02-19-2019, 06:11 PM | #1 |
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Does a ruin count as an orgasm?
I mean technically yes but I can't call them the same thing personally
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02-19-2019, 06:49 PM | #2 |
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I personally do not think that a ruin counts as an orgasm when talking about denial etc. However, it really depends on the person and what they feel is considered an orgasm.
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02-20-2019, 08:56 AM | #3 |
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As gD's self-proclaimed Queen of the Ruins, I'd argue that ruins have an effect that is distinct from either edging or a proper orgasm.
Edging:
Orgasms:
Ruined orgasms:
Whether a ruined orgasm counts as an orgasm is largely context-dependent, and should probably be determined by the people involved. For denial, ruined orgasms are often seen as a body reset without allowing for a mental reset. In other contexts, they may be seen as orgasms that just happened to suck. |
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02-20-2019, 04:28 PM | #4 |
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I have received quite a few of these in my time. they take the edge off the frustration a bit but leave me still feeling very horny again soon after.
Kurious Kat is right, they are like a reset for the body but not a mental reset. |
02-20-2019, 05:02 PM | #5 |
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That was a very well written answer Kurious Kat, it really helped to answer my question, thank you
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03-17-2019, 09:19 AM | #6 |
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I have had ruins before and don't personally see them as counting as an orgasm. An orgasm to me is something that brings pleasure and then complete satisfaction. This doesn't happen with a ruined orgasm (I know the orgasm word is in that).
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03-26-2019, 04:01 PM | #7 |
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I had a 5 weeks denial phase last year, and have to confess, as a male, that a ruined orgasm is able to decrease the pressure inside the balls, and thus at least some of the need to cum.
It may be different between women and men, who could tell. But men feel the need to ejaculate their amount of sperm to feel satisfied, women don't. This may be an important difference, because even a ruined orgasm brings some relieve for men, as they can ejaculate, just a bit painful. Nevertheless, I loved this period, and would really like to try it again, without ruined orgasms.
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03-26-2019, 09:23 PM | #8 |
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As gD's self-proclaimed Princess of the No Ruins Cause They Suck, I'd argue that ruins definitely don't count as orgasms. They are awful and they make me feel awful (apart from a few times with a lot of care and attention). Yes they do help with that yucky ball ache as Darkblue said but you know what else does it better a real orgasm, might as well have one of them boo denial anyway.
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