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Old 08-21-2020, 07:46 AM   #1
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Male 29/male/master seeks any age/female/slave in any place

29/male/master seeks any age/female/slave in any place

Intro
Hello, and thank you very much for taking the time to reading this ad. It's been awhile since I have posted my last ad, and as of right now I am I currently in search of a submissive. Before you respond to this, please make sure that you read everything completely and stop and ask yourself "Did I turely ready his entire ad?" This will avoid any disappointment and also a good way to not be wasting your time or my time. Without further delay, let's begin.

What I look like:
I am a white, male with medium dark brown hair, hazel eyes and no facial hair. I have a clean complexion. An arm tattoo of a mandala 150 lbs with an average builds. So not too skinny and not too fat. I normally wear all black, as black is my favorite color, next would be maroon.

My Hobbies/interests:
As of right now, I am currently enrolled in school as a graphic major (will be graduating in the fall.. yay me). Aside from computer graphics, I love writing and doing journalism. I have written almost 4 complete books on my own and have done 100+ short stories. I generally write fan-fiction/sci-fi/fiction. I am also into gaming. I have my own custom computer that I made from the grown up and often times find myself in the late evenings playing video games. I'm currently stuck on Fallout 4. I do enjoy anime as well, maybe not as much as I used to. My favorite one has to be Ghost in the shell, then Akira and Serial Experiments Lain. These are great series and I commend them to anyone who is into suspense. I also enjoy watching horror movies (the ghost movies, not the gore! I have no desire in watching someone be mutilated). My favorite food has got to be Chinese, although I have cut wayy back. I have been eating healthy now for almost a year, with no soda or fast food! I have to admit, it feels great!

What am I doing with my life?
I am currently finishing up school and working two jobs. It's very exhausting, but in the long-term, very rewarding. I live alone with my two roommates who are also my best friends, in a small town no one has ever heard of. My future is to move to the city where I can land a successful job as a graphic designer for a major company. What happens next is, time can only tell.

How/when I got involved:
Let's put it this way, I was 13 years old, I had a fasincation of seeing people tied up and being sexually tortured. Growing up in a religious household, this isn't something that is exactly accepted, and as such, I thought I was going to grow up to be a serial killer... no joke. Later on, when I found out that there was a name of this fetish and that I wasn't alone, I started to become more involved. At the age of 16 years old, I start chatting with people on yahoo chat (that was a long time ago). And after discovering that many other people were also into the same, I began experimenting with the idea of dominating someone. When I was 17 years old, I got into my first real relationship offline with a submissive. From there I had 2 other offline submissives. As far as online submissives, more than I can probably count, most of which were only a week. However, my longest online submissive lasted almost 6 months.

MY experiences with D/s:
As mentioned above, I have had both offline and online submissives. I would say that I truly began becoming an activist was when I was 16 years old. From that point on, I knew BDSM was a passion of mine. Most of my experiences come from being online and talking with people and learning about how other people do things and online domination. Do I enjoy online more than offline? It's hard to tell, both have their benefits. I can truly say that I have experienced a lot. I have had submissive of all shapes and sizes and have come to the point that not much can surprise me anymore.

The Type of Dom that I am:
I am what you call an old-fashion Dom that specialized in D/s. As much as this might hurt to know, I do not enjoy DD/lg. I've tried it before, and it simply does not satisfy my needs as a Dom. I am the type who enjoy my submissive on her knees bowing down and waiting for my orders. I am what you would call a Sir. I enjoy very much the art of classic D/s lifestyle, where the Dom is consider the Top and the submissive is considered the bottom. My role as a Dom being always superior over my submissive.

What am I like as a Dom?
Am I strict? A question that is often asked. I have been told that I can be very strict. As this might very, depending on the person, I do my best to be fair. I would never expect my sub to do something that I unreasonable or something that I fell I couldn't do myself. Yes, at times I can be strict, that I will not deny, nontheless, I do take my submissive feelings in account and talk to her as a human and no as an object. I do respect her opinions and at times compromise with her, should I fell it is necessary

What actives are involved?
This really depends on the the type of submissive that I am dealing with. For an example, if my submissive has extremely sensitive nipples, I would never have clothing pins placed on her nipples. That would be cruel. As a Dom, I do my very best to make sure my submissive feels comfortable under any situation. In general, I am a sadist. The more pain that my submissive can handle, the more creative I can be. I am also interested in humiliation, chasity play, and exhibitionism. I have also been known to do pubic play. .

What do I look for in a submissive?
I mostly look for a submissive who is willing and loyal. I expect my submissive to go the distance for me in order to make me happy. I want my submissive to regard me as her Dom and show me the utmost respect at all times and knows her place. The most important trait that I value the most is my submissive's ability to say "Yes Sir".

Are there rules involved?
To answer this question simply, yes their are. As to what those rules are and how they are applied and how many their are, again, depends on the submissive. Generally, I start off with my 5 and then from there, if I feel she is ready to handle more, then I may decide to give her more.

What are punishments like?
This is something that I'd like to cover in detail. All to often, when I hear someone say they want to be punished, I feel like the true meaning is being tarnished. To me, a punishment is exactly what it sounds like. An act of discipline that will serve as a reminder to not disobey again. A punishment is only given if the submissive does something that goes against her Dom's will, and in doing so is being disrespectful. Respect is very important to me, and if it is shown to be taken lightly, then a punishment is in order. I can assure you that a punishment from me will not be sexually desired.

Safewords/limits
I do not believe in safewords, as I think the word "no" or "Stop" acts alone to serve it's purpose. It's important for my sub to understand that regardless if the session goes on for 30 minutes or 30 seconds, she has the ability to make it stop at any point, without question. I will always respect that. It takes a lot of courage to let someone take control of someone else's freedom, and I strive to make sure that my submissive feels that she is in control and is comfortable at all times. As far as limits go, I will never cross the limits that my submissive may have. I assume she is will aware of her boundaries and as such, they will not be past.

Is this a long-term or short-term?
I am currently seeking someone who is interested in a long-term engagement that will last no shorter than 2 months. Generally, if matched with someone compatible, I have found these relationships last about 4 months, which is okay with me, but open to something longer if it comes to that.

Offline or online?
As of right now, I would like to keep things online, however, I am more than willing to engage in an offline relationship with my submissive should the opportunity arise.

Requirements:
I require that my submissive be female, 18 or over, and is open-minded. Is a cam required? As much as a deal-breaker that this might be, the answer is yes. However, I will never require my submissive to show her face. Her privacy is very important to me and I will do my best to make sure it remains secure. Furthermore, I will never ask my submissive for any personal information that she is not willing to give out on her own. AS I don't require any experiences, I do expect a submissive to be willing to learn and also not to be sassy-mouthed. She should also have her own privacy.

Communication:
I require that my submissive owns Skype. Unfortunately, I will not make any acceptations on this.

Okay, I'm interested, whats next?
If you really are interested in this type of relationship, great! All I ask if you you to answer the questions with as much detail as you can. Copy the questions to a word document and answer them. Afterwards, attach the questions to a PM titled APPLICATION FOR SERVICE.

Name
Age
Location
Your role (e.g. Sub, Slave, Switch... etc)
What do youlook like?
What are your hard limits?
What are your soft limits?
What are your likes?
What are your thoughts on being shared?
How often do you watch porn?
How often do you think about sex?
How often do you do you?
How often do you feel you could serve?
Do you like showing yourself off?
Do you like a lot of rules or not so much?
Do you like writing assignments?
Do you like writing on yourself?
Do you like a strict or easy going?
How much experience do you have?
What do you find most appealing about the lifestyle?
What does it mean to you to have a Master? and why is it important to you?
What do you believe is the most important part of your role?
What qualities do you value most important in a Master?
What additional information would like for me to know?
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Old 09-24-2020, 06:51 PM   #2
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Old 11-15-2020, 10:30 AM   #3
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Bump for November. Still looking
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Old 01-08-2021, 05:02 AM   #4
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Old 02-13-2021, 10:40 AM   #5
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Old 02-13-2021, 03:35 PM   #6
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Wow that's detailed.
How can you write so much?
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Old 02-14-2021, 06:27 PM   #7
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I would suggest adding some formatting to make it a bit easier to read and fixing the few typos.
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