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Old 07-03-2020, 06:25 AM   #1
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Hi there, so I'm not very experienced in my love life, having been raised in a very oppressive religious household, so I'm not very well versed in dating or relationships. While I was bored and stuck at home I figured why not sign onto some dating apps to get some human interaction and I think I struck a real connection with this guy who messaged me. For a month now we have been talking constantly, text and video chat, and he wants to meet me after the lockdown ends, but I'm kinda nervous.

My main concern is the age difference. I am 24 and he is 44, but he looks early 30's, and I was just wondering if this type of age difference is okay or should I look for someone more my age?

All advice is greatly appreciated, and to answer a question I'm sure you will ask, no he does not know about my GetDare life

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Old 07-03-2020, 06:59 AM   #2
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This could be the blind leading the blind (also inexperienced) but age doesn't matter too much imo. It's important to feel safe, have a connection ideally both physically and emotionally. Those things are too hard to find to dismiss on something as arbitrary as age.

You may find your social life and interests might differ more than normal but I hope it works out for you. Meet somewhere public (preferably let a friend know the time & place / arrange to call) and keep safe when meeting someone from the Internet.
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Old 07-03-2020, 08:19 AM   #3
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As an older person myself, I don't think you should dismiss him just because of his age. Chemistry, and of course the quality of the person is much more important. I agree with PrincessJessica that you might have different interests, etc, but assuming you like the guy I say embrace those and you can learn a lot from each other. My last D/s relationship (admittedly long distance/online) my Domme was 11 years younger than me, and we are still the best of friends and talk on a daily basis.

Most people my age are married and have kids and their life revolves around that. I don't have or want kids, so I tend to have more in common with younger people. Interests, personality, character traits and chemistry is much more important than arbitrary age numbers, imo.
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Old 07-14-2020, 09:22 PM   #4
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I could fit the description of how you described your date. My opinion is that the age difference is only an issue if it is an issue. The reason why large age differences are discouraged is because people of different age groups tend to not have as much in common and also because they are at different stages of growth.

My biggest concern is the fact that you said you grew up in an oppressive home. Being older, he will most likely have a take charge attitude in the relationship, something that you suggested you wanted to get away from. That isn't an automatic disqualification, but it is something you should be wary of.
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