Questions about not masturbating

[Schwink]

I'm about to break my personal record for the longest I've gone without an orgasm and I had a few questions for everyone about the idea. I'm almost at the end of day five, and in about twelve more hours I'll have broken my personal record. My sexting buddy said to try for nine days.

Age/Sex:
What's the longest you've gone without an orgasm?:
Do you consider edging or anal play cheating when trying to not orgasm?:
Do you think edging makes not orgasming harder or easier?:
How good was the orgasm after the drought of non-orgasm?:
Do you think you will ever break your no orgasm record?:
Have you ever been locked up in chastity?:
What's the longest you've gone in chastity?:

[gpguy]

What's the longest you've gone with an orgasm?:
Not entirely sure but probably close to a week.

Do you consider edging or anal play cheating when trying to not orgasm?:
Definitely not.
Do you think edging makes not orgasming harder or easier?:
No it makes it harder.
How good was the orgasm after the drought of non-orgasm?:
Usually they are better but a good orgasm does also depend on other things
Do you think you will ever break your no orgasm record?:
For sure i will especially as I get older
Have you ever been locked up in chastity?:
Just locked myself , never had someone else hold the key
What's the longest you've gone in chastity?:
Less than three days

[Schwink]

I just broke my personal record so I figured I'd answer my own questions!

Age/Sex:
26/m

What's the longest you've gone with an orgasm?:
132 hours.

Do you consider edging or anal play cheating when trying to not orgasm?:
I think anal play is cheating if you are doing a chastity session.

Do you think edging makes not orgasming harder or easier?:
It makes it harder to stop playing with yourself, but if you can get past that point then it makes it easier.

How good was the orgasm after the drought of non-orgasm?:
N/A

Do you think you will ever break your no orgasm record?:
I will once I get my chastity belt and find a keyholder or online master

Have you ever been locked up in chastity?:
Nope. I'm testing the metal detector at work on Monday with a similar padlock and will be ordering my device that night if it doesn't set it off.

What's the longest you've gone in chastity?:
N/A

[Schwink]

I finished my willpower chastity and figured I'd re-answer these

Age/Sex:
26/M

What's the longest you've gone without an orgasm?:
Thirteen days

Do you consider edging or anal play cheating when trying to not orgasm?:
No, it makes it harder

Do you think edging makes not orgasming harder or easier?:
Makes it hard to stop, but if you can stop it makes it easier

How good was the orgasm after the drought of non-orgasm?:
It was good, not the best I've

Do you think you will ever break your no orgasm record?:
I hope to go three months at most in chastity

Have you ever been locked up in chastity?:
Nope, but I just ordered my first device

What's the longest you've gone in chastity?:
N/A

[darkblue]

Age/Sex:
57, male

What's the longest you've gone without an orgasm?:
35 days last year

Do you consider edging or anal play cheating when trying to not orgasm?:
No, it isn't cheating, it's teasing, and I love it

Do you think edging makes not orgasming harder or easier?:
For me, edging makes it a lot harder, but I like this

How good was the orgasm after the drought of non-orgasm?:
The first orgasm after 35 days was surprisingly weak, I had to practice to get back the old intensity

Do you think you will ever break your no orgasm record?:
I am currently at day 28 and hope to break my record now

Have you ever been locked up in chastity?:
Yes, but just for periods of time, my skin reacted and I had to remove it

What's the longest you've gone in chastity?:
Three days non-stop

[Komodo Jones]

Age/Sex:
I am a 33 year old male.

What's the longest you've gone without an orgasm?:
Aside from the period of life before I knew how to masturbate, about 4-5 weeks.

Do you consider edging or anal play cheating when trying to not orgasm?:
No because orgasm denial and masturbation denial are two different things. In fact, if you are actually being denied by someone, they may like that you're edging or doing anal play as it makes you more desperate to release, as long as you don't ruin yourself or accidentally go over the edge, it's not cheating.

Do you think edging makes not orgasming harder or easier?:
I will admit, that i'm not the best at edging. I think it definitely makes it harder because you get close and you want to release so bad but you're not allowed to. It's that way with anything, if you can't do something you're used to doing you want it more and edging just builds it up even more.

How good was the orgasm after the drought of non-orgasm?:
Wow, I came so much after being denied for about a month but it feels amazing. It's a lot of work but if you can hold back your orgasm for a while, it makes them so much more satisfying.

Do you think you will ever break your no orgasm record?:
I suppose. It's not likely as I orgasm pretty regularly nowadays, but you never know.

Have you ever been locked up in chastity?:
No and quite frankly I don't want to.

What's the longest you've gone in chastity?:
N/A

[Jolly*FtM]

Age/Sex:35/M (female to male)
What's the longest you've gone without an orgasm?: 20 days
Do you consider edging or anal play cheating when trying to not orgasm?:No
Do you think edging makes not orgasming harder or easier?:Harder, i am always afraid i accidently cum, because i am a bad edger.
How good was the orgasm after the drought of non-orgasm?: Like the others
Do you think you will ever break your no orgasm record?: I hope so.
Have you ever been locked up in chastity?: Yes, but not for very long and i am able to cheat, i can orgasm in my belt.
What's the longest you've gone in chastity?: Not very long, just a day as far as i remember.

[Kate92]

Age/Sex:
26/female

What's the longest you've gone without an orgasm?:
Around 2.5 weeks.

Do you consider edging or anal play cheating when trying to not orgasm?:
No, I don't.

Do you think edging makes not orgasming harder or easier?:
Definitely harder!

How good was the orgasm after the drought of non-orgasm?:
Explosive!

Do you think you will ever break your no orgasm record?:
Yes, I believe I will.

Have you ever been locked up in chastity?:
No.

What's the longest you've gone in chastity?:
Not applicable.

- Kate

[littlesub0123]

What's the longest you've gone without an orgasm?:
a month or so

Do you consider edging or anal play cheating when trying to not orgasm?:
no as long as i don't have an orgasm

Do you think edging makes not orgasming harder or easier?:
harder, but still takes the edge off on some days

How good was the orgasm after the drought of non-orgasm?:
amazing, one of the best

Do you think you will ever break your no orgasm record?:
i really want to, but probably not any time soon

Have you ever been locked up in chastity?:
no

What's the longest you've gone in chastity?:
n/a

[JAZ]

Denial has become one of my favorite kinks, and it's fun exploring it with others. PM me if you're into it and want to talk about it.

Age/Sex
54/M

What's the longest you've gone without an orgasm?
31 days

Do you consider edging or anal play cheating when trying to not orgasm?
Not at all. For me the only definition is no semen at all emerging from my penis other than precum or minor leaking while I'm masturbating.

Do you think edging makes not orgasming harder or easier?
Both. While I'm dealing with the frustration of not having release, edging allows me to have at least some sexual expression, and edging after even a moderate period of denial feels almost good as an ejaculation itself - and I can make the edge go on and on and just wallow in it. The flip side is the difficulty of stopping. During a three-week denial last year, I edged heavily for about an hour in a hotel room on Day 16. I finally got out of bed and stood naked with my hands on the wall, taking deep breaths while I forced myself not to touch and let my erection subside. It was a major test of willpower, but at the same time, standing there coming down off a level of need and lust I'd rarely (if ever) felt was an incredible experience.

How good was the orgasm after the drought of non-orgasm?
It was one of my most memorable, but not because of the pleasure. Don't get me wrong: it felt very good. But I've had better physical sensations. Mainly it was the psychological joy of finally having the longing and the desperate need draining out of me. I lay there on my back on my bed in a delicious and very different kind of glow for about five minutes. The headspace in those moments was a new and amazing experience.

Do you think you will ever break your no orgasm record?
Yes. Denial creates very different sexual feelings and experiences than periods of regular ejaculation. There's the frustration to deal with, but the sexual territory you explore during denial is very interesting.

Have you ever been locked up in chastity?
I don't have a device, but the idea is intriguing.

[CallMeBelle]

Age/Sex:
20/Female.

What's the longest you've gone without an orgasm?:
About a month.

Do you consider edging or anal play cheating when trying to not orgasm?:
No, I do not.

Do you think edging makes not orgasming harder or easier?:
Definitely more difficult.

How good was the orgasm after the drought of non-orgasm?:
A literal explosion of pleasure.

Do you think you will ever break your no orgasm record?:
I don't know, maybe!

Have you ever been locked up in chastity?:
No.

What's the longest you've gone in chastity?:
No.

[Felix645]

Age/Sex:
24 (Ill be 25 on Monday ^^ ) / Male

What's the longest you've gone without an orgasm?:
14 Days

Do you consider edging or anal play cheating when trying to not orgasm?:
Definitely not. Without edging it wouldnt be even half the fun of orgasm denial. I like the sense of frustration and enforcing that feeling.

Do you think edging makes not orgasming harder or easier?:
Really long edging sessions where I edge at least 30-40 times are obviously a lot harder than just edging 5 times a day, but generally speaking edging makes it harder. Tho I have to say that there are moments where I really CRAVE edging

How good was the orgasm after the drought of non-orgasm?:
Depends, I had orgasm after denial where I really shot a big load, but there wasnt much feeling to it, others felt really explosive and amazing. Though for me orgasm is just the end it. Orgasm Denial is more about the journey, at least for me.

Do you think you will ever break your no orgasm record?:
I certainly hope so, though its been really difficult lately ^^

Have you ever been locked up in chastity?:
nope, I dont really like chastity that much

What's the longest you've gone in chastity?:
see above

[LitDarkness]

Age/Sex: Age is 23, sex is female.
What's the longest you've gone without an orgasm?:Not exactly positive but seven months, maybe longer.
Do you consider edging or anal play cheating when trying to not orgasm?:No.
Do you think edging makes not orgasming harder or easier?:Harder. Much easier to forget if you don't edge.
How good was the orgasm after the drought of non-orgasm?:Orgasms after denial are so much better, if you ask me. So amazing.
Do you think you will ever break your no orgasm record?:I am sure I will.
Have you ever been locked up in chastity?:No.
What's the longest you've gone in chastity?:N/A

[Narrowm1nd3d99]

Age/Sex:
42 / M
What's the longest you've gone without an orgasm?:
18 days (Current task) Aiming for 1 month.
Do you consider edging or anal play cheating when trying to not orgasm?:
No I don't. Be careful not to go too far.
Do you think edging makes not orgasming harder or easier?:
Definitely harder
How good was the orgasm after the drought of non-orgasm?:
Previous best was 10 days. It was fantastic. Multiples after that as well in a row.
Do you think you will ever break your no orgasm record?:
May I never attempt this again. Currently busy with a personal goal I've set myself, not a dare or bet. I've been close to giving up numerous times. Maybe using a cage would have been a better idea than going without.
Have you ever been locked up in chastity?:
Yes
What's the longest you've gone in chastity?:
8 days. My key-holder decided to go away for a holiday on the day I gave her my keys. Pure torture. Loved it.

[Kisune Karnon]

Age/Sex: 29/Male
What's the longest you've gone without an orgasm?: Couple of months
Do you consider edging or anal play cheating when trying to not orgasm?: Nope
Do you think edging makes not orgasming harder or easier?: Harder
How good was the orgasm after the drought of non-orgasm?: Normal, didn't notice a change
Do you think you will ever break your no orgasm record?: Doubtful
Have you ever been locked up in chastity?: No
What's the longest you've gone in chastity?: N/A