AMA: 29, female, top/owner of my pup FTM Husband

Stellz · 11-11-2018, 10:46 PM

I've been gone for a while. I'm bored. Ask away.

* My husband's trans status is not a fetish. I will not answer questions strictly about him, his experience, or surgeries. *

amethyst353 · 11-11-2018, 10:55 PM

Hello and welcome back.

What brings you back?

What is the dynamic between you and your husband? Is the power imbalance 24/7 or reserved for play time?

Stellz · 11-11-2018, 11:18 PM

What brings you back?
GD was a place that really helped me become comfortable in almost every aspect of my sexuality. I was able to talk about and experiment with friends. I still have some of those people on my personal Facebook. I guess I'm here to try to find that again.

What is the dynamic between you and your husband? Is the power imbalance 24/7 or reserved for play time?
I would say that it's 24/7 in some ways. If we are going out, I will either tell him what to wear or approve his outfit. I usually order for him when we are out to eat or at the bar. I also control the finances. Even if our friends don't know the extent of our kinkiness, they know who is in charge. He wears a labradorite and hemp necklace I got him so that he can feel owned. We're also planning on a brand someday. Being married, there's definitely a shift from things being very task focused to me just taking the lead and being in charge in our daily life.

Mousey123 · 11-12-2018, 02:01 PM

What is your favourite thing to make your pup to do?

is there something you want to try but havent yet?

Greatcornbow · 11-12-2018, 05:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Stellz

I've been gone for a while. I'm bored. Ask away.

* My husband's trans status is not a fetish. I will not answer questions strictly about him, his experience, or surgeries. *

Do you keep him locked in a chastity device?

Stellz · 11-15-2018, 05:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Mousey123

What is your favourite thing to make your pup to do?

To be honest, I don't really 'make' him do anything at this point in our relationship. I have a really soft approach when it comes to being his domme. He pretty much knows what's expected of him at this point. I take care of him in some ways and he takes care of me.

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Originally Posted by Mousey123

is there something you want to try but havent yet?

I would love to start doing more non-verbal communication training and pup behavior training. He knows what I like, for the most part, but trying to figure out what his brain is and isn't ok with can sometimes be a struggle. He's pretty new to most of this and still feels a lot of guilt about what he enjoys. So I'm trying to come up with something that will make him more comfortable expressing what he would like.

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Originally Posted by Greatcornbow

Do you keep him locked in a chastity device?

Nope. My fun with being a domme comes from giving him pleasure and making him squirm. I need full access for that.

11-11-2018, 10:46 PM	#1
Stellz Distinguished Member Join Date: May 2010 Location: A boat on a river, with tangerine trees and marmalade skies. Posts: 606 Blog Entries: 50	AMA: 29, female, top/owner of my pup FTM Husband I've been gone for a while. I'm bored. Ask away. * My husband's trans status is not a fetish. I will not answer questions strictly about him, his experience, or surgeries. * __________________ ✪ 29 ✪ She/Her ✪ Married & Monogamous✪ ****************** Owner of my pup and husband Ask me about our adventures <3 ✪

11-11-2018, 10:55 PM	#2
amethyst353 getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Sep 2016 Posts: 498 Blog Entries: 16	Hello and welcome back. What brings you back? What is the dynamic between you and your husband? Is the power imbalance 24/7 or reserved for play time? __________________ 32\|bi(prefers women)\|trans woman\|sub-leaning switch formerly known as marissa353 loves: humiliation, gags, bodywriting, bondage, games limits: pics with face, messing with sleep, public, heavy blackmail, videos, permanent, scat, extreme pain Note: I transitioned years ago - wearing women's clothes isn't a dare. If you give me a sissy-themed dare, I will ignore you. Full likes/limits \| Toys/Items I Own \| PM Dares (friends only for a bit) \| My current rules

11-11-2018, 11:18 PM	#3
Stellz Distinguished Member Join Date: May 2010 Location: A boat on a river, with tangerine trees and marmalade skies. Posts: 606 Blog Entries: 50	What brings you back? GD was a place that really helped me become comfortable in almost every aspect of my sexuality. I was able to talk about and experiment with friends. I still have some of those people on my personal Facebook. I guess I'm here to try to find that again. What is the dynamic between you and your husband? Is the power imbalance 24/7 or reserved for play time? I would say that it's 24/7 in some ways. If we are going out, I will either tell him what to wear or approve his outfit. I usually order for him when we are out to eat or at the bar. I also control the finances. Even if our friends don't know the extent of our kinkiness, they know who is in charge. He wears a labradorite and hemp necklace I got him so that he can feel owned. We're also planning on a brand someday. Being married, there's definitely a shift from things being very task focused to me just taking the lead and being in charge in our daily life. __________________ ✪ 29 ✪ She/Her ✪ Married & Monogamous✪ ****************** Owner of my pup and husband Ask me about our adventures <3 ✪

11-12-2018, 02:01 PM	#4
Mousey123 getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Oct 2016 Posts: 470 Blog Entries: 12	What is your favourite thing to make your pup to do? is there something you want to try but havent yet?