turn me into a slave 28/F

[Jaro]

Originally Posted by Magnetic

So?

Who cares if you are not into public? You don't have it listed as a limit. Either do it or add it to your limits list.

So what if you don't have enough skirts? Buy them!

Do you know this person? Are you in a committed D/s relationship with them in which you clearly discussed likes and limits?

No?

Then respect that no means NO, people don't owe you anything on here and FUCK OFF!

[Magnetic]

In my defense, I would state that she did not state it as "this is a limit". Instead, she stated as "I am not into"... To me, that sounds like a dislike, not a limit.


Now, if it is a limit, I would agree with you. But her stated objection did not sound as one.


She did say in her signature:


"My limits are poop, kids, vomit, animals..."


None of the things I asked where included in my dare. Even after complaining, she said "I am not into public" not "public is a limit" or similar.



It was therefore fair for me to assume public was a dislike, not a limit!

[Dokumen]

Originally Posted by Magnetic

In my defense, I would state that she did not state it as "this is a limit". Instead, she stated as "I am not into"... To me, that sounds like a dislike, not a limit.


Now, if it is a limit, I would agree with you. But her stated objection did not sound as one.


She did say in her signature:


"My limits are poop, kids, vomit, animals..."


None of the things I asked where included in my dare. Even after complaining, she said "I am not into public" not "public is a limit" or similar.



It was therefore fair for me to assume public was a dislike, not a limit!

But that's still now how it works.
Some subs use dislikes as punishments only, so they are offlimits as long as the sub is being good.
And apart from that it's good practice to keep with a sub's likes as long as you haven't been told to train them or in very rare cases or if you have a committed D/s relationship. The tone you picked is therefore not suitable either because you haven't been told to break protest down.
That fine line is important...

[wingman78]

I'll add something really simple: if you want to feel more like a slave learn to be respectful to your masters. Get into a habit of not speaking until spoken to, and end your answers to questions in an appropriate way. For example:

Your mother: Hi starry91, dinner at my house tonight?
You: Thank you, I would really enjoy that Mother!

Your boss: Hi starry91, can you get me a cup of coffee?
You: Of course Sir. Right away Sir.

[Magnetic]

You must never wipe your butt. Instead, take a shower. Of course, you get to do your enema too. Note that this also puts a limit on the number of places you get to shit, unless you want to shit and go around with an unwiped butt!

[starry91]

Originally Posted by Master_Marsh95

Everytime you need to pee, go into the bathroom and lock the door. Stand in the bath tub, put the plug in and pee into the tub. You must then lay in the pee for 5 minutes.

I don't have 24/7 access to a bathroom with a tub, so this is not doable.

Originally Posted by ltakltak

you don't need much clothing. For every type of clothing keep only 2: 1 very sexy one, and one very sloppy one.

That means: 2 dresses, two shorts, two t shirts etc... To aid us in knowing what you wear: post pics of all items you selected...

I have a semi-professional job. No.

Originally Posted by linearizationcannon

"this is fascinating and so sexy. Unfortunately I have no idea how to do it, Sir. "

then learn. Internet self guided learning should be feasible

I will look into it, Sir.

Originally Posted by Magnetic

So?

Who cares if you are not into public? You don't have it listed as a limit. Either do it or add it to your limits list.

So what if you don't have enough skirts? Buy them!

I will not engage in public play and have edited my signature to reflect that.

Originally Posted by abozarth

When you wish to go to the bathroom, you must either wait an hour or get permission from someone on getdare. Slaves don't get to decide when they go to the bathroom.

I have a different rule about the bathroom in place, I will post both rules on the thread and let ya'll decide which one to go with.

[starry91]

Originally Posted by Dokumen

But that's still now how it works.
Some subs use dislikes as punishments only, so they are offlimits as long as the sub is being good.
And apart from that it's good practice to keep with a sub's likes as long as you haven't been told to train them or in very rare cases or if you have a committed D/s relationship. The tone you picked is therefore not suitable either because you haven't been told to break protest down.
That fine line is important...

Thank you! This is very important, actually.

My dislikes are things that are not limits but I am not interested in engaging in them. I have edited my signature to reflect this.

[starry91]

Originally Posted by Magnetic

You must never wipe your butt. Instead, take a shower. Of course, you get to do your enema too. Note that this also puts a limit on the number of places you get to shit, unless you want to shit and go around with an unwiped butt!

Dear God in heaven.

POOP IS A LIMIT. NO.

[abozarth]

She wants to be a slave and you're making her restate her limits. They are in her SIGNATURE. Would you ever want a Dom that didn't know what your limits were? Worse, would you want a Dom that didn't respect your limits? She wants to be a slave to avoid decision making, not have to refuse rules. Think before you post these things