37/female/dom seeks 21+/female/sub in EU (risk adventures)

[OhMyGosh]

37/female/dom seeks 21+/female/sub in EU (risk adventures)

Hi there,

first of all: I am not completely new to this website as I used to be online here some years ago as a most time lurker under a different nickname. But I just re-registered again last week, as I simply could not remember my old username anymore. All of my former submissives I used to play with back then also seem to be long gone and away. But now I would love to get to know some new people and play with someone online who perhaps shares the same kind of turnons.

Who I am:
My name is Claudia, I'm 37yo and from Germany. So please excuse my English, I know it is not perfect. But yet I hope we will still be able to communicate and understand each other. I am not a typical dominant, I rather see myself as some kind of advisor, guiding others as they explore their sexual fantasies and desires. Within this role, I can still be demanding, pushing and sometimes a bit harsh if neccessary. But in general I see my submissives as equals and will treat you with respect (unless you really don't want me to).

What I am looking for:
I gain arousal from my dare partners' embarassment. Therefore I would like to bring yourself into situations which might feel extremely risky, painful, weird or even disgusting to you. My goal would be to have you think something like: "Oh my gosh, I can't believe, I am doing something this crazy right now!". It's extremely hot for me when you feel shocked or humiliated by your own actions or thoughts.

What exactly you would have to do, depends on your own individual turnons, desires, fantasies and restrictions. Each person is different and has own unique things she wants to explore. So far, my adventures with this topic mostly dealt with hidden public dares, masturbation at risky places or certain amounts of exposure (without having to suffer severe negative consequences). Feel free to ask me for some example, if you need further information.

To me it's really important, that you already have existing sexual fantasies, that we can slowly make you approach in real life step by step. I don't feel well with just giving you orders without you being an essential creative part of our games as well. Those kind of games need a great amount of mutual trust. So I am usually looking for mid- to long-term online relationships here, in which we can get to know each other first and see if our expectations match or not. We would mostly write here via private message or using the getdare chat. I don't use any other messengers. At best, we could write at least once a week, sometimes more often.

My own likes:
I have a fetish for large inner labia that look as protruding as my own. Makes it easier for me to relate to when we're playing with them. I also like to make you feel ashamed (verbally) for the way your intimate spots look like (preferably in German, if not then in English). And I do enjoy games like unusual insertion, labia stretching or pussy pumping as well as playing with clothespins or burning sensation. I am rather sadistic than a masochist, but I have tried most techniques on myself at least once or twice before. So in most cases I know exactly how much I am asking from you and assess your situation quite well.

My limits:
I am strictly against illegal stuff and don't want you to get in trouble. So no matter how risky we play, I want you to stay safe and secure eventually. I don't want to play with pee, poo, vomit or blood. And I don't want any psychological or physical damage involved. We can play with the risk of hypothetical social suicide, but I want to make sure you get out of such situations uncaught in the end. Please no age and diaper games, I do not like that at all. That all being said, I consider myself as quite open minded.

Conclusion:
I know this is not a common domme-sub-relation and probably quite different than what most people are used to when playing here. My expectations might be quite high, maybe too high and honestly I don't really expect many volunteers to show up after I post this. But even if there is a slight chance that you could be the right person who would also get aroused by such risky, embarassing games, to me it would be totally worth it. And no matter how crazy some of our adventures might become, I guarantee I will help you exploring your kinks as well as possible and do my best to guide you safely even through the most exciting scenario.

Thanks your your time. I'm looking forward to get to know you a little better!
Yours,

Claudia

Here's an addition, as I got asked this several times in private messages: No, you don't neccessarily have to show yourself while we are playing. I mean, picture proofs are fine, but optional, as long as you can provide any other fitting type of proof, such as audio recordings or detailed written reports. I don't want anyone to show something of themselves that they don't feel comfortable with.

Thanks for your replies on my ad here and for your private messages. I am still searching. I have to apologize for not wanting male submissives to be part of this adventure.

I must admit, that I might be a bit complicated when it comes to this whole gender topic. First: As much as I support the LGTBQ+ movement, I see myself as a straight heterosexual Cis-Woman in real life and have only had experience with dating men so far. To be honest, in reality I would rather not like to imagine making out with someone of the same sex. Not as it were wrong or anything, it just would not arouse me I guess. But when playing online, strangely it's just the other way around. I became aware that I usually prefer playing with other women and can't really tell why. I guess it has to do much with the fact, that I'm trying to relate to my submissive's situation and it's much easier for me to feel their emotions while we're exploring their fantasies (which also includes this special kind of humiliation I'm into).

So please don't get me wrong, I feel very flattered by replies from males here as well. But I would like to find someone of the same sex for this scenario, as I also mentioned it in the title of this thread.

[casualluuk]

I am into this one now

[Elile]

Spunds verry intressting pleas kik me elileelile

[imuos54]

I'm in kik is in sig please

[blnsub]

Hi Claudia,
what you describe sounds very interesting to me. I am a german sub I would like to some risky outdoor adventures. I am not sure yet, what exactly and I would love to have someone to encourage me. You can find my kik in my signature. If kik is not working for you, skype would also be possible.
your, blnsub

[blnsub]

Of couse get dare messenges are also fine with me.

[OhMyGosh]

Thanks for all your applications so far. I want to emphazise again, that when playing online, I am looking for same sexual and long term relations. Have to admit, that I might be a bit complicated when it comes to this certain topic. In real life, I see myself as straight heterosexual and have only had experience with men and would never want to kiss, touch or get intimate with another woman. But when playing online, writing with someone who I can relate to easier, helps me enjoy these kind of dares way more. For me it's all about what kind of embarassing or humiliating thoughts you encounter during our games. I'm not really sure why, but with guys, I can't really feel it the same way I do when I try to imagine what a female sub is going through during our dares.

So please don't be disappointed, I really apprecciate your efforts, guys and under different circumstances would love to play with you instead. But for this special topic here, I need other females as volunteers. Even for me that's hard to explain.