29/male/dom seeks any age/female/sub in any place (uk based dom)

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29/male/dom seeks any age/female/sub in any place (uk based dom)

Welcome!


Greetings and salutations to any potential reader. As you can no doubt guess from the title, this add is my newest foray into finding myself a new sub/slave/pet ect. to train and mold into the perfect submissive.
I’m opening this add up to female, trans (either way) and now sissy applicants as well, though with sissy applicants i’ll be extremely picky on who i choose to take on. I'm not really interested in someone who just likes to wear panties once in a while but instead someone who is looking to give the time for a lifestyle change.
Now, without any more delay, on with the add!
I know it is long, plenty to read through, don't let yourself get overwhelmed by it!

Who Am I?



My name is Peter, I’m 29 and I’ve been active in the lifestyle for around 7 years now (time goes so fast), over which time i’ve owned all manner of subs online and offline, ranging from those who crave extreme pain to those seeking the loving care of a daddy dom to those who just love to be treated like trash then to those simply dipping their toes in the water, whilst in turn i’ve taken on many different positions as a dom, from owner, to slave handler, to daddy dom and others, i tend to fit quite naturally into a rather large spectrum of roles, as a result I tend to be very flexible in my approach to every sub, slave, pet ect. instead of getting bogged down in the same routine for every person and expecting them to all react the same way.
Outside of the lifestyle I love all things geek related, in particular I love video games, always have and always will, I enjoy marathoning series or movies, being critical about things and love to be creative, which I believe is what lead me to the lifestyle in the first place, every sub is a new chance to mould someone to my desires, from behavioural quirks to being creative with tasks. It'd be great if i could find someone to get a back and forth with in regards to these things, though thats by no means a nessesity.
I have in recent years found myself with a big fascination with D&D as well! To that point that I normally play in a couple of games each week and dm a home-brewed game as well! How I wish I had gotten into this game sooner!
I live in the UK in the north west, i’ll be willing to give the specifics once i get to know someone, but not until then. It’d be excellent to find someone near by, I’ve managed to find others on here even within my sleepy little town before, honestly more often then places such as fetlife…
For those looking for direct messaging contact, my Kik is: qxDoomBringerXp
If you message on there, send more then just 'hi' first impressions are everything...

Who/What I Am Seeking



I am currently ideally seeking either a female, possibly trans or dedicated sissy to take on and train, any female applying would get bumped to the front of the que for consideration though, thats just my personal preference. It’d be nice to find something that has the potential to go further then the dynamic, though I won’t be holding my breath with that, its not an essential aspect to the dynamic at all.
The person applying can be of any dynamic, be them sub, slave, pet, little ect. I can very easily adapt to any variation as I have already mentioned, though in an ideal world, I’d like someone I can mould and show who she really is, i’ve always been particularly good in drawing out the inner slut/bimbo of those who’ve served me, especially those who never knew they had that desire in them, so someone who seeks that happening to them would be ideal. Bimbofication in particular has been something i've been wanting to be more involved in training someone with of late.
Your living situation can always be worked around, I will need plenty of info (don’t be put off by me asking allot of questions, the more I know, the easier it is for me to control/guide someone), your experience doesn’t matter, be it you’ve been in the lifestyle for decades or if your brand new, being new only means your discovering everything for the first time after all, that your likely nervous but excited, if so, take the dive and see how things are, you can always swim back to the surface if it turns out to not be for you after all.
I would naturally prefer someone close by to me, at least in my time zone though that does not rule out anyone else across the world, time zones are easy to work with once you get a handle on things, it’d just be nice to find a local sub to train in person as opposed to online (though starting online is naturally fine).

My Expectations For You


• You will be honest, regardless of the consequences, lying is the first biggest failing of any sub
• You will be dependable, when you give your word, don’t break it without letting me know you won’t be able to keep it, it takes seconds to send a message after all
• Regular contact for both serving and sessions, the term regular means different things for many but i want to be able to have a conversation with any potential sub at least once every few days. Work commitments can interfere at times but we can find work arounds
• I expect you to have an open mind to new idea’s instead of expecting 1 very specific thing and only that
• You will be willing to prove your a real life person somehow, instead of an evil intelligent dog with thumbs, this does not mean 'send nudes', though i'll never turn down said nude, proofing who you are can be far simpler, a normal faceless pick with a sign, a voice call or video call
• Do not lie about yourself, it will always come out
• You will not be a robot, there’s no worse turn off then someone who’s just going by the numbers instead of showing their personality


What To Expect From Me


• You’ll receive regular contact
• I am fairly strict
• Despite being strict at enforcing rules, I give lee way to let peoples personality come through, so long as it doesn’t compromise said rules
• I can have a silly side that comes out to those who shine the right way
• My punishments are not fun, don’t try asking for punishments and then be surprised you don’t enjoy what i set, if you enjoy the pain/humiliation of things, then say so, so it can be worked into things without seeming to disappoint me
• Expect to have the desires of what you wish to be become reality
• Expect tasks to be varied and fairly creative
• You will have rules that will guide you through your days
• New comers will be gradually introduced to things, as not to overwhelm
• You can always expect honesty from me, its one thing i always pride myself with, i keep my word and have maintained
• Anything sent to me remains private, i’ve always held to this, I have uploaded a handful of things here and there, but only with the person’s consent, such as the pictures on my GD profile, all people who have been fine to have their images publicly shown. There are many pictures I’ve taken myself I’d love to upload, but because the person i took them of never consented to having them publicly uploaded (meaning pictures taken in person), they have remained for my eyes only, despite how brilliant some of these pictures are!


My Interests



Before reading through these, bare in mind that you are not required to be into all or even any of these things, ultimately my main enjoyment is in the dynamic thats established between the sub/slave/pet ect. and dom, having similar interests in just icing on the cake. Things that are not mentioned are still on the table.

My Loves



Humiliation: I’ve always enjoyed this from my earliest forays into the lifestyle, its often a corner stone on the dynamics I normally have gone with, its not for all, but it is for many.

Public: This is something I’ve been taking more and more interest in over the years, I’ve set many tasks online with this but have also been involved in person with public things whilst making sure to remain safe of course.

Bondage: Bit of a no brainer that this would be here, I’d love to find someone local to me that i can practice rope bondage on regularly ideally, but restraining someone, leaving themselves at your mercy, there’s something intimate about it that nothing else really compares to, in my honest opinion, i’d say there’s no better examples of putting your trust in someone.

Pet Play: I’ve owned many pets over the years, they are something that i’ve always enjoyed training which leave allot of room for tasks around that 1 dynamic.

TPE: This is not for all and its not something i’d ever expect straight off the bat, how-ever i like to work up to eventually seeing a potential slave ect. giving up their control over their own lives, or aspects of it at least.

Pain: I can be very sadistic at times, I never enjoy having to punish someones, the very nature of needing to punish someone means they’ve failed you, how-ever general pain play (pleasure/pain play for instance) can be an attraction, its certainly not for all though.

Bimbofication: I want to train the perfect little bimbo/slut, this particular thing has been a more recent interest that i want to dive fully into, its just a matter of finding the right person for the job.

People who show effort: This is very overlooked by many, but by doing that little something to show your trying, even when you fail at something goes a long way.

Everything Else: I ultimately love all aspects of the lifestyle, the above being the cherries on the cake for me simply, the rest are things I'm still interested in, feel free to ask anything if our unsure.


My Dislikes



Liars: Far to many people think they won’t get caught out, but the truth is they always do, being in the lifestyle for so long has given me a rather good bullshit detector, perhaps sometimes people are being honest about some things, but when irregularities keep cropping up, it becomes obvious somethings not right.

People become too attached too quickly: This can push me away, its most often something thats seen in littles, they jump on and wrap their arms around something they barely know, things like that should be built up to over a period of time, not just 2 days.


My Limits



Engaging in illegal acts: This should be a no brainer, I have no interest in drugs, I have no interest in people below the age of consent, I’m not going to do anything that revolves around stealing, though public is an interest, I have no interest in making you commit social suicide. The very basis of any dynamic is to remain ‘Safe, Sane and Consensual’.

An Example Of A Session I've Particularly Enjoyed


I thought i'd throw in an example of a session i've had in the past that i've particularly enjoyed, it will be a brief over view of said session.

In this, it was the first time we had done this, so I didn't take it too far to scare my sub away from repeating it and going further.
We went for a walk in a park near where I live late on, when it was starting to darken. After a while we found a somewhat secluded spot where i stripped her so she only wore a dress and played with her a bit, bunching the dress up so her breasts where exposed as was her pussy, making it seem like a belt. I kept it on her as a safety blanket of sorts in case she became too nervous.
After a little bit of talking down to her whilst playing with her which saw a very good response, we moved on. I aloud her to wear her coat, but kept the dress as it was given the coat could just about cover the same area as the dress (it was a very short dress). We found a better spot, somewhere with better lines of sight for myself to keep an eye out, though at this point it was fairly dark, so there was little need to worry. She had been misbehaving somewhat on the walk over, knowing that being cheeky would get her what she wanted but knowing not to be too far to be actually punished. I took her coat off her and had her spread her legs and lean against a near by fence and spanked her, not one designed to hurt, but one designed to make her dribble, by around the 10th spank that was already a success. She was panting, excited, begging to be touched and... well... I think you have enough of a glimpse into that session here.
Things went on for a while after that, I just wanted to give an example of a session i particularly enjoyed, to give any applicant an idea what could help to please me, though I don't expect very many would be willing to do those sorts of things in so public a place.

A Little Something New I Wish To Try

I would like to try finding someone who i can use as a photo model to create captioned images with to be uploaded else where or outright magazine covers, with them as the staring model, it's in part to give me an excuse to practice using photoshop and illustrator more but it's been on my todo list for some time. If your messaging just with the intention of doing this particular thing, then be sure to say so, so we can work out a different arrangement.


My Outro




This add’s a bit different then my previous ones, I thought it was about time to switch it up a bit though there’s only so much you can do whilst trying to retain a certain level of info/quality (imo). Hopefully this will get a few responses, though only time will tell. I will get back to as many people who respond as I can, though if you can’t read, don’t overly expect a response.

What Comes Next For You




If you managed to get this far, congratulations! You have earned yourself a cookie! Do mention this cookie in your response message. I’d now like you to answer the below questions in your response, this gives me some basic information on you to work from and is your first impression.

What Is your name (or what you go by for now)?:
How old are you?:
What is your sex?:
What is your dynamic in the lifestyle?:
What are your loves, likes, dislikes and limits?:
Do you own a camera?:
Do you own a webcam?:
Do you have an issues using either of the above devices?:
What is your best quality?:
What is your favourite part of your body?:
What would you change about yourself given the choice?:
What can you offer to a potential owner?:
What experience do you have with the lifestyle?:
Tell me a random fact about yourself:
What time zone are you in?:
How can I improve this add?:

Thankyou for reading, if I’m not for you, then good luck in your search, but if your curious, be you experienced of brand new, feel free to message me, you may be surprised at how well you take, I know allot of the newer subs who’ve responded to me have always told me they where scared to, thats normal, but if you never dive in, you never find out how warm the water is.
Mention a cookie somewhere in your response, lets see how many people can read my complete add.

This feels like something I should not need to stress, but I am not interested in a standard male sub, from most of my more recent adds the only responses I have received have really been from male subs who've perhaps worn panties once or twice. With a sissy I'm seeking someone who's looking to have it as a focus of the dynamic, something that will affect day to day living, not the occasional small dip of your toes into things.