Shopping new, better handcuffs

Devi2412 · 03-18-2019, 10:25 AM

Hi there!!!! Sorry for being off for so long, this year has been crazy!!!

So here is my problem. Some time ago, I bought my first handcuffs ever and the experience was bittersweet: I LOVED the feeling of closing them on my wrists and being helpless, but they had a quick release switch (it's such a turnoff to be able to escape whenever you want) and they were very cheap -the chain actually snapped after not-that-much use!!

Because of all that, I want to invest into a good set of high quality handcuffs. I would love them to not have the quick release method so I actually have to wait/struggle for the key, and I need them to be very resistant coz I tend to move a lot and I am actually very strong. I have seen a couple of handcuffs in different pages that look really nice:
https://www.tiendafetichista.com/esp...dena-candados/
https://www.meo.de/en/handcuffs/2107...f-4158-11.html

But I would like to know your opinion. What handcuffs do you have? Have you bought in these shops? What shops/items do you recommend me? The second link webpage also has several leather/padded cuffs with lock, would you recommend me those instead of metal cuffs? Please, keep in mind that I want cuffs WITHOUT quick release and that are very strong.

Can't wait to read your input!!!!

Grapefruit · 03-18-2019, 10:41 AM

If you are looking for some with out quick release and wont break why not use police grade? you can get a nice set of safariland or peerless handcuffs for around 20-40 USD and you can even get them in different colors you can also get diferant high quality restraints from these companies just be careful because your not getting out with out the key (but since they take standard cuff keys worse case scenario is call a cop for help
I guess).

https://www.amazon.com/Peerless-Hand...KGCQJJYGJ&th=1

https://www.amazon.com/Peerless-Hand...KGCQJJYGJ&th=1

https://www.amazon.com/Peerless-Hand...0ZPHS1S5SWGJ06

Devi2412 · 03-18-2019, 11:03 AM

Yup, that was what I was thinking. In fact, I think the second link is police grade cuffs. But I also wanted to know the type of cuffs that people here have, specially those who are "pro" in self bondage, and what are the cuffs that most people prefer.

Also, how do you distinguish high quality handcuffs from non-resistant ones?

Grapefruit · 03-18-2019, 11:20 AM

What do you mean by non-resistant?

Devi2412 · 03-18-2019, 11:35 AM

I mean cheap ones that are simply for "adventurous vanilla" games, and not for actual BDSM

Grapefruit · 03-18-2019, 11:39 AM

I would say just stick to the police brands that's what makes more sense to me if you want something that seems more kinky than see if you can find the fuzzy stuff they put on cheap sex cuffs and put them on real ones the pair I use to have was peerless and they were really nice ones

Devi2412 · 03-18-2019, 02:26 PM

I think police ones can be perfect, thanks!!!

Heswitch · 03-18-2019, 02:37 PM

https://www.amazon.com/Smith-Wesson-.../dp/B07CPYKCZN

if you really want to be restrained

Devi2412 · 03-18-2019, 02:51 PM

I thought about these ones, but isn't it too difficult to get free even with the key? I want to be restrained, but I fear that the hinge won't allow me to put the key in the hole. Do you have these cuffs?

Heswitch · 03-18-2019, 03:03 PM

i don't own them but i have used them. they make longer pen style keys that will make it slightly easier to free yourself, just make sure the key holes are toward your palms

Devi2412 · 03-18-2019, 03:13 PM

Alright, I will consider them.

Any more ideas will be more than welcome!!! The more cuffs I can compare and ponder, the better!!

Devi2412 · 03-18-2019, 06:14 PM

So I have found out this webpage that provides police material to my country, and I am really stuck between these two models:
https://www.tiendashoke.es/esposas-g...agra-aligerado
This one seems to be way rougher, but also quite more difficult to untie when I get the keys and it also gives the problem of movility: they are not that easy to fixate around an object (ie, a table's leg)

https://www.tiendashoke.es/esposas-g...-tch-niquelado
These ones seem easier to open when I get the key and they are easier to tie to other objects, but my main concern in the chain between the cuffs: is it truly strong enough to restrain a struggling man?

Please help me decide by giving your input!!!

Grapefruit · 03-18-2019, 06:42 PM

I would go with the chained one since it will allow you to get out a bit easier I feel like the hinge ones could cause more problems

Devi2412 · 03-18-2019, 06:49 PM

So one vote for the chain ones. Someine else?

Devi2412 · 03-21-2019, 04:25 AM

Okay!!!! I already bought and received my new handcuffs, and I must say they are amazing!!!! They are quite heavy, and yeah, they wont let me escape them without the key!!!!

Thank you sooo much for your input!!!! I'll enjoy my new toy right away!!!!

03-18-2019, 10:25 AM	#1
Devi2412 Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2018 Posts: 109 Blog Entries: 2	Shopping new, better handcuffs Hi there!!!! Sorry for being off for so long, this year has been crazy!!! So here is my problem. Some time ago, I bought my first handcuffs ever and the experience was bittersweet: I LOVED the feeling of closing them on my wrists and being helpless, but they had a quick release switch (it's such a turnoff to be able to escape whenever you want) and they were very cheap -the chain actually snapped after not-that-much use!! Because of all that, I want to invest into a good set of high quality handcuffs. I would love them to not have the quick release method so I actually have to wait/struggle for the key, and I need them to be very resistant coz I tend to move a lot and I am actually very strong. I have seen a couple of handcuffs in different pages that look really nice: https://www.tiendafetichista.com/esp...dena-candados/ https://www.meo.de/en/handcuffs/2107...f-4158-11.html But I would like to know your opinion. What handcuffs do you have? Have you bought in these shops? What shops/items do you recommend me? The second link webpage also has several leather/padded cuffs with lock, would you recommend me those instead of metal cuffs? Please, keep in mind that I want cuffs WITHOUT quick release and that are very strong. Can't wait to read your input!!!! __________________ 20 / Female LIKES, DISLIKES, LIMITS AND TOYS: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=88966 PM DARES: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=88957 Always up for a well thought predicament dare!!!

03-18-2019, 10:41 AM	#2
Grapefruit Member Join Date: Jan 2019 Posts: 87	If you are looking for some with out quick release and wont break why not use police grade? you can get a nice set of safariland or peerless handcuffs for around 20-40 USD and you can even get them in different colors you can also get diferant high quality restraints from these companies just be careful because your not getting out with out the key (but since they take standard cuff keys worse case scenario is call a cop for help I guess). https://www.amazon.com/Peerless-Hand...KGCQJJYGJ&th=1 https://www.amazon.com/Peerless-Hand...KGCQJJYGJ&th=1 https://www.amazon.com/Peerless-Hand...0ZPHS1S5SWGJ06 __________________ *25/Female/Swtich* Likes: Bondage, Pee play(not drinking) control/rules, Creativity, HIDDEN Public Limits: Pictures, Identifying Info, Pain, other stuff I cant think of Likes/Limits are for my "sub" side Last edited by Grapefruit; 03-18-2019 at 10:43 AM.

03-18-2019, 11:03 AM	#3
Devi2412 Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2018 Posts: 109 Blog Entries: 2	Yup, that was what I was thinking. In fact, I think the second link is police grade cuffs. But I also wanted to know the type of cuffs that people here have, specially those who are "pro" in self bondage, and what are the cuffs that most people prefer. Also, how do you distinguish high quality handcuffs from non-resistant ones? __________________ 20 / Female LIKES, DISLIKES, LIMITS AND TOYS: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=88966 PM DARES: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=88957 Always up for a well thought predicament dare!!!

03-18-2019, 11:20 AM	#4
Grapefruit Member Join Date: Jan 2019 Posts: 87	What do you mean by non-resistant? __________________ *25/Female/Swtich* Likes: Bondage, Pee play(not drinking) control/rules, Creativity, HIDDEN Public Limits: Pictures, Identifying Info, Pain, other stuff I cant think of Likes/Limits are for my "sub" side

03-18-2019, 11:35 AM	#5
Devi2412 Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2018 Posts: 109 Blog Entries: 2	I mean cheap ones that are simply for "adventurous vanilla" games, and not for actual BDSM __________________ 20 / Female LIKES, DISLIKES, LIMITS AND TOYS: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=88966 PM DARES: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=88957 Always up for a well thought predicament dare!!!

03-18-2019, 11:39 AM	#6
Grapefruit Member Join Date: Jan 2019 Posts: 87	I would say just stick to the police brands that's what makes more sense to me if you want something that seems more kinky than see if you can find the fuzzy stuff they put on cheap sex cuffs and put them on real ones the pair I use to have was peerless and they were really nice ones __________________ *25/Female/Swtich* Likes: Bondage, Pee play(not drinking) control/rules, Creativity, HIDDEN Public Limits: Pictures, Identifying Info, Pain, other stuff I cant think of Likes/Limits are for my "sub" side

03-18-2019, 02:26 PM	#7
Devi2412 Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2018 Posts: 109 Blog Entries: 2	I think police ones can be perfect, thanks!!! __________________ 20 / Female LIKES, DISLIKES, LIMITS AND TOYS: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=88966 PM DARES: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=88957 Always up for a well thought predicament dare!!!

03-18-2019, 02:37 PM	#8
Heswitch getDare Sneaker Slave Join Date: Dec 2016 Location: S. Carolina Posts: 1,244 Blog Entries: 4	https://www.amazon.com/Smith-Wesson-.../dp/B07CPYKCZN if you really want to be restrained __________________ 28/M, 6ish in, Blond, USA Kik:heswitch Loves:womens sneakers, anal, feet, bondage<3 Please come degrade me on Kik! Let me worship your sweaty feet Click to Write on My Converse Likes and Limits PM DARES TOYS

03-18-2019, 02:51 PM	#9
Devi2412 Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2018 Posts: 109 Blog Entries: 2	I thought about these ones, but isn't it too difficult to get free even with the key? I want to be restrained, but I fear that the hinge won't allow me to put the key in the hole. Do you have these cuffs? __________________ 20 / Female LIKES, DISLIKES, LIMITS AND TOYS: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=88966 PM DARES: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=88957 Always up for a well thought predicament dare!!!

03-18-2019, 03:03 PM	#10
Heswitch getDare Sneaker Slave Join Date: Dec 2016 Location: S. Carolina Posts: 1,244 Blog Entries: 4	i don't own them but i have used them. they make longer pen style keys that will make it slightly easier to free yourself, just make sure the key holes are toward your palms __________________ 28/M, 6ish in, Blond, USA Kik:heswitch Loves:womens sneakers, anal, feet, bondage<3 Please come degrade me on Kik! Let me worship your sweaty feet Click to Write on My Converse Likes and Limits PM DARES TOYS

03-18-2019, 03:13 PM	#11
Devi2412 Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2018 Posts: 109 Blog Entries: 2	Alright, I will consider them. Any more ideas will be more than welcome!!! The more cuffs I can compare and ponder, the better!! __________________ 20 / Female LIKES, DISLIKES, LIMITS AND TOYS: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=88966 PM DARES: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=88957 Always up for a well thought predicament dare!!!

03-18-2019, 06:14 PM	#12
Devi2412 Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2018 Posts: 109 Blog Entries: 2	So I have found out this webpage that provides police material to my country, and I am really stuck between these two models: https://www.tiendashoke.es/esposas-g...agra-aligerado This one seems to be way rougher, but also quite more difficult to untie when I get the keys and it also gives the problem of movility: they are not that easy to fixate around an object (ie, a table's leg) https://www.tiendashoke.es/esposas-g...-tch-niquelado These ones seem easier to open when I get the key and they are easier to tie to other objects, but my main concern in the chain between the cuffs: is it truly strong enough to restrain a struggling man? Please help me decide by giving your input!!! __________________ 20 / Female LIKES, DISLIKES, LIMITS AND TOYS: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=88966 PM DARES: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=88957 Always up for a well thought predicament dare!!!

03-18-2019, 06:42 PM	#13
Grapefruit Member Join Date: Jan 2019 Posts: 87	I would go with the chained one since it will allow you to get out a bit easier I feel like the hinge ones could cause more problems __________________ *25/Female/Swtich* Likes: Bondage, Pee play(not drinking) control/rules, Creativity, HIDDEN Public Limits: Pictures, Identifying Info, Pain, other stuff I cant think of Likes/Limits are for my "sub" side

03-18-2019, 06:49 PM	#14
Devi2412 Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2018 Posts: 109 Blog Entries: 2	So one vote for the chain ones. Someine else? __________________ 20 / Female LIKES, DISLIKES, LIMITS AND TOYS: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=88966 PM DARES: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=88957 Always up for a well thought predicament dare!!!

03-21-2019, 04:25 AM	#15
Devi2412 Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2018 Posts: 109 Blog Entries: 2	Okay!!!! I already bought and received my new handcuffs, and I must say they are amazing!!!! They are quite heavy, and yeah, they wont let me escape them without the key!!!! Thank you sooo much for your input!!!! I'll enjoy my new toy right away!!!! __________________ 20 / Female LIKES, DISLIKES, LIMITS AND TOYS: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=88966 PM DARES: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=88957 Always up for a well thought predicament dare!!!