Anyone ever read likes,dislikes,or limits anymore?

[Sissyboy998]

Lately I keep getting dares that are in my limits.
Does anyone look at them anymore or are they just to lazy?
I hope I posted this in the right spot please let me know if I didn't.

[HappyDares]

I normally check them before I post a response. But I know that there are some people that don't and just post something they like and then want others to do so.

[Sissyboy998]

We need more like you who check before posting. If I'm not in the mood to check then I don't post till I check

[RiskyFlame]

To me, it really helps when you just put your (dis-)likes and limits directly in your signature. Don't put a link to one of your blogs, because this will only give other people (who give you a dare) more work to do. Even though it's only one click, it may just be that little thing that makes the lazy (and not lazy) people give dares that are within your boundries.

Regarding posting this in the right section, I am not sure. I would post this kind of thread of the
Advice Section. The Truth section is more "Truth in Truth or Dare", while the Advice Section is for "questions about relationships, sex, toys, or anything similar?", thus also signatures I would say.

But just to be clear, I always look at the posters (dis-)likes and limits. I don't give 'standard dares' away, those things that you save on your computer to give away a hundred times. Each time, I write a new one accustomed to the (dis-)likes of the person. Unfortunately, you didn't receive a dare from me yet according to your thread history.

EDIT: I think there are still much (or enough) people who looked at ones (dis-)likes and limits before the post something. Unfortunately, those who don't look at the likes are most likely to post more times than those who do look. Because it's so much easier to just give a random task that you would like to do. Those who do look have to come up with something suiting for the poster, thus needing more to = lesser posts.

[MissMaria]

I always check prior to giving a task, it is my hope that my task will be both done and enjoyed and you can't use a standard set of dare to give full enjoyment, you must tailor it to the individual, tailor to there likes.

I personally believe that if someone's likes etc. are easily accessible and yet ignored its not just lazy it is also rude as it not only shows a disregard for what that person likes or douse not like it also shows a disregard for that time they have taken to write that up, I understand there may be times when someone douse look and douse not notice that something is a limit by accident and that is fine but to not look at all is rude and disrespectful.

That is my thoughts anyway.

[Slaveuk]

It really bugs me when people don't check my likes,dislikes and limits so I always check the person in question likes edit before posting

[businky]

I always do, although i must say it bugs me when i have to click a link to see them and a whole page with 1000 items are there to read

[Sissyboy998]

I always look at likes dislikes and limits no matter how long it will take me.

[WalkingWholockian]

oh my god this needs to be addressed >.< i swear sometimes people use my limits as a checklist to include in dares just to annoy me >.< when i used to be super active, id get many people give me dares and be upset because there were certain parts that i cant do -_-

or "masters/mistresses" who demand i step blatantly over my limits in the name of "strictness" and becomes hostile when i try to explain or maybe even try to find a compromise on occasion. no. thats not being strict, thats being a bad master who ignores consent! Thats part why i'm not owned. i prefer to just get dares and have the choice :P

[Sissyboy998]

Originally Posted by WalkingWholockian

oh my god this needs to be addressed >.< i swear sometimes people use my limits as a checklist to include in dares just to annoy me >.< when i used to be super active, id get many people give me dares and be upset because there were certain parts that i cant do -_-

or "masters/mistresses" who demand i step blatantly over my limits in the name of "strictness" and becomes hostile when i try to explain or maybe even try to find a compromise on occasion. no. thats not being strict, thats being a bad master who ignores consent! Thats part why i'm not owned. i prefer to just get dares and have the choice :P

I agree with you. I got tired of people not reading my likes dislikes and limits so if I get a dare I don't do it if it's a limit.

[alja]

When I give dares I always check the limits. I also check the dislikes and decide if I want to incorporate some of them to make it more difficult or if I don't. I want other to respect my limits and thus I have to check their limits too. It would be very rude not to.

Originally Posted by RiskyFlame

To me, it really helps when you just put your (dis-)likes and limits directly in your signature. Don't put a link to one of your blogs, because this will only give other people (who give you a dare) more work to do. Even though it's only one click, it may just be that little thing that makes the lazy (and not lazy) people give dares that are within your boundries.

If the signature is too long it annoys me. Also there is a length limit for the signature. If you got some limits to list, you'll end up filling your whole signature with limits and nothing else.

[PlagueBringer]

I always read Likes and Limits. Especially when I am giving dares. If someone gives you the resources to give them a dare they can do, why wouldn't you read those to give them the best dare you can? I just don't get why people don't do it either.

[Sissyboy998]

I feel like everyone on getdare needs to see this post to know how frusterated people get when they get a dare that's in their limits

[lop747]

I try to always read them if I am going to give them a dare. It isn't worth my time to come up with a good dare if the person isn't going to do it if it is in their limits

[sexyjack96]

I always check. It's important to know what the other person likes, dislikes and will not go anyway near with a 10 foot barge pole. Or in other words there limits.