What kind of buttplug should I buy?

lilith_ · 09-17-2018, 03:10 AM

Pretty much what the title says. I'm the WORST when it comes to decisions and I need your reccommendations. Also pretty please write me reviews of buttplugs you've bought and tried, it will be much appreciated!

I am on a budget so I cannot buy anything that is controlled by an app *cries a lot*

I love reading detailed reviews so if possible write both the good and the bad. If you want to include one of your happy play times with your buttplug, you're welcome

lilith_ · 10-09-2018, 02:19 AM

I need more opinions, please vote!!

I have found a vibrating inflatable buttplug, but I don't like the fact that I cannot wear it underclothes or outside because that thing is always hanging..

Also what is your favorite buttplug? What's your least favorite?

amethyst353 · 10-09-2018, 02:22 AM

Do you own any already?

lilith_ · 10-09-2018, 02:35 AM

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Originally Posted by marissa353

Do you own any already?

No, I have tried a small metal one only but it wasn't mine and I hadn't done much training then

DianaAu · 10-09-2018, 02:57 AM

I would say, if you don't have one go for standart or silver, you can't miss with those options. good for short play or daily wear. You can expand, experiment - inflatable, vibrating etc. latter on. If experiment goes wrong at least you will have your standart, sturdy butt plug

kanger · 10-09-2018, 02:59 AM

I know I can only speak for myself, but I have black velvet's large and extra. I was really a begginer when I started from that large one so I think most training sets are useless because it took me maybe an hour to get it in the first time. It is made of silicone and really is very smooth to the touch and quite easy to insert. I like that the base isn't round so it fits better between the cheeks

. Would buy again.

lilith_ · 10-09-2018, 03:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kanger

I know I can only speak for myself, but I have black velvet's large and extra. I was really a begginer when I started from that large one so I think most training sets are useless because it took me maybe an hour to get it in the first time. It is made of silicone and really is very smooth to the touch and quite easy to insert. I like that the base isn't round so it fits better between the cheeks

. Would buy again.

Ohhh!!! This exact buttplug is one of my options!!! Thanks for the advice! It doesn't seem thaaaat big.... 2.6cm diametre, right?

Simi · 10-09-2018, 04:20 AM

more people need tails! And i think you'd love the feeling of the fur caressing the back of your legs (sends me purring) a cute white fur one might be nice and you could possibly match it to some of your outfits

they also tend to be fairly small plugs so for getting used to them they can be very nice

kanger · 10-09-2018, 04:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lilith_

Ohhh!!! This exact buttplug is one of my options!!! Thanks for the advice! It doesn't seem thaaaat big.... 2.6cm diametre, right?

Ohh you are mistaken

it's 4cm diameter. But like I've said from my experience it was quite easy even the first time. If you are scared just go for a smaller one.

lilith_ · 10-09-2018, 05:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Simi

more people need tails! And i think you'd love the feeling of the fur caressing the back of your legs (sends me purring) a cute white fur one might be nice and you could possibly match it to some of your outfits

they also tend to be fairly small plugs so for getting used to them they can be very nice

I'm DEFINITELY gonna buy a rail plug one day! I just really want to be able to wear it under clothes outside haba

lilith_ · 10-09-2018, 05:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kanger

Ohh you are mistaken

it's 4cm diameter. But like I've said from my experience it was quite easy even the first time. If you are scared just go for a smaller one.

Oh hahaha amazon said 2.6cm. It's a good option! I will get my partner's opinion too and I'll see what I'll order. Thanks!

amethyst353 · 10-09-2018, 06:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lilith_

No, I have tried a small metal one only but it wasn't mine and I hadn't done much training then

In that case I voted for a training set. I think it is super useful to have three sizes right away to find what size you can do for longer term use. And to be honest, the medium in my training set has been the one I always come back to no matter what other one I own.

ExplorerOfDesires · 10-09-2018, 01:07 PM

If I would vote, my kink would point the mouse to either vibrating or inflatable. Just like the idea of a remote controlled plug that can deliver little unexpected shocks to your bottom sounds nice as well.

But if you want my honest opinion, I would give the same advise as marissa, the training set. Just imagine the first time out with a plug and not being able (or allowed) to remove it, hoping that you can endure it. And once you are used to being plugged, imagine going out with one that is a size bigger, and once again you're hoping that you can endure it.

And if you're a bit creative, there are enough kinky stuff to think of. Just picture walking around in a (long enough) skirt without panties. Knowing that at your boyfriends command, you are to insert or remove the plug, and trying to be discrete in a semi open environment.

Also, unlike the vibrating or inflatable ones, if the quality is decent, these plugs can last forever. And you probably can play with them on more occasions, as you already pointed out.

Cstelle · 10-09-2018, 02:06 PM

If you are inexperienced: choose something cheap and "medium sized". Accept that you may later have to invest in nicer materials, sizes, etc.

You have to start somewhere. Try to make the starting point cheap.

*shrug*

lilith_ · 10-13-2018, 03:27 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cstelle

If you are inexperienced: choose something cheap and "medium sized". Accept that you may later have to invest in nicer materials, sizes, etc.

You have to start somewhere. Try to make the starting point cheap.

*shrug*

That's what I was thinking but getdare seems to be sadistic when it comes to butt stuff and most people voted for an inflatable one

I want one of these one day but I would like something standard and medium sized.

View Poll Results: What buttplug do you reccommend?
Silver with jewelry	12	16.22%
Vibrating	23	31.08%
Inflatable	32	43.24%
Standard buttplug	6	8.11%
With beads	6	8.11%
Training set	13	17.57%
With a tail	15	20.27%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 74. You may not vote on this poll

09-17-2018, 03:10 AM	#1
lilith_ getDare Devil Join Date: Jan 2018 Posts: 1,099 Blog Entries: 32	What kind of buttplug should I buy? Pretty much what the title says. I'm the WORST when it comes to decisions and I need your reccommendations. Also pretty please write me reviews of buttplugs you've bought and tried, it will be much appreciated! I am on a budget so I cannot buy anything that is controlled by an app cries a lot I love reading detailed reviews so if possible write both the good and the bad. If you want to include one of your happy play times with your buttplug, you're welcome __________________ *she/her ~ sub ~ bi* likes, dislikes, limits last orgasm: november 2022 my discord server: how to get in wanna message me? my usernames

10-09-2018, 02:19 AM	#2
lilith_ getDare Devil Join Date: Jan 2018 Posts: 1,099 Blog Entries: 32	I need more opinions, please vote!! I have found a vibrating inflatable buttplug, but I don't like the fact that I cannot wear it underclothes or outside because that thing is always hanging.. Also what is your favorite buttplug? What's your least favorite? __________________ *she/her ~ sub ~ bi* likes, dislikes, limits last orgasm: november 2022 my discord server: how to get in wanna message me? my usernames

10-09-2018, 02:22 AM	#3
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10-09-2018, 02:57 AM	#5
DianaAu Member Join Date: Sep 2018 Location: Northern Europe Posts: 60 Blog Entries: 3	I would say, if you don't have one go for standart or silver, you can't miss with those options. good for short play or daily wear. You can expand, experiment - inflatable, vibrating etc. latter on. If experiment goes wrong at least you will have your standart, sturdy butt plug __________________ 28/Male/A bit bi Shy, naive and awkwardly daring Likes - light pain, watersports, anal, tasks, occasional CD, light public, submission, chatting, spanking Interested - CBT, food play, video-live-chat room experiance, long term, humiliation, cum play, light scat Limits - family & friends, blood, illegal, permanent, social suicide, diapers, extreme pain. PM DARES KIK: SiDiBA94

10-09-2018, 02:59 AM	#6
kanger getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Aug 2018 Posts: 396 Blog Entries: 2	I know I can only speak for myself, but I have black velvet's large and extra. I was really a begginer when I started from that large one so I think most training sets are useless because it took me maybe an hour to get it in the first time. It is made of silicone and really is very smooth to the touch and quite easy to insert. I like that the base isn't round so it fits better between the cheeks . Would buy again. __________________ Likes: Cum-eating, (Not long) Denial, Teasing, Watersports, Light pain, Edging, Toys, Oral, Exercising Dislikes: Corner time, messy, pee drinking, CBT, Lines Limits:Anal, Permanent, Family and friends, Work, Blood, Public, Social Suicide, Identification, Sissification, Poop For more about my Likes/Dislikes/Limits go to here Toys:4 cm buttplug, 7.5 cm buttplug(can't get it in ), 18 cm dildo, metal handcuffs, clothespins, candles, cock-rings 183/100 Weight of Torture

10-09-2018, 04:20 AM	#8
Simi Moderator Join Date: Apr 2013 Posts: 3,017 Blog Entries: 6	more people need tails! And i think you'd love the feeling of the fur caressing the back of your legs (sends me purring) a cute white fur one might be nice and you could possibly match it to some of your outfits they also tend to be fairly small plugs so for getting used to them they can be very nice __________________ 30 year old, British,Female, Pan, Ace, Switch, a Proud Puppy Owner and an Owned Piggy Come join our free Getdare Minecraft Server! More players are always welcome! Want to be interrogated? Assorted questionnaire links! Fancy a pounding from a piggy? Check out my anal stretching dice dare! Training Threads: Fantasised about being hypnotised and trained? Visit the Hypnosis Training Advice thread! Become a piss slut at the Piss drinking Academy About me, and likes/limits My bdsm test Torment a Piggy (Pm Dares)

10-09-2018, 01:07 PM	#13
ExplorerOfDesires getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Dec 2017 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 296	If I would vote, my kink would point the mouse to either vibrating or inflatable. Just like the idea of a remote controlled plug that can deliver little unexpected shocks to your bottom sounds nice as well. But if you want my honest opinion, I would give the same advise as marissa, the training set. Just imagine the first time out with a plug and not being able (or allowed) to remove it, hoping that you can endure it. And once you are used to being plugged, imagine going out with one that is a size bigger, and once again you're hoping that you can endure it. And if you're a bit creative, there are enough kinky stuff to think of. Just picture walking around in a (long enough) skirt without panties. Knowing that at your boyfriends command, you are to insert or remove the plug, and trying to be discrete in a semi open environment. Also, unlike the vibrating or inflatable ones, if the quality is decent, these plugs can last forever. And you probably can play with them on more occasions, as you already pointed out.

10-09-2018, 02:06 PM	#14
Cstelle gD Curio Join Date: Oct 2014 Location: The Norf. ("Lots of planets have a Norf!") Posts: 939 Blog Entries: 163	If you are inexperienced: choose something cheap and "medium sized". Accept that you may later have to invest in nicer materials, sizes, etc. You have to start somewhere. Try to make the starting point cheap. shrug __________________ /Male, fairly weird - and old like Morrissey and Madonna I'm especially keen on hidden/semi public stuff (preferably outdoors) and I like to take selfies; I'm averse to anything unethical, illegal, harmful, painful, messy/dirty/unsanitary/icky or otherwise unpleasant.