Most Humiliating Sexual Experience?

[Erotica]

(I really hope I'm posting in the right forum)
As the title says, which was your most humiliating sexual experience? How did it made you feel? And would you do it again? Please give as many details as possible.
On a side note, how would you describe the difference between "humiliation" and "degradation"?

[closetbondagesissy]

I've been into plastic wrap bondage and feminization as long as I can remember!

This is a story from when I was 17 yo.

One night after spending hours infront of my screen looking at bondage, sissification and kidnapping stuff on the internet I became so horny that I decided to do a little self bondage outside.

I crossdressed myself as a slutty sissy, took a roll of plastic wrap and duct tape in a backpack with me and went out in public at night.
I went to a construction site near where I live (which had some scaffold on it due to construction works). I climbed on the roof of the building with the scaffold, wrapped several layers of tape around my mouth / head. then I wrapped up a pole on the roof in plastic wrap. After using the complete roll of plastic wrap I grabbed the end of it, and slowly started to unwrap the pole while spinning myself. This resulted in me getting wrapped up tighter and tighter. Once I was done I tipped over and realized that I was now a helplessly tied and gagged plastic sissy mummy. I then managed to jerk off, and after I came I had to struggle for over half an hour to escape from my tight plastic cocoon. Once I freed myself I climbed down the scaffold and ran home, dressed as a sissy, still gagged, humiliated, cum all over me. I had to hide 2 times behind some cars cause a group of girls walked towards me in the dark streets. SO HUMILIATING

[rhode64]

I dont really get embarrased or humiliated easily but love being seen and watched .As far as maybe getting a bit embarrassed it has to be the day my ex iniated sex in front of her parents and sister .She was just 18 at the time I was early 20s .

[zephyrnem]

Ooo...I have probably told about the worst. I was giving head to a guy. I was totally nude. Daytime...woods when he suddenly runs away. I freeze...turn around...totally naked and hard to see two old fishermen coming up the trail. I grab my pants and am comically yanking them on and my hard on just keeps bouncing.

Another time, I strip naked in a college town. Walk two blocks away from my apt. (Midnight) and run into a couple. They both looked disgusted at me and I say "Total dare dude" like an idiot. Wasnt upset I was seen, was mad that I sounded stupid. On the way back a car stopped and a guy got out and shook his fist at me, but did nothing. I ran away.

[Erotica]

Originally Posted by zephyrnem

Ooo...I have probably told about the worst. I was giving head to a guy. I was totally nude. Daytime...woods when he suddenly runs away. I freeze...turn around...totally naked and hard to see two old fishermen coming up the trail. I grab my pants and am comically yanking them on and my hard on just keeps bouncing.

Another time, I strip naked in a college town. Walk two blocks away from my apt. (Midnight) and run into a couple. They both looked disgusted at me and I say "Total dare dude" like an idiot. Wasnt upset I was seen, was mad that I sounded stupid. On the way back a car stopped and a guy got out and shook his fist at me, but did nothing. I ran away.

Did the fishermen see you? And were you scared when the guy stopped the car?

[zephyrnem]

The fishermen were within 3 feet of me. They saw. No reaction that I could tell, but I was trying to get pants over my hard-on. I mean, I was totally...bare passed, bare foot, naked. All my partner did was zip and run. Didnt say anything. I turn around..,completely naked and hard in daylight, and they are there!

When the car stopped...I started moving a bit faster. Then when somebody jumped out the back...I kept moving. I think they were pretty drunk. Every thing crashes in my head at such a moment. I feel humiliated, excited, scared and vulnerable. I want to run, but I want to savor all those feelings, too.

[Viral]

I posted this before in a previous thread, but it was the most embarrassing dare I've ever done (and it was probably one of the most sexually exciting dares I've ever done!) and I did it while in my Freshman year of college.

I was told to lock myself in my chastity cage and then put on one of my thickest diapers (an ABU Little Paws) and put two stuffers in it so it was extra thick. I normally wear girl's jeans and my padding was extremely obvious beneath them, especially because the diaper was sticking out of the top of my jeans at least three inches.

Basically, I had to wear my diaper all day until it was soaked and leaking. Once I saw it leaking, I had to drink two large cups of iced coffee, and go to the local mall. Once I was there, I had to walk around for at least two hours.

Long story short, the coffee made it so I was absolutely bursting to pee every 20-30 minutes and I ended up helplessly wetting my already-leaking diaper two more times! It leaked all over my jeans and it became painfully obvious that I was thickly diapered too. I was so red-faced and embarrassed by the end of it all!

[Zeobit]

When I was a teenager I somehow managed to download some virus to the family computer while visiting an explicit website, which led to a horribly high phone bill and a VERY awkward talk with my parents. Definitely humiliating, but the humiliation was of course only indirectly sexual *:-)

More direct: Kneeling in front of a decently dirty public toilet, shit in my pants, using my shirt to clean the inside of the bowl and rim, then licking the rim, all of that while being commanded and filmed by somebody, then walking home, wearing that shirt and still full of shit. Pushed several limits, felt horrible back then and required a lot of libido and trust to be done. Great as a memory now, but not sure if I'd do again.

And to answer the last question: To me (as somebody who's not native to the English language), the second story is an example of degradation, to be lowered, dishonored, unworthy of other treatment. Naturally it has a big aspect of shame to it, but it's more than that. Humiliation on the other side feels mostly like being shamed, being in predicament and having to face it. Can't draw a clear line between the two though.

[Paladintwk]

Humiliation to me is an very embarrassing and meant to push your emotional limits for a moment in time between a dominant and a submissive. Degradation on the other hand is mean spirited and meant to create permanent dominance and superiority by the dominant at any cost over the submissive.

This dare from my PM list was prior yo covid and embarrassing and humiliating and probably would happen again but not at the same place.

My Femdom Roommate loves to push my limits and to humiliate me as her sub. She loves using my fantasies whenever she discovers them.
She controls the password on this getdare account and writes all these dares. Basically what started out as kinky fun is now used as blackmail of sorts because of my professional life. Don't get me wrong it has been exciting and I have done things I never thought I would do but she loves pushing my limits.

This dare really pushed my limits but even sharing it does cause a sense of excitement.

COUNTRY ROAD/COUNTRY BAR DARE:
My femdom roommate will lock me in chastity, slip on crotchless panties, tan slacks, and unbuttoned white shirt and sandals. I will drive on a dark 2 lane rural road late at night with her. She will have me pull over every 100 feet or more and remove a piece of clothing and throw it out the car window. After another mile wearing nothing but the chastity cage we turn around and I have to locate the clothes get out of the car and put them on. When fully dress she unzips my tan slack, removes the cage, suck my cock until I cum and spits the load all over my tan slacks and gives me a cum flavored French kiss. She needs a drink to get the salty taste out of her mouth and makes me stop at a redneck bar in my various obvious cum soaked tan slacks, walks me slowly around the bar, while flirting with guys, to a table far from the bar and makes me go get drinks for drinks her while she flirts.
The dare went without a hitch other than locating my clothes was more difficult than I thought it would be. I didn’t expect her to wait until we were in the bar’s parking lot to unzip me and remove my cage. The excitement of being caught caused be to blow a huge load in less than 5 minutes which she spit all over the front crotch and fly of my light tan slacks.
Once inside after my walk of shame we sat at a table and she started rubbing my cock hard again and then said if I wanted more I better go up the bar and get her a drink. I tried my best to cover my hard on but when I returned with the drinks in both hands there was no hiding my hard cock bulging under my cum soaked slacks.
When I got back to the table she was flirting with some guy and telling him what she had made me do earlier that night. When he seemed to doubt her she pulled out my chastity cage and told me to go to the men’s’ room and let her new friend watch me lock myself back in chastity. She kept the key of course. As he and I got up she told the guy to feel free to take some pic on his phone in case any of his friends in the bar doubted the story.
That’s exactly what he did. I asked to leave and my roommate said to stay while the guy shared his pics with guys in the bar and she said if I asked again she would give the guy the key and watch me beg him to let me have it back. Finally she said let’s go but first she unzipped my fly, pulled out the cage and had me walk out in full display with my chastity cage cock hanging out while the rednecks roared in laughter. I’ll never be able to show my face in that bar again let alone my caged cock.

[hail]

When I was horney I decided to wear panties under my clothes to an appointment (walked there), on the way home (walking), I took a detour and went past a quiet public toilet. I then went in to a female toilet stall, pulled down the trousers (door unlocked) pulled underwear out and masturbated until I cummed in them. Pulled the trousers and left (no one saw me doing it) on way home about half of the time I was walking behind a hot/sexy looking girl. All i I could do was smile at here, we walked different ways and a lot of other people looked at me while out.

[mattbel83]

There was a girl I used to know, I am very submissive and love to be used, degraded, humiliated and have very few limits (no blood or scat, nothing permanent). I love making girls cum and love pain.


She lived on the other side of a golf course from me, a short 15 minute walk to hers, but with some small woods to the side of the golf course with a good clearing inside and out of public view, unless someone was walking close by. As it was a golf course, and we usually meet at night this was pretty unlikely.


We'd done lots of stuff over the time we knew each other, I loved getting naked and testing my limits in front of her till she got turned on, then licking, kissing or letting her fuck any hole she chose with a strap-on, as long as she didn't make me cum, until she had orgasmed at least 4-5 times and squirted all over me. If I came, I'd either be wearing a condom and have it emptied over my face and into my mouth, or over/in her and made me clean it up with my mouth, I'd stay covered in my own cum until she was done, and washed it off with her piss. I loved kneeling naked in the shower while she peed over me, licking her while she pissed and playing with myself, holding my mouth over her pussy till my mouth was full, licking her clean after and continuing until she came. Then playing with myself till I came while she watched.


The woods I particularity loved though as I would get the text to go there and wait, in a different way each time, could be dressed slutty, naked, led down, kneeling, tied (as much as I could do to myself), blindfolded, there were many variations, whatever could be imagined.


I could be naked, blindfolded, hands and legs cuffed and knelt in the dirt, sometimes waiting for 10, 20, 30 minutes, I had no concept of time and tied and blindfolded I was totally vulnerable. She would turn up, if in this position she would start with a spanking, a belt, a cane, her hand, even some nettles. She'd say nothing to me yet, I'd have no idea if it was her, I'd be there, naked, bound and exposed, being punished by anyone. She would then pee over me, covering me and making the dirt around me turn to mud, so I'd get more and more dirty.


If finally hear her voice, and confirmation that it was her, when she command me to turn over and kneel. I felt clamps on my nipples, severe grip, must be clover clamps, they were on a chain as she tugged them to pull me towards her strap-on. She started by fucking my throat, only just allowing me to breath. After what felt like 15 minutes she told me to turn over onto all fours. I felt a tug on my nipples, then a constant pull as they were attached to something in front of me so they were taught and any movent backwards would pull painfully. I felt a belt go around my waist, her strap-on pushed up against my ass, then she thrust deep into my ass, no warmup, just my saliva as lube, it hurt so much at first. She used the belt to make me thrust backwards into her, making my nipples scream in pain as they pulled the clamps. She fucked me hard, my ass eventually getting used to the sensation and relaxing into it. The waves of pain and pleasure from being used rushing over my body, I'm turned on so much I could almost orgasm from this alone. She suddenly pulls out, she grabs my hip and throws me over onto my back, lying in the dirt.
I hear her moving over me, she commands be to open my mouth and stick my tongue out, her pussy covers my mouth, soaking wet, her juices covering me as I use my tongue to pleasure her. I lick, suck and do what I can to pleasure her. I hear her breath shorten and moans of pleasure, she pulls back and I feel the warm splash of her cum across my face and into my mouth, so much of it my face is covered, the taste is sweet in my mouth and my cock hard and desperate for relief at what was happening.


She commands be back into a kneeling position, my mouth still open. Her pussy touches my lips and she tells me to lick it clean. I lick every bit of it, cleaning every bit of her juices i can reach, until she pulls away.


She uncuffs my hands and tells me I must lie down in the dirt, wait for 5 minutes and then make myself cum before I can remove my blindfold and get dressed to go home.


It takes very little time for me to cum, a huge orgasm my entire body convulsing, covering my chest and even hitting my face. I lie in the dirt for some time after, waiting till I was recovered enough to move. I removed my blindfold and leg cuffs, I look down at my body, covered in mud, cum dripping from my face to my chest. I get up and move to get my bag where I had my clothes and some wipes to clean myself. As I open the bag I realise she must have found it, my wipes are gone and my clothes are wet, I can smell pee. I'm humiliated but turned on by the thought of having to walk home in wet clothes, mud and cum still on my face (I could only wipe some off with my hands).


As I walked home, hoping no one saw me, I got more and more turned on, getting really hard. The second I got in I stripped and made myself cum over and over until I couldn't continue, thinking about the evening gets me super hard every time.

[rhl]

First humiliation was when I was at work, a lady noticed I had womans pants on me and decided to tease me. My shirt was tucked in so I pulled it out to cover my ass. Unfortunately their was a huge still very wet cum stain, now very visible, on the shirt.

[MahonD]

Probably here before I became a sissy~

Lost a bondage bet to a guy on here and he made me go on webcam to tie myself up in fairly elaborate bondage while wearing nothing but panties. After everything was in place, he made me lock it with a combination lock, but the lock was reset. And he had me set it without looking so only he could see what the combination was. The end result was being bound up on webcam for about 45 minutes while he just browsed on his computer and did other things. He basically reduced me to background decoration.

[striker101]

Originally Posted by Erotica

(I really hope I'm posting in the right forum)
As the title says, which was your most humiliating sexual experience? How did it made you feel? And would you do it again? Please give as many details as possible.
On a side note, how would you describe the difference between "humiliation" and "degradation"?

My most humiliating sexual experience was my first attempt at topping another guy.

A friend had set up a threesome, but instead of the usual case of him and another guy topping me, it was going to be my friend and I topping this other guy. It took forever for me to get so much as a semi, let alone hard enough to penetrate the guy. I kept trying, and I'd get close enough to try again, only to get too soft pretty much immediately when trying to enter him.

Eventually, like at least after 10 tries, I got a semi that stuck around long enough and was just hard enough to penetrate him. Then I was in such a frantic rush, because I didn't want to go soft again, so I came ridiculously fast. Side note, it was really weird cumming and not being fully hard (and definitely didn't feel as good).

They were both super nice and supportive about it. Poor guy definitely didn't get what he was hoping for that night though, and my friend and I agreed he'd only bring tops along after that.

Still, it was super humiliating not being able to perform. I always knew I was primarily a bottom, but having that physically confirmed so bluntly was embarrassing. Kind of ironic that looking back I also find it hot, and knowing that I'm physically meant to bottom can easily get me hard.

As far as degradation goes, I think it's kind of along the lines of every square is a rectangle, but not every rectangle is a square.

Being degraded is humiliating to me, but humiliation can come without being degraded. Like the above - I was humiliated, but as I said they were both really kind about it, and there was no degradation involved. That humiliation also isn't really the same as what I feel if I'm being degraded. Getting called names/slurs, dirty talk (like being told I'm nothing but a hole to be used) gets me turned on at the same time. The other situation clearly didn't turn me on at all (at least not at the time). Anyway, guess I just mean not all humiliation is the same/equal, and circumstances surrounding it can make a world of difference.

[Apogee]

Definitely tame compared to some of the other stories in here, but my most humiliating sexual experience was probably being stripped naked by my girlfriend and lead on all fours to the bathroom where I had to lick up her spit from the floor and toilet seat while jerking myself off.