal, I wouldnt mind giving ut up if it meant I could still make my lovers orgasm. A huge part of my pleasure is pleasing my partner
2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.
My closest friends. I don't have any, but if I did, hell maybe I could get something out of it haha
3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).
I'd rather perform them
4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?
I'd rather remove a limit, that limit being public

striker101 · 11-04-2017, 10:18 AM

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.

It would suck, being a bottom and never being able to get a guy off. But at the very least they could still do the classic porn move - pulling out and finishing themselves, and if they couldn't get off while in me, well that could mean sex lasting a long time.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.

Definitely friends. I don't want to think/know about my family members' sex lives or interests, and I'd rather they not think/know much about mine. It's not so taboo with friends, and I wouldn't mind them knowing nearly as much.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).

There's a few friends that I'd like to see perform some kinks, but I'd never take the chance of it being forced on them.

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?

The first option would be so much easier, but I kind of like the idea of losing an inhibition. I'd go with removing 'public' as a limit, which could face some serious consequences, but I've had plenty of fantasies about it to make the possibility of being willing to do that somewhat appealing.

LittleAmyP · 11-05-2017, 07:39 AM

1.Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.

It’s an egoistic choice but I would rather never be able to make anyone else orgasm because having an orgasm feels too good so I wouldn’t give that up.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.

I would rather have my closest friends knowing about them.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).

I would rather perform them myself because it’s funny.

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?

I would wearing vibrating panties as a kink, I would rather give that up than doing one of my limits.

poetrylover828 · 11-05-2017, 05:54 PM

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.

I would rather not be able to orgasm again. I think mostly because it would be more frustrating for me to be in a relationship and not able to please my partner. I mean make sure I have pizza once every week or so and I'm happy.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.

Oh god my friends. A couple know that I have some interest in kinkier things but not everyone does. Plus they are way more open and it would be way less embarrassing than having family find out.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).

I would say that I would have to perform my kinks. Partly because being watched would be kinda hot, but mostly because I don't know if my friends share my interests and I wouldn't want them forced into something.

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?

I would remove anal from my limit list. It's one of those things that a small part of me is thinking maybe I could try it sometime. But the rest of me is scared of having a partner who doesn't take the proper time and all that. So it's a hard limit because I'm scared of what all could go wrong.

RainbowSky · 11-06-2017, 11:21 PM

Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner. I'd rather never orgasm again. As an asexual masturbation and orgasm creep me out massively, especially clear up afterwards so would be better if it never happened.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows. Friends, just because less judgemental and I think the shock would kill my grandparents.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway). Perform them, I know they wouldn't enjoy them and that's what it is supposed to be

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove? Remove my favourite kink because the limits are there to protect me.

Bishyguy · 11-07-2017, 06:11 AM

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner. I rather never orgasm again. I enjoy giving my sexual parter pleasure.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows. I rather my closest friend. My kinks are pretty messed up and I would never want my family to know.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway). I rather preform them l think the humiliation would just be more of a turn on.

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove? I would never do my kink again. My favorite is cbt.

10-31-2017, 06:06 PM	#1
PrincessJessica Truth or Dare Zealot Join Date: Sep 2017 Location: England Posts: 6,280 Blog Entries: 59	Would you rather (Kinks)? 1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner. 2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows. 3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway). 4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove? As usual with these things try to pick one in each case and the "whys" are just as interesting as the what's. __________________ M / 33 / Switch BDSMLR: PrincessJessica-M Kik: PrincessJessica_M Subscribe to my nudes and help deny me Loves: Bets, Denial, Feminisation, Humiliation, Online Exhibitionism, Teasing Likes: a2m, Body Writing, Degradation (to a degree), Exposure, Femdom, Pain, RP, SPH Dislikes: (Small) Anal, CBT, Cornertime, Cum Eating Limits: Blackmail, Dangerous, Face (my choice), Public PM & Kik dares / Sub Guide (Full Likes & Limits) / Toys & Clothes Last edited by PrincessJessica; 11-02-2017 at 08:51 AM.

11-02-2017, 10:37 AM	#6
Miss Arille Member Join Date: Oct 2017 Posts: 33	1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner. 2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows. 3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway). 4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove? Doctor roleplay. I love being the slutty doctor, but I wouldn't like to unleash my darkest side. __________________ Hi everyone. My name is Arille (I know it's weird, blame my parents for it). 19/F/Bi/Domme Fun fact: I might be the only person in the world with a mermaid fetish.

11-02-2017, 02:45 PM	#7
That_Guy_again Member Join Date: Nov 2016 Posts: 56	1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner. Never make anyone else orgasm, they can always orgasm without me, whereas the former is absolute. 2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows. Closest friends, it would be less awkward and they may even help me out. 3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway). I would rather perform, it would be humiliating and turn me on like crazy 4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove? Remove the inhibition to do body writing. Something just puts me off it completely, it feels more disgusting than other stuff (e.g anal - you are literary shoving stuff up the area where waste comes out). I don't know why but I just feel that way. __________________ Likes, Dislikes, and Limits Note, I have been locked out of my old kik account for a while. If anyone on GD had me on kik, please send me a message and I will send you my new kik.

11-02-2017, 05:50 PM	#8
Golden_Throw Member Join Date: Dec 2016 Posts: 83 Blog Entries: 2	1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner. I would rather never to be able to make some one else orgasm. I can bring them close and then let them finish. 2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows. I have no choice but to say family. I recently moved so I have no friends here yet. 3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway). Preform them myself. I would never foce my family to do something. 4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove? I would remove a limit. Probably my hate of pain, it and heavy scat eating are my only limits that I have because I don't like them. __________________ Getting back into this site! Maybe. 19 Trans Woman Currently locked up until December 1st.

11-03-2017, 08:14 AM	#10
WalkingWholockian getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Apr 2015 Location: MD Posts: 309 Blog Entries: 1	1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner. I went 20 years without an orgasm and even then I dont see the big deal, I wouldnt mind giving ut up if it meant I could still make my lovers orgasm. A huge part of my pleasure is pleasing my partner 2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows. My closest friends. I don't have any, but if I did, hell maybe I could get something out of it haha 3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway). I'd rather perform them 4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove? I'd rather remove a limit, that limit being public __________________ 20, Female, Sub. NOT looking for dom/slave, just fun i dont give dares/tasks LIKES LIMITS TOYS SUPPLIES ECT I DO NOT* FACETIME/SKYPE/ETC.!* FOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM: WalkingWholockian_official

11-01-2017, 08:15 AM	#3
kurious kat getDare's Kinkiest Kitty Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: USA Posts: 700 Blog Entries: 26	1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place. What a dastardly choice! I am a little intrigued by the concept that I could only orgasm if someone took my place. I already know I couldn't go without indefinitely, so it's not that infinite denial is appealing. But not ever being able to make my partner orgasm would be quite difficult, even if making them cum wasn't something they personally felt much need for. On the other hand, if I remained in a secure relationship with a readily-available significant other, there are certain possibilities for being swapped out and sent to go listen just to get relief that could have some appeal. 2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows. My friends, because it seems more appropriate to share with peers. It could be a little awkward, but not as much as with family, plus a few already know -- at least in general terms. 3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway). I don't believe in forcing my sexuality on others, but if they were willing or it were a question of being forced either way, I'd rather be kinky in front of them than force someone uninterested to perform for me. And of course, if they were interested, I'd have more fun getting to act out my kinks than watching them have all the fun. 4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove? I'd remove the inhibition stopping a hard limit! Probably the one involving being called certain names. It's there for a reason, but name-calling is mainly a psychological issue, so an utter absence of guilt or distaste around it would really change its nature, making it fairly easy to give up.

11-04-2017, 10:18 AM	#11
striker101 Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Wyoming Posts: 202	1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner. It would suck, being a bottom and never being able to get a guy off. But at the very least they could still do the classic porn move - pulling out and finishing themselves, and if they couldn't get off while in me, well that could mean sex lasting a long time. 2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows. Definitely friends. I don't want to think/know about my family members' sex lives or interests, and I'd rather they not think/know much about mine. It's not so taboo with friends, and I wouldn't mind them knowing nearly as much. 3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway). There's a few friends that I'd like to see perform some kinks, but I'd never take the chance of it being forced* on them.* 4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove? The first option would be so much easier, but I kind of like the idea of losing an inhibition. I'd go with removing 'public' as a limit, which could face some serious consequences, but I've had plenty of fantasies about it to make the possibility of being willing to do that somewhat appealing. __________________ Male, 34, Gay, Submissive Kik: DaredDominated \| Skype: doubledown101 Limits: Public, Illegal, Friends/Family (please leave other people out of it), Scat/Diapers, Blood, Shaving, Social Suicide, Highly Messy, Cross-dressing Likes: If it's not listed above, I'll at least give it a try even if a don't exactly 'like' it. Pleasing others is more my priority. Feel free to message me. I will provide proof of dares.

11-05-2017, 07:39 AM	#12
LittleAmyP Distinguished Member Join Date: Mar 2017 Location: Belgium Posts: 579 Blog Entries: 5	1.Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner. It’s an egoistic choice but I would rather never be able to make anyone else orgasm because having an orgasm feels too good so I wouldn’t give that up. 2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows. I would rather have my closest friends knowing about them. 3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway). I would rather perform them myself because it’s funny. 4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove? I would wearing vibrating panties as a kink, I would rather give that up than doing one of my limits. __________________ Belgium/24yo/F/Bi/Single Likes: Clamps, Soft spanking, Ciit discpline, Forced Orgasm, Hidden public (masturbation/flashing), Nipple play Dislikes: anal sex, public, Limits: illegal stuff, gross things Toys: Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamps, vibrating clamps, clitoral clamps, hitachi wand, and a buttplug (I don't like that one) My PM-Dares: http://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=82497

11-05-2017, 05:54 PM	#13
poetrylover828 getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Jul 2017 Location: US Posts: 470 Blog Entries: 4	1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner. I would rather not be able to orgasm again. I think mostly because it would be more frustrating for me to be in a relationship and not able to please my partner. I mean make sure I have pizza once every week or so and I'm happy. 2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows. Oh god my friends. A couple know that I have some interest in kinkier things but not everyone does. Plus they are way more open and it would be way less embarrassing than having family find out. 3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway). I would say that I would have to perform my kinks. Partly because being watched would be kinda hot, but mostly because I don't know if my friends share my interests and I wouldn't want them forced into something. 4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove? I would remove anal from my limit list. It's one of those things that a small part of me is thinking maybe I could try it sometime. But the rest of me is scared of having a partner who doesn't take the proper time and all that. So it's a hard limit because I'm scared of what all could go wrong. __________________ Likes: rope play, spanking and other forms of light impact play Limits: anal, piss, scat, video, pics, permanent damage Don’t send me messages asking to help with your dare or help you shop. If I want to take parts in dares I will. If you need someone to pick out the things you are buying then you don’t need to being doing dares. I'm not looking for a partner.

11-06-2017, 11:21 PM	#14
RainbowSky Distinguished Member Join Date: Dec 2015 Location: UK Posts: 585 Blog Entries: 102	Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner. I'd rather never orgasm again. As an asexual masturbation and orgasm creep me out massively, especially clear up afterwards so would be better if it never happened. 2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows. Friends, just because less judgemental and I think the shock would kill my grandparents. 3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway). Perform them, I know they wouldn't enjoy them and that's what it is supposed to be 4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove? Remove my favourite kink because the limits are there to protect me. __________________ 27/F/UK Likes, limits, curiosities, kinks Toys, costumes and latex wear AMA Read my stories Holly's Fantasy - completed Sailor Fucktoy - completed The Roman Slave Girl Contact me email: [email protected]

11-07-2017, 06:11 AM	#15
Bishyguy Member Join Date: Nov 2017 Location: East coast Usa Posts: 46 Blog Entries: 1	1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner. I rather never orgasm again. I enjoy giving my sexual parter pleasure. 2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows. I rather my closest friend. My kinks are pretty messed up and I would never want my family to know. 3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway). I rather preform them l think the humiliation would just be more of a turn on. 4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove? I would never do my kink again. My favorite is cbt.