Ask a worm and a butterfly anything

[Butterfly]

Jaro and I both love answering questions and have both had multiple AMA's in the past, however, they have since died off. We were recently racking our brains, trying to think of something to write for the August Writing Contest and I had a genius idea! Why not answer your questions together!

For the next 5 days or so, we will monitor the questions posted here and then pick and choose 5-10 to answer in our joint blog for the competition. If your questions is chosen, you will win a prize.

Prize: You may choose to give Jaro or I a dare OR you may choose to receive a dare from us.

After our blog is posted, we will make sure to come back to this thread and answer all remaining questions. Any question not chosen for our blog, will not only be answered, but will also result in one spanking to Jaro's tender thighs.

Although we are happy to answer any and all questions in this thread, the questions we are choosing for our joint blog should be questions that:
* we can BOTH answer: questions about submission, our relationship, etc.
* allow us to answer more in depth (rather than yes or no type questions)
* are unique, fun and creative

Ask away getDare!!!!!

[amethyst353]

Since you are both in multiple D/s relationships, how do you find balance between them? Is there ever jealousy? Or difficulty switching between partners?

[Mr. Devious]

A few questions for you both!

1. What do you like/dislike about denial
2. What is your favorite thing about submission
3. Who (between the 2 of you) could take the most spanks?

[humiliation_sub]

What was your favorite task/scene that you completed together? (Bonus points if you both pick the same scene!)

[Jaro]

Thank you for the good questions so far!

Hopefully we will get a few more before we write the blog.

[Pariahterror]

Here are some questions for you, have fun.

What is a non kinky tool you never used before and want to implement in a dare?

Do you have any kinky role models? Who are they and why?

If you were to give eachother a present what would it be, and what would it be if you could get it for free?

What is the kinkiest thing you have ever done at work?

Are there limits you want to break? And why would you break them?

[Mousey123]

If you had 24 hours, money and location no object what would you do, can be kinky or not?

If you could travel any where, where would you go and why?

Favourite recipe, ideally share the recipe?

[sciencegal]

Here are a few questions for you both. Hopefully you haven't answered these before:

1. What do you think is the most rewarding aspect of being in a D/s relationship (your own personal experiences or in general)?
   
   
2. If you could teach a seminar on being submissive, what wisdom would you share with your eager attendees?
   
   
3. Do you have a secret fantasy that turns you on in your head, but that you’d probably never want to actually do? If so, explain (if it’s not too private to share).
   
   
4. This is a two-parter. Why is submission important to you, and what does it mean to you?
   
   
5. If given the opportunity, would you want to live a 24/7 lifestyle as a sub/slave (i.e., you would always be in a submissive role to a live-in dominant)? Assume that any financial burdens will be taken care of and not a limiting factor.
   
   
6. For a lot of us, kink is limited to just playtime. Do you ever find it difficult to get yourself in the proper mindset or mood to complete a task or to take on the role you need to for playtime?
   
   
7. You both are some of the most creative dare-givers I know. How do you come up with tasks that are original yet fun so easily? Does inspiration strike you more quickly than others, or do you have a sort of formula that you follow?

[naked_lego]

Let's pretend we lived in a world were nudity and sexual activity outside the bedroom wasn't a crime. So BDSM relationships could extend to public areas and the fear of getting a criminal record would be gone. It was just kind of common to see. With that, there would be no scaring of the younger people. Also, there would be an age restriction to 18 (or legal adult age) for participation.

Because of this, do you think the scene would change?
Do you think you would be more open about it?
Should it be restricted from certain places?
Might this world impact other kinks to?

...Why?

[Edgeandenial]

Hey!!

I have a few questions:
1) do you guys ever get jealous being in a poly rship?

2) if you had to choose between beimg a sub or a dommee for the rest of your life what would you pick?

3) as a Domme do you prefer more obedient sub or someone who is a lil bratty?

4) what do you guys like the best about each other?

[jeff10145]

I have just a couple of questions for you both.

1. As they like to say in a favorite Kink podcast of mine, What was your radioactive spider bite into kink? (How did you discover kink?)

2. Do you have a kink or BDSM playlist for music?

[jonn]

I have some:

You two have been together for quite some time. Have you ever switched roles? How did it go? If not what would be something you would look forward to?

Jaro: what are your thoughts on being topped by two people?
Butterfly: how do you like sharing a sub?

Choose one: only edges for the rest of your life or only ruined orgasms?

[pet monkey]

Burning questions! Inquiring minds want to know!

1) When I was young I learned a lot about my parents and I knew when I wanted something who I had the best odds with. Like for permission to 'x' odds were better if I asked dad to get a favorable response, whereas I knew to ask mom for 'y'. So my question is, Jaro: do you usually wait to ask either Icey or Butterfly knowing your chance of a good response is better. Butterfly: Are you aware of it when he does such a thing (if he does); Discuss

2) How is the findom aspect of your relationship going. In my relationship with Duchess she takes care of the money and the bills but I get an allowance every payday to buy whatever I want. Do you do something of the like?

3) When you are filming stuff are you normally live? Or do you just send Icey and Butterfly video clips? And if so, Butterfly, how often are you able to watch them? Are they something you watch repeatedly? Or just once and then file them away to collect dust?

4) What would you say is the best thing about being in a 3-way poly relationship? The worst thing?

5) How real 'really' is the blackmail aspect of your relationship? If Jaro has the option, even at the very end' to safeword out of exposure, is there really a threat? Does something happen if he does safeword out? Is the relationship over? Is that the real threat? I'm not questioning your sincerity, just curious.

6) Does the 'go ask Icey/Butterfly' game ever happen in your relationship?

7) How much of a time difference exists between the three of you and how much does that affect your relationship?

8) Jaro, what are your thoughts on the subject of your orgasms? I mean if Icey and Butterfly already know how many more orgasms you get for the rest of the year does that make you want to ask for one even more? Or to delay asking?

9) What is your favorite thing you have all done together as a group?

10) Other than punishments, what is something that you have done that you decided one, two or even all three of you didn't like, and if it was a minority that didn't like it, did you continue with it anyways for the sake of the majority?

[amethyst353]

I've thought of another one: a lot of your relationship is documented on GD. How important is that "performative" aspect? Does kind of having an audience vital to the experience, or do you think your dynamic would be the same even if it was completely in private?

[Jaro]

Originally Posted by marissa353

Since you are both in multiple D/s relationships, how do you find balance between them? Is there ever jealousy? Or difficulty switching between partners?

Well I am really just in one D/s relationship. One that just happens to be with two people, but they are both my Dommes and have equal power over me.

So no, for me there is no jealousy. I do sometimes only get a task from Miss Butterfly or only do a cam session with Miss Icey. I don't find this difficult, it actually just makes things interesting because Miss Butterfly and Miss Icey are very different. They have different styles of play and different kinks they enjoy.