Do you look for revenge?

[andrew_b]

If someone hurts you or something bad on/to you or maybe it's something more playful, do you look for revenge?

If so, how do you do it?

[elf_ears]

In a playful way then sure, as long as it is good-natured.

In a more serious way though, I may attempt to receive some kind of compensation in order to regain whatever I had lost but I would not act on purely out of vengeance.

[andrew_b]

Originally Posted by elf_ears

In a playful way then sure, as long as it is good-natured.

In a more serious way though, I may attempt to receive some kind of compensation in order to regain whatever I had lost but I would not act on purely out of vengeance.

Interesting, any particular examples of this?

[rhode64]

Originally Posted by andrew_b

If someone hurts you or something bad on/to you or maybe it's something more playful, do you look for revenge?

If so, how do you do it?

Believe me I thought about it a few times about someone who tried to ruin my life . If I could do it and get away with it , I would see her die a very slow and painful death.

Playful revenge would be getting them naked some where public and making sure their seen.

[andrew_b]

Originally Posted by rhode64

Believe me I thought about it a few times about someone who tried to ruin my life . If I could do it and get away with it , I would see her die a very slow and painful death.

Playful revenge would be getting them naked some where public and making sure their seen.

Oh but you haven't done it before?

[elf_ears]

Originally Posted by andrew_b

Interesting, any particular examples of this?

I actually struggled to think of times when people have done something bad to me. The only thing I can think of is when my neighbours are annoying, playing loud music or something. I would never retaliate by being annoying back in some way just to spite them but if necessary I would make a complaint, not for revenge, just to get my peace and quiet back.

[andrew_b]

Originally Posted by elf_ears

I actually struggled to think of times when people have done something bad to me. The only thing I can think of is when my neighbours are annoying, playing loud music or something. I would never retaliate by being annoying back in some way just to spite them but if necessary I would make a complaint, not for revenge, just to get my peace and quiet back.

That sounds reasonable in fairness

[rhode64]

Originally Posted by andrew_b

Oh but you haven't done it before?

I have got people naked just for fun not so much for revenge .

[Mousey123]

i make a point not to get revenge, with the exception of occasional playful revenge. I think it just makes the situation worse and create a vicious circle.

[andrew_b]

Originally Posted by Mousey123

i make a point not to get revenge, with the exception of occasional playful revenge. I think it just makes the situation worse and create a vicious circle.

You are right, it is better off not getting revenge on people