Would they ever guess?

[sockless74]

No one knows the extend of my interest in BDSM. Not even my wife knows the full extent of my interests. She does willingly lock my in the closet if I ask her to or will wrap me in plastic wrap, but she take no pleasure in it and does not dominate me at or take control at all. She simple does what I ask and it is rather boring. I don't think I could ever reveal to her the full extent of my interests.

[Counterfeit_Fantasy]

I don't think they would believe that I had anything to do in this lifestyle. For all they know, I'm a nun that bathes with a swimsuit.

[RoseSalt]

I looked up the lyrics and watched the video. It made me smile for the funny of it.
Nobody would ever suspect me, I don't think. I'm very shy and nice, and I don't date very much. The only people possibly aware offline are my ex's, and I intend to keep it that way.
That said, I think its ridiculous to assume that teenagers wouldn't know what this sort of thing is. They might not get the nuances, but this generation grew up with "Google it". Nothing is seceret if you have the guts to look it up.

[DancingBear]

No. The few people that know about me didn't believe it when I told them. It's funny actually.. they're like, "YOU? Hmm.. mm " haha.

[heishere]

Maybe I just know and talk to weird people, but the majority of them know what S&M is. Do they say that they like it? Yes. Do they actually like it? I highly doubt it, but I smile and nod and agree with them liking S&M while I laugh on the inside.

Now that I've managed to completely avoid answering this whole time, I should probably answer - no, i don't think they have a real clue about it.

[smokeyeager]

Most people that know me wouldn't be surprised that I'm into it. Quite a few known certain people call me Master and the eye-bolts and rope lying around my room are a dead give away too. I even had one friend borrow some rope so he could tie his girlfriend up. lol

To answer the question though, most people are clueless, or have a bit of a clue and don't pursue it.

[Siren]

I doubt anyone suspects anything. I'm ever so innocent Most people do seem to assume I'm some sort of narrow-minded prude, though that's usually the same people who think I'm quiet. So anyone who doesn't know me, essentially. I think my friends realise I'm hiding something, but a lot of people assume that Y'know, always the quiet ones.

[twotothetenth]

They probably don't suspect anything (most of them, anyway), but I think I have reputation as the we-don't-know-what-he's-up-to-but-it-might-be-anything kinda guy, so I suppose they wouldn't be all too surprised.

[SilverKerberos]

One of my co-workers knows that I love the song, but if any of them knew I actually engage in S&M (especially with another co-worker...) I think their heads would roll and they'd have no idea what to say. If my family found out I'm pretty sure they'd disown me lol. I make plenty of sex jokes at work though, and when gals say they're gonna hit me or complain about something I just say "never know, might like it". But I know they have no clue regarding my sub and our relationship.

[Rose_Angel]

I'm that 'good little conservative Christian girl.'

I'm open with several people about my interests and kinks. My parents know, and several friends are aware. But whenever I do share the information with new people I've come to trust, they are generally quite shocked.

And I think if I were somehow 'found out' by my community, they may not believe it.

Oh... and I love that song! I had a friend start singing it once in the car, which surprised me. I asked her if she had any idea what it was, because she's the most straight-laced person I'd ever met (of course, several think the same about me I'm sure). She didn't have a clue, and was just shocked when I told her.

[Dareholic]

For as people knowing exactly what I do for Mistess and Master, aka Ma'am and Sir out in public; I am an In home, 24/7 personal assitant, when they need me. Now, I do have my off hours, and off days of the week; and other days that just happen to be. However, I am very happy and content on my life right now. Although, both Mistress and Master like that I am still going part time to the University. I have 2 degrees and working on uping one of them to the next level.

[**Mandi**]

Besides the people who know bits and pieces of some of my kinks (I have never really told anyone) everyone would be extremely shocked. Most people think I am very innocent when it comes to stuff like this.

Actually, now that I think about it, I am not sure. I mean when I told some of my friends bits and pieces of it they were very surprised and people definitely did use to think I was an innocent.. but I think that view may have changed this past year for a lot of people around me so maybe they wouldn't be too surprised?

I don't know, I just gave the most vague answer ever.. I apologize.

[EmmaLang]

Apart from my Mom and dad and older brother, I think most people know what I am into and the things I do.

[Slightly Pathetic]

One friend knows about it, but only because we talked about possibly being fuck buddies. Even with her, she was very (pleasantly) surprised. People seem to assume I'm really vanilla based on my demeanor. Most even worry about saying something racy around me, actually. I think it's hilarious!

[Kitten9876]

oh, absolutly no one but my boyfriend and master knows my interests, my sister HAS seen one of my toys before(the buttplug) so it is a little awkward however i dont think anyone around me would truly guess my kinks lol normally im an extremely shy girl(almost never speak unless spoken to :/)