Starting to love controlling my bf

Tom and Melissa · 08-19-2018, 12:20 PM

We are very new to the kink. femdom community.

So i have begun to love controlling my bf's cock all i have done so far is tie him down and teased and denied him over and over but i would like to begin learning new thing's to do to him for my pleasure and enjoyment, we are wanting to start of light as we have only just started at this and we're vanilla not long ago, "but not too light"

bubba51 · 08-19-2018, 04:13 PM

Put him in your panties

Bloxo · 08-19-2018, 04:18 PM

One thing would be some sensation play, while you have him tied up you can stimulate him in a number of ways for the tease:

- Feathers, works quite well to stimulate the senses
- Have ice cubes in your mouth when you go down on him
- You can use oils so he looks nice and shiny for you
- Face sitting is quite a power play

Tom and Melissa · 08-20-2018, 05:27 AM

Great ideas thanks,

anymore suggestions

SubStevie · 08-20-2018, 05:40 AM

One idea is to have him find and buy a chastity device as you threaten to lock is cock up. He will then feel your power and obey you always.

Narnia · 10-20-2018, 12:49 AM

You could also Tie a Dildo above his cock, and then ride that instead of him, great little powerplay

Alien Domme · 10-26-2018, 06:02 PM

Once you have a chastity cage i would suggest locking him for 2-3 then watch a film that turns you both on and after order him to strip and lick and kiss his cage until he makes you cum with him mouth

girlsockboy · 11-13-2018, 10:58 AM

If you haven't got a chastity cage yet (or if you did lock) deny him an orgasm for 3 days. Any cheating will reset the 3 day timer. Tie him and tease the S##t out of him. After three days is up you can allow him to have an orgasm or extend his time a little bit more....

just.for.fun01 · 11-13-2018, 11:14 AM

Anther thing that you could do is when you do decide to let him cum keep going with however you made him cum if he’s tied down maybe even gag him see if he can cum twice or more in a row

Phaade · 11-13-2018, 11:35 AM

You can consider putting a blindfold and headphones on him aswell. Make him listen to music or porn or something like that and then tease him. It makes the sensations way more powerful and intense because he is only focused on it when you take his vision and hearing.

Also you could try ruined orgasms when you ahve him tied up. Basically making him believe that he is allowed to cum and then take it from him in this moment

Bankerrtx01 · 11-13-2018, 11:39 AM

Try milking him Dry in a Certain time limit. If you fails he tries to do the same to you.

08-19-2018, 12:20 PM	#1
Tom and Melissa Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2018 Posts: 13	Starting to love controlling my bf We are very new to the kink. femdom community. So i have begun to love controlling my bf's cock all i have done so far is tie him down and teased and denied him over and over but i would like to begin learning new thing's to do to him for my pleasure and enjoyment, we are wanting to start of light as we have only just started at this and we're vanilla not long ago, "but not too light" __________________ We are a couple from the UK who have a growing interest in kink and femdom.

08-19-2018, 04:13 PM	#2
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08-19-2018, 04:18 PM	#3
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08-20-2018, 05:27 AM	#4
Tom and Melissa Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2018 Posts: 13	Great ideas thanks, anymore suggestions __________________ We are a couple from the UK who have a growing interest in kink and femdom.

08-20-2018, 05:40 AM	#5
SubStevie Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2015 Posts: 132 Blog Entries: 1	One idea is to have him find and buy a chastity device as you threaten to lock is cock up. He will then feel your power and obey you always. __________________ Likes: bondage, ropes, blackmail, public, piss, messy, pain Dislikes: cbt Maybe: CBT, poo Limits: family, friends, blood PM Dares

10-20-2018, 12:49 AM	#6
Narnia Member Join Date: Oct 2018 Location: Germany Posts: 64	Just a small Idea You could also Tie a Dildo above his cock, and then ride that instead of him, great little powerplay

10-26-2018, 06:02 PM	#7
Alien Domme Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2018 Posts: 8	Once you have a chastity cage i would suggest locking him for 2-3 then watch a film that turns you both on and after order him to strip and lick and kiss his cage until he makes you cum with him mouth

11-13-2018, 10:58 AM	#8
girlsockboy Distinguished Member Join Date: Sep 2016 Location: Maryland Posts: 560	If you haven't got a chastity cage yet (or if you did lock) deny him an orgasm for 3 days. Any cheating will reset the 3 day timer. Tie him and tease the S##t out of him. After three days is up you can allow him to have an orgasm or extend his time a little bit more.... __________________ Loves: Girl Socks, Public Shoe Loss, Semi Public, Orgasm Denial, Humiliation Punishments: Edging, Long Denial, Chastity, Bladder Holding Limits: Anal, Blood, Scat or Piss, Illegal

11-13-2018, 11:14 AM	#9
just.for.fun01 Prodigy Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Canada Posts: 4,186 Blog Entries: 1	Anther thing that you could do is when you do decide to let him cum keep going with however you made him cum if he’s tied down maybe even gag him see if he can cum twice or more in a row __________________ My dares: A night at the movies (public)http://getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=352740 The Edgy Workout (Female) http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=372405 My Challenges What’s one more day http://https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=400279 Chasity/Denial Weight Loss Challenge http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=404467

11-13-2018, 11:35 AM	#10
Phaade Member Join Date: Nov 2018 Location: Germany Posts: 98 Blog Entries: 12	You can consider putting a blindfold and headphones on him aswell. Make him listen to music or porn or something like that and then tease him. It makes the sensations way more powerful and intense because he is only focused on it when you take his vision and hearing. Also you could try ruined orgasms when you ahve him tied up. Basically making him believe that he is allowed to cum and then take it from him in this moment __________________ --21--Male--Submissive-- Likes/Dislikes/Curious＆Limits Toys Actively looking for a Domme My Denial Diary My Blog

11-13-2018, 11:39 AM	#11
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