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Old 12-07-2014, 05:29 PM   #1
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Well, this is my first post and to serve as both somewhat of an introduction and research about this place, I figured I might as well be engaging and ask questions.

I've poked my head in here a few times through my formative years, and I've never seen this place as a truth or dare site. Rather, a site for finding people to have potentially embarrassing sex with, via messengers of various flavours. This is in no way a criticism - but I'm interested to know what other people think.

Personally, I'm hoping to find somewhere I can engage in conversations about sexuality and more, make some friends and just maybe, meet a woman who interests me enough for me to want to be more than friends with her.

So, what do you guys come here for? What's the attractiveness of this site for you?
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Old 12-07-2014, 06:31 PM   #2
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I came for the dares and I stayed for the community. I don't do very many dares at all anymore apart from the occasional well thought out one, or my pun request thingy.

Since then I've started writing a lot while here. I get a little thrill over posting things and seeing people comment and talk about it. It's odd, but I guess that's one of the things which makes writing so enjoyable for me.

I just like to chat to people, a lot. This site has a wide variety of unique, but brilliant people; That's the main reason I come back time after time.
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Old 12-07-2014, 06:52 PM   #3
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A very encouraging first reply, thank you. I can't say I've ever been part of an online community, or much of one in real life either - I've always had an awful fear of socialising. I've decided to change that about myself, and to know there's a community of fantastic people here is heartening to know. Thank you!
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Old 12-07-2014, 07:17 PM   #4
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I'm here for the dares and to learn how people's mind works when it comes to kinky stuff. GetDare is also an awesome place to ask questions and know more and more about people's minds and how they work
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Old 12-07-2014, 07:53 PM   #5
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Awesome art there Male, and I also wanna play Kingdom Hearts again now.

Do people tend to find this more of a kink site then? Truth or dare implies a childish happiness, a fun game, but then everyone's signatures talks about the sex they enjoy. I don't remember it being any different when I first saw this place.
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Old 12-08-2014, 02:36 AM   #6
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I came here on a Google search for... stuff. I stuck around when I found out it was more than truth or dare. This place is a kink place, yes indeed. You can find like minded people here and it's a great place for finding an online submissive or dominant. Or in some cases even something more physical! The main draw for me was to find a submissive, but I'm still here, posting and reading. I guess I stayed for the community, there are some lovely people around here!

Ellie Benelli, you're right that this is more a kink site than a truth or dare thing for children. But if you think about it, that game is a bit of a D/s game, where people get tasks or give them. Truth or dare fits with the lifestyle and I guess that's why there's a lot of switching going on here too.
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Old 12-08-2014, 03:13 AM   #7
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Honestly, I'm here for the ideas. People here have a lot of awesome ideas for tasks and punishments.
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Old 12-09-2014, 10:02 PM   #8
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I had a really awesome response and when I went to submit it, it got lost. I'll edit this once I've written it on a more suitable place..

The reason I come on is for the diversity and variety of all things. The creativeness and expressiveness of everyone who has a difference in the kinks and fetishes that they love to have and explore. The culmination of ideas and thoughts flowing in a collective manner. Truth and dares were the main focus when I saw and joined the site, but since then it has become the wanting to stay in touch with friends and the enjoyment of what the site has to offer. Whether its conversing about kinks or giving dares or simply asking how someone's day is, it has become more of the main focus than simply getting dares of vanilla and sexual natures.
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Old 12-20-2014, 12:24 PM   #9
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Old 12-20-2014, 01:32 PM   #10
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At first I came for the dares, but I stayed for the great people on this site. I felt like this would be a good place to maybe find people to talk about sexual related topics without fearing judgement. It's hasn't let me down yet.
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Old 12-25-2014, 06:45 AM   #11
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Originally I came here to look for Truth or Dare ideas, and then realized that most of them were a little too extreme to use with friends. I stuck around because it was interesting, and reading dares made my imagination go wild. Just imagining doing these dares was a big turn-on for me. After taking on dares that seemed exciting at the time, I felt really ashamed about some of them, and realized they weren't as much fun as I expected them to be.

I still lurk around the Dare section of this site, but I'm not as much into it as I used to be. For whatever reason, I've never really been into the Truth section of this site, but it might just be that I never actually gave it a chance. Making friends on the site is probably the most rewarding thing to do, but it's always been hard for me. And of course, some people just vanish and never come back.

For me, the biggest appeal of getDare is fantasy. I love reading dares and getting excited about them. I also love writing my own dares, and I usually put a lot of effort into them. Every once in a while I'll play along and try something out, but for me dares always sound better than they actually are. If I tell somebody that I'll do a dare, I generally will do it, but I've discovered that there are many people who won't. It probably depends on how realistic the dare is (many of them really aren't feasible).

That said, I also love just talking to people, especially in chat. Some of the people on this site are really friendly (but not all). It's also a good place to search for D/s partners, but it's often not easy to find the right person.
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Old 12-25-2014, 07:26 PM   #12
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Mostly just to find dares I can do on my own, however lots of times I will just read a dare and not follow through with it, or the dares would break my limits. Since I live with roommates and won't do dares that involve others or in public, what I can actually do has been somewhat limiting.
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Old 12-28-2014, 03:06 AM   #13
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I just joined a couple of hours ago. Dares are fun so I guess I'm here out of curiosity.
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Old 12-28-2014, 06:34 AM   #14
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I first came to the main site (not the forum) ,which is definitely more PG-13 Truth or Dare like you describe when you think about TorD, because I got into a truth or dare game with some guy I didn't know over Yahoo Messenger and I didn't really know what to dare him. Things really clicked for me when I found the forum. I was a bit overwhelmed with how hardcore some people were and I thought I was pushing my luck when I gave this guy dares I'd found in the forums but when he did them I felt a kind of kinky rush. I'm not super kinky or outgoing in real life but it gave me a thrill making this guy do dirty stuff for me so I just kind of stuck around.
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Old 12-29-2014, 01:42 PM   #15
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I came here for the dares at first because most of these things reach my kink level (does that even make sense haha) But normally you don't find these kind of sites. I also find it somewhat arousing when someone tells you what to do even though they are a total stranger on the internet.
But I stayed here for mostly the dares and the community. I maybe also would like to meet a woman or man on here that is near me and maybe we can exchange kinks or maybe even go further. But none of that is sure yet of course ;P
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