Ruin an orgasm--then share how it felt!

[bad_abby]

As one of those chicks for whom it took a really long time to figure out how to come just using my fingers, I have to say, ruined orgasms feel a lot like trying to get off used to feel before I got better at it.

I used to "miss" orgasms a lot more than I do now; I'd use a vibrator and I'd tense up and then I'd be sensitive suddenly, my muscles would relax, and I'd have to take the vibe away, but it wouldn't have the over-the-top "whee" sensation of coming. It was like there was an orgasm, but I wasn't there for it; I'd missed it, somehow.

I just did a Writeforme exercise (https://writeforme.org/writingtask.php?task=15771) which required a ruined orgasm, and I had to look up what it meant for women, 'cause I'd only done it to dudes when topping. Sure enough, after two edges, I ramped up again and pulled my vibe away just as I started to come, and I blinked and it was gone. Let me tell you, I wasn't exactly aching with nostalgia for that sensation, it was really frustrating.

Luckily, practice makes perfect, and I should get my orgasm now, no "missing" or "ruining" required. Phew!

[Owlrings90]

I've always found ruined orgasms interesting, so I decided to do one myself!! I sat on the toilet lid and quickly fingered my pussy until I felt the "first wave break", so to say. I jerked my fingers away right after I started cumming, right when you would usually start rubbing your clit like crazy to get all the pleasure you can. It SUCKED! My hips started humping of their own accord, trying to find something, and my pussy hole was clenching over and over again like it was trying to drag something in. The worst part is, my cunt is puffy and I still want to cum, but I'm too sensitive to try again right now!!!

[SubJackc23]

Originally Posted by Owlrings90

I've always found ruined orgasms interesting, so I decided to do one myself!! I sat on the toilet lid and quickly fingered my pussy until I felt the "first wave break", so to say. I jerked my fingers away right after I started cumming, right when you would usually start rubbing your clit like crazy to get all the pleasure you can. It SUCKED! My hips started humping of their own accord, trying to find something, and my pussy hole was clenching over and over again like it was trying to drag something in. The worst part is, my cunt is puffy and I still want to cum, but I'm too sensitive to try again right now!!!

Sorry to hear you didn't enjoy your ruined orgasm. I recommend you give yourself maybe 2 proper orgasms tonight, you deserve 2 for at least trying a ruined orgasm.

I love ruining my orgasm too much, even though I tremble every time I plan on ruining it, I just love the feeling of edging myself for 30 minutes, jerking off fast, hitting the point of no return, and then letting it go where it just pours out slowly. It is a very frustrating feeling especially for the first time but the more I do it the more I prefer it over a regular orgasm because a ruined orgasm doesn't leave me as exhausted, and even though I'm still far too sensitive afterward, I still feel as if I can go again for a second round almost immediately.

[variiation]

I love the sensation of a ruined orgasm. Stopping stroking just as it's about to hit and feeling a pumping sensation as the cum just flows out but with no pleasure.....it's all a chaste slave deserves......

[9jme]

well, it was honestly kind of disappointing. It took a long time to reach edge for me. As I removed my hand, I could feel my mind shocked as the cum just spurted out. I was horny afterwards and it was basically a worse version of normal orgasm.

[FootBitch]

I've denied myself before but never fully denied myself by letting go altogether, I'll do it now and tell you how it feels

[DigitalKat]

For the month of September, Im not going to touch myself without permission. If someone tells me to ruin an orgasm with an edge or two ahead of time, I will and report. First come first serve.

[punish stacy]

when I masturbate I always ruin my orgasms I love it I only have full orgasms when someone else does it

[DigitalKat]

Originally Posted by punish stacy

when I masturbate I always ruin my orgasms I love it I only have full orgasms when someone else does it

Let's both ruin one today then lol. I just need your permission first!

[punish stacy]

permission granted

[mariocb]

Ok, I was about to open a thread with something similar then I looked back and found this. I hope this topic can be popular again.

As a matter of fact sometimes I like experimenting. Last year I tried cum eating which I still dislike (I opened a thread about it) so I gave up with that (except rare occasions). Last month I tried ruined orgasm. However after reading this thread and doing it myself I'm still a little confused.

So far I think it can be a different experience for each one. I can't agree with some stories and I find it weird some of the comments.

I started a month ago. Of course I already tried it in the past years but never investigated properly. My first attempt gave me some kind of pleasure even if, of course, not as a normal orgasm. I could enjoy it during the three or four spasms when the cum flowed out, but the moments before and after were disappointing. Of course I had hard time trying not to touch myself. Anyway I felt pleasure even if not as good as a normal orgasm. That's when I tried to change things.

I tried different techniques. Of course the plain "hands off", then I tried putting my wide hand on the head of the cock (trying to stop the flow), then I tried keeping lightly touching the part right under the head of the cock (which I reached orgasm with). Then I tried going over the edge humping on the bed and then stop. I even tried wearing a condom to not be concerned about messing it up. The only other way I'd like to try but can't right now is just stand up and walk away after the point of no return to get myself distracted and see how it goes, but it's still too hard.
Another problem is how to react during it. If I keep my hand on, maybe at the base, or just let it go, I still get the chance to contract muscles to make it spurt or not. And it changes the frustration whether I do it or not.

My last concern is about the aftermath. I actually get some relief after the ruined orgasm so I'm not that horny. Of course I had two orgasms in a row, but the second one was not so easy, as if I didn't ruin it. But it changes some hours later and the day after. Of course I recover quite fast and after a few hours I'm horny like I haven't cum for days. However my cock is a little more sensitive and I enjoy it less rubbing and stroking it like when I jerk off more times a day.

Summing up, I can't really say a ruined orgasm is a complete frustrating experience, I still enjoy it a while, just less than usual (that is a little frustrating but not almost unbearable like someone says). I can't go over and over ruining many orgasms in a row because I don't keep all my arousal, I almost lose it (just a little less than after a normal orgasm). I'm confused and would like to understand if I'm missing something or doing it wrong. But I guess that it is different for everyone and I'm not simply into it. At least not until I can practice this with someone else live.

[VinceTheNewCummer]

I did this 2 days ago.

I've had to do 15 edges for a dare and I had to do this too, so I thought I can ruin my orgasm after the edges.

After the 15th edge, I was rock hard, horny and dripping everywhere. It wasn't difficult to go over the edge (2-3 strokes) and at the moment I felt that I can hold anymore, I remove my hand.

I felt the cum bursting out, but I didn't felt any pleasure or relief. I still wanted an orgasm. It was really frustrating.

After I cummed, I was still hard and a bit more sensitive.

I think that this is a good punishment, but I prefer a real good orgasm.

[RoseB]

I hate doing ruined orgasms. I think I might prefer just having none. It's beyond frustrating. There isn't really a sense of relief. And I have the same problem a few others do, where I'm to sensitive to go again, yet I feel a need for another orgasm.

[gayunderwearboy]

Ugh I just did one even tho I hate them just to be able to post here and it sucks. My dick has a few spurts of cum and is just twitching uncontrollably and I’m super sensitive for a good few seconds after but I also start going soft so I have to wait before I can give myself a real orgasm

[Exdareguy]

Originally Posted by RST

It obviously takes some control to do this to yourself and it's also very frustrating. On the other hand ruining orgasms allows me to have multiple orgasms. I've had up to three within two or three minutes. They weren't the greatest of course but still. I used to think this was only possible for females. Do any other dudes (or mistresses) have any experience with male multiples?

I often do this and love having multiple orgasms like this. Most is 7 in 25 minutes after 60 minutes edging. Combine this with a vibrating prostate massager and all your orgasms will make you shake in pleasure. I stopped and had a full orgasm after 7 because I was litteraly empty.