Going over the edge?

[Azyliux]

1. When deliberately edging, how do you stop yourself from tipping over into orgasm? Is there something physical you do like, tensing or relaxing? Or something mental that helps you hold off?

2. If you go over, do you normally ruin or accept your failure and go with it?

3. How well do you recognize the signs in your body you are reaching edge? Is there anything in particular you know to look out for?

Azyliux

[Alexrob12]

Good questions! I typically close my eyes and remove any sound that might be playing at the time (take earbuds out or turn it off). Also, obviously, hands off. I think I do tense up and hold that however long I need.

I guess my goal is to stop before an edge as opposed to go too far, so I’m less worried about ensuring it is a true or full edge rather than just being cautious. If I had to go over, it might depend on my mood at the time. I’ve done both.

[Jolly*FtM]

1. When deliberately edging, how do you stop yourself from tipping over into orgasm? Is there something physical you do like, tensing or relaxing? Or something mental that helps you hold off?

I am incredible bad at edging. Usually nothing what I do prevents me from cumming. Only thing that helps if I stop way before I would edge.

2. If you go over, do you normally ruin or accept your failure and go with it?

I mostly ruin, because often it is accidently I try to edge and I stop touching and then I still orgasm.

3. How well do you recognize the signs in your body you are reaching edge? Is there anything in particular you know to look out for?

It is different every time, so i can't read the signs.

[tarheel52]

1. When deliberately edging, how do you stop yourself from tipping over into orgasm? Is there something physical you do like, tensing or relaxing? Or something mental that helps you hold off?

Once I reach the edge I stop all stimulation and relax everything. If I tense up I’m more likely to go over the edge and cum. I’ve also been tasked with rubbing, pulling and smacking my balls while on the edge. I have to be careful when smacking my balls while edging because that has made me cum before.


2. If you go over, do you normally ruin or accept your failure and go with it?

If I am masturbating by myself, I probably go with it half the time and ruin it the other half.

If I am edging for a Dom on cam I ruin my orgasm unless otherwise instructed. Most times if I go over the edge for a Dom, I am expected to complete a punishment or get right back to edging after my ruined orgasm.


3. How well do you recognize the signs in your body you are reaching edge? Is there anything in particular you know to look out for?

I know very well. But I still go over the edge sometimes. Pressure builds in the head of my penis and I become very sensitive. While edging, my first 2-3 edges will produce mini precum shots now. As I continue to edge I still produce precum each time but not as powerful.

[Pet Ra]

1. When deliberately edging, how do you stop yourself from tipping over into orgasm? Is there something physical you do like, tensing or relaxing? Or something mental that helps you hold off?[/B]

When I "discovered" edging I often tipped over the edge, but the more often I did the better I became of reading my body. Mostly I simply stop all stimulation after reaching a certain spot and lay with my legs wide spread till the twitching stops. On other days I give myself a hard slap on my cunt so the sharp pain "kills" the good feeling.

2. If you go over, do you normally ruin or accept your failure and go with it?

When I realize that I became to greedy and went to far I immediately stop and try to fight the urge. Sometimes I can even fight it long enough to gain hope that I could bottle up my orgasm again but I never made it.
So, if I overdo it I always ruin it.

3. How well do you recognize the signs in your body you are reaching edge? Is there anything in particular you know to look out for?

My cunt start to pump slowly which soon turns into short twitches and then a strong contract. That is the absolute last warning that I have to stop.