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Old 03-18-2019, 09:35 AM   #1
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I have another AMA where you can ask me anything at all, kinky or vanilla. However, I thought this could be fun.

In this thread, you can ask me anything at all about kink. Ask about my kinky or sexual experiences, toy recommendations, advice, etc.
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Old 03-18-2019, 11:57 AM   #2
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Who was the first person (other than family) to see you topless/bottomless/naked? What was the occasion?
When did you first see a girl/guy naked (other than things like family/gym/etc.)?
If you had to choose between only ever seeing girls or guys naked, which would you choose?

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Old 03-18-2019, 12:41 PM   #3
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Who was the first person (other than family) to see you topless/bottomless/naked? What was the occasion?
I used to shower with my best friend until we were 14 years old.

When did you first see a girl/guy naked (other than things like family/gym/etc.)?
I don't know if this counts as family, but I walked in on my uncle peeing when I was 16. That was the first time I had ever seen a mans penis.

If you had to choose between only ever seeing girls or guys naked, which would you choose?

Girls. I think girls bodies are much prettier.
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Old 03-18-2019, 08:58 PM   #4
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Girls. I think girls bodies are much prettier.
Yeah they are (but of course I'm biased)!

What of girls do you think looks best in general: boobs or ass?

Do you also think that, in general, a vagina is prettier than a penis? Of if you think both are ugly, which is least ugly?

Would you ever consider having a female sub or dom? Why/why not?

Since you like to tease me with it, same question for you: would you ever consider eating another girl out? Why/why not?
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Old 03-18-2019, 09:40 PM   #5
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Let's answer some of your first (I am not sure whether you have answered those already)
Answer where, what age, whom/what, how you enjoyed/disliked it (if you have done it)
- First time sexually touched to any party of the body by other person
- Inserted anything in pussy
- inserted anything in ass
- took dick in pussy
- took dick in ass
- Sucked dick
- got pussy licked
- got ass licked
- licked someone's ass
- Get naked in front of more than 2 people
- licked pussy?
- played with someone's tits (female)
- any experience with trans?
- first BDSM experience
- First sexually humiliating event
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Old 03-19-2019, 10:17 AM   #6
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Yeah they are (but of course I'm biased)!

What of girls do you think looks best in general: boobs or ass?

Boobs! Boobs are so pretty.

Do you also think that, in general, a vagina is prettier than a penis? Of if you think both are ugly, which is least ugly?

I honestly don't think that either are pretty. I guess if I had to choose, I would choose a vagina.

Would you ever consider having a female sub or dom? Why/why not?
I would have a female sub no problem. I think it would actually be easier for me since I know the physiology of a woman better. However, woman can be awful so it would have to be somebody with low drama.

As for a female Domme, I don't think I could. I wouldn't say no but I just don't feel subby towards woman generally.


Since you like to tease me with it, same question for you: would you ever consider eating another girl out? Why/why not?
I would 100% try this under the right circumstances. Just to try something new.
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Old 03-19-2019, 10:30 AM   #7
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Let's answer some of your first (I am not sure whether you have answered those already)
Answer where, what age, whom/what, how you enjoyed/disliked it (if you have done it)
- First time sexually touched to any party of the body by other person
I was touched by one of my brothers friend when I was around 13 or 14. He stuck his hand into my bathing suit and grabbed my nipple. I did not enjoy this at all and felt violated.

- Inserted anything in pussy
I was around 15 or 16 and I put the handle of a makeup brush in my ass. I really enjoyed the feeling and when angling it in the right way I was able to reach my gspot.

- inserted anything in ass
The very first thing I put in there would have been around the age of 17/18 and it was the handle of a toilet brush. I really enjoyed the feeling and thus bought my first plug when I was 19 and legally allowed to.

- took dick in pussy
I was 19 when I lost my virginity. It wasn't anything special. We played "just the tip" for a few nights until finally he was far enough in that I couldn't consider myself a virgin anymore.

- took dick in ass
I was 21 I believe. It was very intense and I actually orgasmed within 3 minutes of him going inside me. It was too intense to let him continue after that.

- Sucked dick
It was the night of my 19th birthday. I used flavored lube because I was nervous and I made him wear a blindfold.

- got pussy licked
I was 24 and it was the first time that I visited Mr. Devious. I enjoyed it very much.

- got ass licked
I am going to guess around 26? Mr. Devious did it and I really enjoyed it. It felt really good, although it made me super blushy.

- licked someone's ass
I have never done this.

- Get naked in front of more than 2 people
I don't think I have ever done this.

- licked pussy?
Never done

- played with someone's tits (female)
Never done

- any experience with trans?
Nope

- first BDSM experience
I had my first Dom when I was 18. My very first task that I did for him was to tie myself to the bed and put a vibrator (back massager) in my panties and make myself cum. It was a lot of fun.

- First sexually humiliating event
Humiliation is a limit of mine. However, I did get really blushy the first time Mr. Devious and I ever played together at a play party last year.
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Old 03-19-2019, 02:22 PM   #8
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1) What is your favorite position to be tied up in?

2) What do you enjoy being done to you when tied up like that?

3) What is your favorite impact play toy?

4) What is your favorite type of restraint equipment?

5) Give or take, roughly how many sex toys do you own?

6) How many of those do you regularly use?

7) What do you think about when you masturbate?

8) What area gets you off best; clit or gspot?

9) Who did you last think about when thinking of someone when you masturbated?

10) What was the most disturbing porn you've seen?

11) What was the most disturbing porn you've masturbated to?

12) What is your 'it was going so well then...' sex story?

13) What's your favorite part of your body for your partners cum to land on?

14) How many cocks have you seen in real life?

15) If you had a female sub, what task would you have her do, assuming her likes were aligned with yours?

16) What was the best orgasm you've ever had?

17) Where is the most thrilling place you have had a sexual experience?

18) Is there a kink you would love to try but haven't done it yet?

19) What phrase that you say makes you feel really subby?

20) What phrase that someone else says makes you feel really subby?

That'll do, for now
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1) What is your favorite position to be tied up in?
On my back, spread eagled on the bed.

2) What do you enjoy being done to you when tied up like that?
Sensory deprivation, sensation play, orgasms!!!

3) What is your favorite impact play toy?
The ping pong paddle or just a hand

4) What is your favorite type of restraint equipment?
Rope

5) Give or take, roughly how many sex toys do you own?
I would say about 60

6) How many of those do you regularly use?
3 or 4

7) What do you think about when you masturbate?
It depends. I like to watch porn when I am alone so I am not thinking much of anything other than focusing on what is happening in the clip. Otherwise I will fantasize about being controlled in some way or another.

8) What area gets you off best; clit or gspot?
Both combined is best, but clit is most effective.

9) Who did you last think about when thinking of someone when you masturbated?
Jaro. I was thinking about torturing him.

10) What was the most disturbing porn you've seen?
Hmmm... nun and priest porn?

11) What was the most disturbing porn you've masturbated to?
It involved needle play

12) What is your 'it was going so well then...' sex story?
Probably our honeymoon. We were having a lovely play session. I was getting all worked up and ready to cum and then we heard somebody outside. I think the neighbours complained about the noise! Ooops ... and THEN Mr. Devious dropped the glass dildo since it was all slippery from being inside me, and it shattered on the floor.

13) What's your favorite part of your body for your partners cum to land on?
My boobs

14) How many cocks have you seen in real life?
4 or 5

15) If you had a female sub, what task would you have her do, assuming her likes were aligned with yours?
I would have her tie a dildo to her nipple clamps so that everytime she fucked herself, it would pull on her nipples. Then I would make her bring herself to orgasm.

16) What was the best orgasm you've ever had?
This one is so hard. There have been so many good ones. I will just say that the best are usually including something in my ass, something fucking me and my wand on my clit. It also includes not being allowed to cum until I have permission and lots of edges before being allowed.

17) Where is the most thrilling place you have had a sexual experience?
My ex sister in laws laundry room. I got on my knees and gave my ex a blow job while we were supposed to be changing to help her paint her basement.

18) Is there a kink you would love to try but haven't done it yet?
Hmm ... I would love to try TPE for a short amount of time.

19) What phrase that you say makes you feel really subby?
Hmm ... I can't really think of too much. Maybe something like "May I please cum, Sir?" or asking permission in general.

20) What phrase that someone else says makes you feel really subby?

That'll do, for now
"Good girl" can usually make me feel all floaty and subby. So can "no" by the right person :P
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Do you suffer from sub-drop? How often?
What sort of aftercare do you need after play?
Have you or would you take part in a threesome? MMF? FFM? FFF?
What's the most expensive toy you have?
What's the cheapest but suprisingly good toy you have?
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Does the idea of being a kink instructor appeal to you? If so, in what way would you/could you be a kink instructor?

What 3 things should anybody new to the bdsm lifestyle in general know?

What 3 things would you advice someone to try out first (someone who never tried anything kinky before)?

What is the most amount of pain you think you could deliver to somebody, given that the person receiving has no limits on the amount?

Can you name 3 of your own 'limbo's', with some arguments as to they they are limbos?
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Favourite rule you have right now?

Worst punishment you've ever had?

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Do you suffer from sub-drop? How often?
I have definitely experienced sub drop, but it is pretty rare for me. I would say maybe once or twice a year I will get sub drop.

What sort of aftercare do you need after play?
Usually I need cuddles, a blanket, sometimes chocolate. Words of reassurance. Just being with somebody, even if its just on a voice call.

Have you or would you take part in a threesome? MMF? FFM? FFF?
I haven't but I want to. I would be up for any of the above.

What's the most expensive toy you have?
Hmm ... Probably my wevibe nova but I didn't buy it. I won it.

What's the cheapest but suprisingly good toy you have?
I have a $7 bullet vibe that is almost as powerful as my magic wand on low. I recommend that vibe to everybody.
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What's the most expensive toy you have?
Hmm ... Probably my wevibe nova but I didn't buy it. I won it.

That's the best way to get expensive things I have a climbing helmet I got that way!

What are you thoughts on nipple and/or genital piercings for both men & women? Which, if any, do you like and/or dislike?

What's your favourite vanilla item put to kinky use?

Have you ever been caught doing something kinky by someone?

Have you ever been naked in the snow? If not, would you?
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Old 03-21-2019, 01:04 PM   #15
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Does the idea of being a kink instructor appeal to you? If so, in what way would you/could you be a kink instructor?
I think I would have a lot of fun doing something like that, however I have major stage fright and don't like talking in front of people. If I were to teach a class I think it would be about communication and negotiating, safety or anal for beginners.

What 3 things should anybody new to the bdsm lifestyle in general know?
1. Be careful who you trust.
2. Research is your friend. Porn is not realistic.
3. Subs have a voice and do not need to let others walk over them just because they are submissive.


What 3 things would you advice someone to try out first (someone who never tried anything kinky before)?
This one is hard. It really depends on the person. I would start with some basics like rules in general. Even if it is just something vanilla. That is a great way to start a control dynamic. Another would be introducing toys or costumes. If a person is completely vanilla, they may not have experienced even a vibrator, but if they have done that, I would suggest a small plug or some nipple clamps or a crop to try with themselves or a partner. And the third thing I would suggest is to watch kinky porn. It will help with finding the things that appeal to you which can then help you form a plan for trying new things.

What is the most amount of pain you think you could deliver to somebody, given that the person receiving has no limits on the amount?
Hmm ... I think I would have a hard time once marks are starting to form. Blood would be my absolute limit and I think that would make me feel terrible. Pain like making somebody hold a squat until they cry would be no problem.

Can you name 3 of your own 'limbo's', with some arguments as to they they are limbos?
This might be the hardest question yet .... I don't know if I have any limbo's.
Maybe tickling? I hate being tickled, but also there is an appeal to it. The loss of control, especially when tied up ...
or another that comes to mind is enemas. I really don't enjoy the sensation, but the vulnerability and uncomfortableness make me squirmy
and lastly I will go with electricity. Some of it I like the sensation of,but others scare the shit out of me, but the fear also turns me on ...
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