AMA! 19/f

[Red Tipped Arrow]

I cant sleep and thought this might be fun since I haven't done one of these before. No personal details ofc but no other restrictions!

And as a bonus whoever gives
1- the most questions (after the thread is obviously dying/dead)
2- the best question (can be won multiple times as I see fit)
will receive a special prize/reward to be determined at time of winning

[Red Tipped Arrow]

First questions came via DM so I will compile them here!

1. What is your most darkest fantasy?
I'm never quite sure how to answer this because there's so many different fantasies to choose from I'm not sure which is my favorite. One of them I always come back to is falling asleep for a midday nap on a countryside hill and being surprised with a group ready to tie me up and use all of me. When they finish having their way with me they tie me up for the night as a watchdog for their camp. In the morning they set me up as a gloryhole before being tied up with an ice lock and left there while they pack up and leave.


2. Is that you on your avatar?
I wish I was that confident but no its not. My profile is a picture I found on google of some hot lady in a sexy pose with similar hair to me (my hair is about the color of her roots and about that length)

[Hvalen]

1.are you sub or dom?
2. What's is the best part of being the person I question 1?
3. How did you get into anal.?
4. What's the biggest thing you have done anal?
5. Have you ever only had anal sex with a person?

[Red Tipped Arrow]

Originally Posted by Hvalen

1.are you sub or dom?
I'm very much a sub, though if you want to be specific I'm mostly a brat.
2. What's is the best part of being the person I question 1?
Well my favorite thing about being a brat is not needing to make many decisions for myself but I can somewhat force an outcome I really want if I know how to brat in that situation. It's hard to get a good outcome but a lot of the time it will just be wanting to be used more than I am so getting in trouble will get me more attention.
3. How did you get into anal.?
I don't really remember. I just always kinda had this fascination with my ass before I knew I could do anything fun with it.
4. What's the biggest thing you have done anal?
Well I'm a bit boring so the biggest thing I've had completely in my ass is my metal foxtail plug (1.8 inches).
5. Have you ever only had anal sex with a person?
Yeah, I've actually only ever had anal with real people. It's partially because I love it and partially because I'm paranoid about getting pregnant even with protection.

Thanks for the questions!

[Red Tipped Arrow]

Some more questions from the DMs!

3. How did you find getdare?
So I was looking through websites for T/D ideas for the sleepover I was going to the next day and stumbled upon here. I kinda got distracted
4. How did you got introduced to the idea of bdsm?
I think my first introduction to the actual concept was here on getdare when I was exploring around and lurking without an account.
5. Describe yourself physically?
This could get very personal fast so I will tell you the barebones. I'm a tad taller than average height, long natural auburn hair, hundreds of freckles all over, hazel eyes, and a fairly average body composition.

[Wildcata]

1. what is the wildest dare you ever did
2. have you ever been nude in group
3. would you ever do a dice roll to see what you wear to a party if nude was in there
4. do you like micro mini skirts
5, what side do like the most dom or slave
6, would you dress a guy up as women and take them to a bar
7. would you put a guy on cam dress a guy up as women
8. what is the worse thing you gave a guy to do
9. what is a secret you like to keep away from everyone
10.what would you do if an older guy was nude in front of in their 50s
11.what is your favorite way to get cum
12.when did you first taste cum

[neutronium1337]

Thanks for being here, Red. Let’s keep this party going.

A few questions to start us off…

How much cock can you take down your throat?
Favorite place to receive cum in and on you?
Is your pussy shaved, trimmed, or natural? Why do you choose that style?

For each of these acts, rate them out of 10 for how good they make you feel and how slutty they make you feel. Each act should have two numbers, the first being how good and the second being how slutty:

• Giving a blowjob
• Deepthroat under your own control
• Being throat fucked
• Being fucked in the ass doggy style
• Riding a dick in your ass cowgirl
• Having your pussy eaten
• Riding someone's face
• Being creampied
• Getting a cum facial
• Having your ass played with
• Feeling your ass fill with cum
• Feeling cum drip out of your ass
• Forced to taste your own ass
• Forced to taste someone else’s ass

Also, if you and an unattractive stranger were locked in a room together and you had to degrade yourself using one of the above acts to be released from the room, which would you choose?

Describe one sexual experience that you’ve had which you would be deeply embarrassed to tell your friends about yet turns you on to think about.

Have you created your dirty code? If so, please share it. If not, will you for us? https://dirtycode.io/

If you were dared to have sex as quickly as possible with someone you already know, but have not fucked before, who would it be with? How would you go about making that happen?

[Red Tipped Arrow]

Originally Posted by Wildcata

1. what is the wildest dare you ever did
I'm gonna be boring and say the one I've done with other people and it was just being wedgied for the rest of the night without pants allowed
2. have you ever been nude in group
Nope
3. would you ever do a dice roll to see what you wear to a party if nude was in there Maaaaaaybe if it was like one of the rolls where it was 2-12 and nude was either 2 or 12 I would consider it
4. do you like micro mini skirts I think they're very cute but I do not have the self confidence to wear them myself
5, what side do like the most dom or slaveslave for sure
6, would you dress a guy up as women and take them to a bar that could definitely be fun
7. would you put a guy on cam dress a guy up as women that just doesn't interest me at all
8. what is the worse thing you gave a guy to do uuuh Im really not sure
9. what is a secret you like to keep away from everyone Well it wouldn't be a secret if I told you would it? Fr though I guess you can kinda say the way I rarely if ever tell people I'm ace (ace and very kinky is a weird combo I know)
10.what would you do if an older guy was nude in front of in their 50s Probably be creeped out, older men are fine but if they're in their 50s they're as old as my parents and that's gross
11.what is your favorite way to get cum I honestly have no clue what this means sorry
12.when did you first taste cum I haven't...

note: please proofread your questions next time some of these were hard to decipher but thanks for the questions!

[zoolou]

Hey Red! Couple of questions for you.

1. How does being an Ace impact the dynamic with a d/s relationship?

2. What self bondage positions have you done?

3. What self bondage positions do you want to try? Safely, of course.

4. What do you like about pet play?

[Red Tipped Arrow]

Originally Posted by neutronium1337

Thanks for being here, Red. Let’s keep this party going.

A few questions to start us off…

How much cock can you take down your throat? not a ton, maybe like a 5 inch dildo I could fully take into my throat when practiced
Favorite place to receive cum in and on you? well my favorite spot is in my ass ofc
Is your pussy shaved, trimmed, or natural? Why do you choose that style?normally trimmed but occasionally I go down to shaved. I LOVE the feeling of being shaved but I have a few problem hairs that will get ingrown literally every time I shave I don't know why so I dont stay shaved all the time like I would like

For each of these acts, rate them out of 10 for how good they make you feel and how slutty they make you feel. Each act should have two numbers, the first being how good and the second being how slutty:

• Giving a blowjob 2-6
• Deepthroat under your own control 4-7
• Being throat fucked2-5
• Being fucked in the ass doggy style8-10
• Riding a dick in your ass cowgirl6-7
• Having your pussy eaten N/A, dont have experience sadly
• Riding someone's face N/A
• Being creampied 4-10
• Getting a cum facial N/A
• Having your ass played with 7-6
• Feeling your ass fill with cum 10-10
• Feeling cum drip out of your ass 3-9
• Forced to taste your own ass 0-0 that's so gross to me
• Forced to taste someone else’s ass 0-0 I don't think it'd feel slutty Id be too overcome with grossness

Also, if you and an unattractive stranger were locked in a room together and you had to degrade yourself using one of the above acts to be released from the room, which would you choose? Doggy style for sure, it'd be easy to ignore looks when I cant see them

Describe one sexual experience that you’ve had which you would be deeply embarrassed to tell your friends about yet turns you on to think about.
honestly just about anything, my close friends know I'm ace but do not know about my kinky side at all and I would like to keep it that way

Have you created your dirty code? If so, please share it. If not, will you for us? https://dirtycode.io/ that's way too personal feeling to me I wouldn't be comfortable making that, sorry

If you were dared to have sex as quickly as possible with someone you already know, but have not fucked before, who would it be with? How would you go about making that happen? I don't have a single clue what I'd do. I wouldn't be comfortable approaching any of my friends about it, not even mentioning how most of them have partners or just would not be interested in me. I'd honestly probably just ask for a forfeit since I would not be able to complete it.

And some more PM questions! This time from person 2!

What experience do you have as a sub if any
I've been with my Sir for a few months now, its only online but its been pretty good

What experience as a Domme
none

What is the kinkiest way you have masturbated
Tied up and plugged and riding a dildo probably, nothing too complicated

Biggest secret kink
I dont really have one, everything that I know of is in my list

[lotusdriver81]

How long are your finger nails?

What is your favourite colour to paint them?

How has your day been today?

Did you have a nice week last week?

What feature do you like best about yourself?

Would you change anything about yourself if you had the chance?

What do people say is your best quality?

[Red Tipped Arrow]

Originally Posted by zoolou

Hey Red! Couple of questions for you.

1. How does being an Ace impact the dynamic with a d/s relationship?
I don't think it impacts anything in online relationships or at least I've never had it be an issue. I define my aceness in a unique way. I'm very sex positive but I just don't see people as hot, though I do see some as ugly and wouldn't want to see them touching me. Its mostly just that lack of wanting specific people, I still obviously have desires to be fucked and all but its not like I can point to people in a room and say that's who Id like. Hopefully that makes sense to you


2. What self bondage positions have you done?
chair bondage, spread eagle, crab, probably a few others I cant think of the name of rn

3. What self bondage positions do you want to try? Safely, of course.
I've wanted to try frog or hogtie but I've always chickened out because I'm worried how to get myself out or that I'll get stuck

4. What do you like about pet play?
It just helps me destress a lot and forces me to think in simpler terms, though the humiliation and ownership aspects are also great.

Thanks for the questions!

[Red Tipped Arrow]

Originally Posted by lotusdriver81

How long are your finger nails?
well one just broke so Im down to my 'short ' length which is just long enough to be able to tap my nail on the table when my finger is at a 90 angle to the table.

What is your favourite colour to paint them?
anything sparkly or holo, though to be fair they are normally painted pink

How has your day been today?
besides the congestion its been fairly alright thanks for asking!

Did you have a nice week last week?
It was just kinda average, nothing special

What feature do you like best about yourself?
at this point in time its definitely my hair, I love my natural colour a lot

Would you change anything about yourself if you had the chance?
smaller boobs because its painful to go without a bra and Id like to be able to go braless when I want

What do people say is your best quality?
a lot of people call me smart for some reason

Thanks for the questions! I hate that I have to put something outside of the quote for this lol

[lotusdriver81]

What is your favourite outfit to wear?

What is the least amount of clothes you have worn in public?

Do you prefer a bikini or a swimsuit?

What is your favourite time of year?

What is the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you?

Have you ever had a wardrobe malfunction?

What type of underwear do you like to wear?

What size bra do you wear?

What is your favourite colour of underwear?

Why do you hate writing outside of the quotes?

[zoolou]

Originally Posted by Red Tipped Arrow

Thanks for the questions!

Thanks for the answers!

Your Ace explanation made perfect sense and I appreciate it. I lean demisexual, so for me I would know what I found attractive and not attractive in that room. I just have very little to no interest in something like a one night stand no matter how attractive I found the person. Hogtie and Frogtie self bondage can be intense. The safest release mechanism is a person. There are other methods that can be done solo, but you would need to be careful and plan well. Some more questions below!

1. What is your favorite part about having a dom?

2. What about ice to do like and how does using it make you feel?

3. What is the longest you have worn a butt plug?

4. You had a moderately high exhibitionist score on your BDSM test. What about it makes you interested in it?