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Male 32/male/master seeks 18-24/male/slave in any place (serious&honest)

32/male/master seeks 18-24/male/slave in any place (serious&honest)

Hi, thank you for reading my ad. It's going to take some time to read all of it, but if you are interested then please all of it. Please also remember, if you are interested, you have to reply exactly as I described. Also, sorry for every mistake I made... English is not my first language.

Right now I am looking for 2 more slaves to own and abuse. I will talk with every candidate that applies as I asked and then we will move on. I plan to give everyone a week trial so everyone will get a fair chance to prove yourself.

Introduction


Hello, my name is Chris. I'm 32 yo European guys. I am bisexual and I have a lovely fiance. She knows I'm into bdsm and that I'm bisexual, however, she has no idea that I train slaves online and I intent to keep it that way. She's the girl of my life and although that means I'm only interested in male slaves (sorry Ladies).

I've been involved into kinks since I was 17 (Experimented a lot with my ex boyfriend) and I started to be online master 10 years ago. During that time I have learnt quite a lot and still discovering new ways to have fun and give fun to my slaves.

In my free time I love to spend time with my fiance, play video games, watch twitch, watch movie or tv series, go for a walk or just hang out with other friends. I am an introvert though, and sometimes it might take me a bit to open up to someone, something, but if you are respectful, honest then it will be much easier. I also love to own and train slaves and subs

Right now I am still able to work from home, so that means I'm often available and can give you a lot of time (at least 10 hours a week). That being said, I have also some other responsibilities and my schedule can change, so there will be days when I have very limited time. I will keep you informed though.

Who am i looking for?

  • Male
  • 18-26yo ( noone younger or older, especially younger, its not important if you think that being 2 years younger or older is not that much, it is much for me. Dont try to cheat.
  • skinny, slim, average build. Few pounds too much is ok, but please don't reply if you are overweight or too muscular. ( I don't care how cute you are, just be the right age and not too muscular or overweight)
  • Single only. It means no relationships, no wife, girlfriends, boyfriends or whatever. I don't want to ruin your relationship. For example, if I say you are not allowed to cum for a week, what would you do if your girlfriend wants to have some fun?
  • someone who will cam and show face on cam on pictures after 20 days not later. if you dont want to cam , or send nude pictures with face then please dont reply...its not about blackmail. its about making sure you do what you are told. remember i will not use mic or cam
Important:



- Your location is not important as long as you can give me enough time to serve me.
- I don't care if you are straight, gay, bi or whatever. I want to obey me anyway, no matter your sexual orientation. If you can't stand being dominated by a guy, or if you don't take it serious cause I'm a guy then look elsewhere.
-only long term, at least few months, not 1 timers ,1 month etc.

Your personality:


This is kind of important part to me. I care more about your character than about your appearance. Now I will describe a bit about character traits I'm looking for.

Submissive:


For me, being submissive means you feel well under someone's control. You enjoy when someone gives you orders and you enjoy someone making decisions for you. IT also means you are obedient and able to follow orders well.

You might have many motivations, like serving/helping other people make you happy and fulfilled. You enjoy seeing others being happy when they see the effects of your work. You are not sure what you want and you don't like to make a decision yourself, you depend on other peoples' decisions. I'm looking for one or all of those.

know your place and you will not make demands on your dom/master. It doesn't mean I'm selfish, I will try to give you as much fun as possible, but I am not looking for someone who will tell me what I can do when I can do etc.
That's not being submissive, that's being dominant, at least in my opinion.
I will respect you and your limits, but I'm going to be in charge and make 95% of decisions.

Being honest and able to speak up about your opinion

I don't care about your reasoning. Lying is not good and will result with the ending of your slavery. I want you to be honest.

Now why should you be honest? Let's say you never tried anything. You really hate this task, so you have a choice lie to me that you liked the task and then you have to do something similar later in the future. Or you can be honest and tell me the truth about the task so we can put it into your limits.

That's why you should be able tell me exactly what you think, explain why and be able to communicate. Also remember I am not going to interrogate you every time to learn the truth. If you are not honest, not able to communicate well then you will not enjoy being my slave and we are not a good match.


Patience:


I am patient and I will be patient with you. I won't get angry easily, even if you fail (unless you fail on purpose). I expect the same thing from you. I am not able to make every single day something new and exciting tasks. It's not possible. It's also impossible to teach you the rules, edging, anal, pain and humiliation in 2/3 weeks. It will take much more so be patient and follow my lead. I will teach you everything you desire, but slowly and on my own pace. Please also think about, what will happen if I show you everything too fast?? you will get bored in the future and you will leave.

someone very kinky


I"am accepting and looking for someone very very kinky. I don't think watching someone stripping, jerking off or putting things up his ass is kinky at all. We can start slowly and easy, but I am after someone dirty, perverted and kinky. If you are not kinky and only in jerking off and for example anal..Then how long will it take before it gets boring for you or me or both of us? Not very long. Besides that... if I wanted to watch guy jerking off I would have watched porn.

Commitment:

I am looking for someone who is able to manage being a slave and his own private life. I expect you to give me at least 10 hours a week to train and use you. It will be for tasks, cam sessions, obedience trainings, talking and other stuff we decide to do. Sometimes I will give you less things to do so you will have more time for yourself and if you want to give me more than 10 hours its great.

Also remember i'm looking only for long term relationship. The longer the the better. Not into 1 session, one week, etc. I'm not a "filler" or clown to entertain you when you are bored.. its about being a "slave" not about teaching you something and then searching for another person cause someone left. Also be serious about it or it will not work.

Showing iniciative and being friendly:


Being willing, friendly and showing you care: I'm ok if you want to keep it to master/slave stuff only and to not talk about normal stuff, etc. but if you want to talk about normal stuff too, become friends, etc. then you should show that you care sometimes, or ask for a task, or even start a normal conversation. It's not required if you want to keep it only to master, the slave thing only, but if your not then I want it to be also a kind of friendly, etc. then it should be both ways so I should not be the only person who starts to talk etc. It shows you care and it's really appreciated. Also, feel free to ask questions during our conversation about the details and later, for me it shows you care. Hope you understand what I want to say here.


Please dont reply if you are not / you don't:
- not single
- not totally honest
- not serious
- not commited to this kind of relationship or any relationship
- younger then 18 and older then 26
- overweight
- not willing to accept that i will not show myself on cam or send you picutures of myself
- you are not willing to show face after enough time build a trust (you will have 20 days to show face)
- you don't have standart webcam, or you are not willing to use it ( phone webcam doesnt count)
- you are not willing to send picture proofs from start or video proofs ( without face
- not looking for long term relationship
- want to just jerk off, or fuck your butt
- don't like pain or you are not willing to learn how to take it.
- don't have enough privacy or/and free time
- you don't have standart webcam, or you are not willing to use it
- you are not able to tell me that you want to quit and give a reason


My likes and limits:


Our likes should be as similar as possible. If more than 3 likes from my list are your limits then we are not a good match, sorry.

Likes:
enslavement, honest people, spank, bondage, anal, nipple torture, cbt, messy, games, video games, orgasm control, edging, wedgies, piss play, rules, corner time, dice tasks, verbal abuse, dog training, chastity, orgasm denial, bathroom control, feet, socks, underwear play, cum play, weight torture, position training, obedience training, cam and much more

Limits: Blood, scat, to painfull, sounding, exposure, dangerous, full public, permanent, family, friends, animals, under 18 etc

All limits will be respected


More about likes:


i will describe few likes so you understand me a bit more:

enslavement: Means you being depended and under my control. It means you act like a slave, being used like a slave, controlled, being supervised. It also means acting and behaving like a slave, kind of roleplay, but I am looking for someone who would behave all the time according to his status.

spank: with hand, belt , wooden spatula, whip, ruler whatever can be used.
Sometimes its a problem cause of the noise. I'm not going to spank you till your ass is ruined. Thats not me... it will be sore pink and /or red but there will be no bleeding etc.

Bondage: everything to do with it. Tying you up for a few minutes, 30 minutes, a few hours, making you sleep tied up or chained to your bed. Its all hot and good. The only problem I have with bondage is predicament bondage. I don't want you to be found tied up by your roommate, brother, mom or whoever, so if we decide to do that then we will have to be careful..

Anal: I really enjoy it for many reasons. Fingering, small dildo, big dildo, huge dildo, different paces of fucking, plugging. Nothing too big or dangerous. Some guys don't like anal and I will accept it if its a limit, however you should at least trying. Love when someone gives up control over his hole.. it can be also used to humiliate you and show you your status as a slave.

oral training: everything to do with it. small dildos , big dildos, choking , making you drool on yourself etc all can be good. you might not like it and put it as a limit but if you dont we can have a lot of fun with that.

nipple torture: everything to do with it if its safe. no bleeding or destroying. pegs , twisting nipples, moving pegs, weight tied to nipples. etc all can be fun. Nipple tortures should be intense and fast, should not last more than 10 minutes at once.

Cbt: same as nipple tortures. Can be intense and cool. Slapping, pegs, wax, ball busting, ball twisting, stretching, etc. nothing dangerous and no sounding though.

messy: Pouring out milk over yourself, putting jam up your underwear , pissing yourself. it can be good , i use it mostly to make you humiliate you and/or make you slutty

Games, video games: everything to do with it, for example me deciding what game you play and how you play and what do you have to do. Like I decide you play case go and you have to slap your balls 10 times for each death, if you get a kill you remove 1 edge from your pull. If you lose the match you get denied for a week, if you win you get a reward, etc. or flip a coin game where your every good guess puts your clothes back on and wrong strips you down. If you are naked after 10 flips I will tie you up edge you then spank you. If you are still in the clothes you will get a reward.. I'm creative so it will not be boring.

Pet play- dog/cat plays: not everyone favorite thing to do and it's ok if you don't like it and decide to put it into the limits. It can walk on a leash, barking, drinking from a bowl, walks, fetching and more. Also, it can be boring after some time, so if we decide to do it and you are not a puppy/kitten person then we will do it from time to time.

Orgasm control/denial: long term, short term everything to do with it. Lock you in chastity for a few hours, few days, etc. is also cool. I will use it to discipline you, humiliate you etc. more control over your cock and balls the better .

Edging: everything to do with it. A few edges to make you horny, lots of edges, edging you and then telling you you can't cum. All can be great. I also love to make slaves beg for orgasm after they are being edged.
piss play: not everyone likes

Piss: everything to do with it. Drinking piss on yourself, pissing your clothes, gagging with pissed underwear.. all can be good although not everyone likes it. I like to use it as a humiliation. I will not force it on you though... I will respect it if its a limit like all limits you choose.

Feet/ sock: again, everything to do with it and not everyone likes it. I use it to show slaves how to worship your master, to humiliate, or to show what a dirty slut you can be

Pain: I like pain for many reasons. First of all, pain gives you so many options and there is so many things you can do about it, from slapping balls, to putting pegs on nipples to spanking, etc. I'm sure that it will be not boring for you for a long time. The second reason is more about you, it shows how much are you willing to give to your master/done and if you are ready to suffer a little bit for your masters pleasure it means a lot for many Doms. Many people are scared of pain, but I'm not that sadistic and your health and safety is very important to me. That means there is no blood, no injuries, etc. I play safe, but please remember that everyone has different pain tolerance level and also it's kind of difficult to control how much pain you feel while I'm sitting infornt of my monitor, etc. so communication is a key here but it's enough to just tell me it's a little bit too much and we will change task. and of course I'm sorry if that happens (although it happens like 2/3 times only).

Humiliation everyone is different, so it's difficult to humiliate someone for some people acting like a girl is humiliating for some people not so I will need to learn about you to humiliate you, but I always try not to go too far. It's really confusing for me sometimes when first you tell me that such humiliation is ok and after 3rd try you decide it's too much etc. So I will ask you a lot of questions about that and I will not do it often.

obedience training: its usually on cam. I test you to see how obedient you are and how to break you. for example i tell you not to touch yourself. then i make yuou watch porn and tease you , trying to make you disobey then punish you if you fail or reward you if you prove you are obedient. thats only an example there is alot of ways to see how obedient you are.

control:It is a big turn on, I enjoy the feeling of owning my slave /subs and the knowledge that I have some influence on you. I'm able to control many aspects of your life, but it needs to be realistic and if you are not serious it will not work. It takes time to adapt to the rules and it takes some time to write short reports, do a daily/ weekly routines and to report them but this is the important part of the control. Without your time/these reports etc. it's just fake and having rules just for a sake of having them makes no sense. As i said i am prepered to control alot like when you jerk off/ watch porn, body hair shaving, what underwear do you wear, what do you wear while you sleep (if anything) and are you tied up while doing that and much more. I always tailor rules for slaves/subs needs, but many rules are similar, differing in just small details like numbers, etc. so you should not be worried about me forcing any kind of role. You need to accept them and agree, in another way, it will not work, but when you do agree I want you to stick to your word and follow them. Please remember that I'm not into any control that may disturb your life or have a bad influence like sleeping schedule, diet control, etc

Orgasm/edging control/porn - My goal here is to teach you to masturbate and have an orgasm or watch porn only when I want or you deserve it but I know it's very difficult so it will be done slowly. I will also use that to make and keep you horny by edging, etc. It may be turned off for you, but it's the most basic and simple thing and if you are not ok with such thing then we are probably not a good match.

Your underwear/clothes, body hair: i can decide what do you wear for bed, choose your clothes , underwear , socks etc. I'm going to keep it serious and real though, so don't expect tasks like go naked to a mall or crossdress for your work etc. I also like my slaves smooth from the nose down, but for some people it might be a turn off, or not possible to shave some part of the body, I totally understand and won't make you shave if it's not possible.

Your free time: It's difficult and might be a turn off for some people. For example, I might dictate you how long can you play video games daily, watch tv, etc. I also might make you get tied up for 30 minutes instead of playing video games, etc. Such rules have to be discussed a lot before we do such things, cause I want you to be happy and able to follow those rules too.

Sleeping: Again , i want it to be realistic and i don't want to disturb your life so i will not give you sleeping time schedule but i can decide if you sleep naked or not or what clothes do you wear for bed and if you should sleep tied up etc. ( don't worry again, it will be rather simple bondage) routines: I can give you routines like weekly body shaving, daily spanking, bondage routines, anal routine and much more. There are a lot of opportunities here.

What do i offer:


I offer 3 ways of training or a mix. I will question you to make sure what's the best way of training for you. I will describe those ways of training when we talk privately, but here I will do it briefly so you know what you sign for. However, each training will have stuff you have to do no matter, for example orgasm control/denial for slaves, what so remember about that.

slave:The point is to make you feel like a true slave.
It will be mostly about control and obedience. I would like to micromanage you and take as much control over you as possible, for sure of your orgasm, some free time, body hair, underwear and some other stuff. We will discuss what can be controlled etc., but more control you give up the better. You should also have as much free time as possible

You should have as little limits as possible. I will decide almost everything that you do for me without choices, that slaves never had. I will use, abuse, I will torture you, make you sleep tied up, fuck your holes, you but still reward you with orgasm, or a bit of freedom if you do well. Remember the point is not to ruin your life but to make you feel like a true slave.

Sissy /slut: This will be about being slutty, sexy, dirty. You will be be denied yourself, and your holes will belong to me. I also will make you cross-dress, talk dirty, act, dance and behave like a true slut or true sissy. I will control your body hair and other stuff like the sissy slut without red ass after spanking is not a good sissy ..

Pup slave: you will be trained like a pup slave, that will be one of the most important part, I will also control you a lot and make sure you are obedient like a good puppy. I am going also to torture you, tie you up and orgasm denies you. There will be lots of things to do.

As i said i will tell you more detailed description of each role when we talk privatly

How to apply:


Now here is the important part. All I need to do is to answer questions. Please don't tell me that question about age or limits etc. are difficult or confusing. I know my English can be an issue, but I'm pretty sure that you can understand these questions. Also, please don't post here, I will only accept application via private message.Another thing you need to remember is I don't want you to describe me every part of your life, we will have enough time to talk about such things later, but first I need to see that you can follow simple orders and answer questions... how do you want to be a slave if you can't follow the simplest instructions that you will receive?

The way of application: It's very simple. First, you need to pm me, in the subject put "own me". Then you need to answer all questions below. If you don't put on me in the subject of the your application I will not accept it..

1name:
2.age:
3.location/time zone:
4.sexual orientation:
5.relationship status:
6.weigth/height:
7.how many doms/masters/owners have you had?
8.how much time can you / do you want to give me?
9.likes?
10.dislikes?
11.limits?
12. expectations?
13.tell me why do you want to be my slave/ you think we are good match?( i'm asking what makes us a good match not if you are submissive, or young enough or if you want to serve me)
14.tell me something about yourself
15.Have you read entire ad and you understood it?
16.Is there anything that was mentioned in my advert that you disliked?
17.Do you have your own room?
18.Do you have a basic webcam?
19. which option of training do you choose?
20. Any questions/ anything to say?

looking forward to hearings from you
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Old 11-27-2021, 11:59 AM   #2
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who can read this
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Old 11-27-2021, 12:05 PM   #3
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if you are able to read then you can read my post, like everyone that can read. seems not everyone is smart enough to read these days. Thanks for your high iq comment btw

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Old 11-30-2021, 09:33 AM   #4
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This is a very good master. I am very lucky to have a relationship with him.
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Old 12-06-2021, 10:54 AM   #5
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its good you are kind to share a lot experience to me thank you.
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Old 12-08-2021, 07:00 PM   #6
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Too bad I'm out of age range 😞
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