Make me save money for sex toys! 20/M

[truthful_kinky]

Hi there people! I've always had a problem with saving money to buy sex toys. There's always an excuse: I might need it later, someone might find it, blah, blah, blah.

And as much as those excuses can be valid, I'm tired of just wishing to have what I want. But how to I plan to change that?

I wanna create sort of a swear jar, but you guys decide when I put money there! I'm gonna put five units of my countries currency (not naming it for privacy reasons), but feel free to add rules that change it.

I want to know:
- What actions of mine will require me to put money on the jar. (can be swearing)
- How much money should I put (optional)
- Any extra punishment you may see fiting (optional)

If I feel overwhelmed, I'll let you know.

My likes, dislikes and limits are on my sig, but to make it easier:

Likes: wedgie, feet, selfbondage, hidden bondage, orgasm torture, no touching, denial, hypnosis, predicament torture, light CBT, humiliation in general.

Dislikes: messy, pee-holding, pee-drinking, spanking, toothpaste/pepper, stroking, edging, painful CBT, long.

Soft Limits: hard pain, scat playing, pics, videos, hidden-public.

Hard Limits: public, family, permanent, blackmail, exposition, scat-eating.

And lastly, I'm gonna update the list on this blog, as well as anything I buy with the money and the current amount:

The Swear Jar!

Thanks to everybody that helps!

[BR1985]

Ok then boy, this is an excellent way of saving up for a bit of fun.

So I think obviously swearing is a good one, but here are some other ideas:

Every time you cum, put in a ten units.
Every time you sleep last an alarm, put in 5 units.
Every time you see an image of a naked girl, put in 1 unit.

And if you take money out other than to buy toys:
Less than 5 units, edge with toothpaste as lube
Between 5 and 20 units, you must drink your next piss
More than 20 units you must hit yourself in the balls 10 times for each unit and then drink your next piss.

Happy saving!

[truthful_kinky]

Originally Posted by BR1985

Ok then boy, this is an excellent way of saving up for a bit of fun.

So I think obviously swearing is a good one, but here are some other ideas:

Every time you cum, put in a ten units.
Every time you sleep last an alarm, put in 5 units.
Every time you see an image of a naked girl, put in 1 unit.

And if you take money out other than to buy toys:
Less than 5 units, edge with toothpaste as lube
Between 5 and 20 units, you must drink your next piss
More than 20 units you must hit yourself in the balls 10 times for each unit and then drink your next piss.

Happy saving!

Thank you very much! Really loved the ideas.

I think I just realized how much I swear, that's gonna be a wild ride, so i might reduce it to 1 unit per swearing later.

I think the cumming rule is a really exciting one, and the alarm one is a really helpful one! So thanks for that.

The last one is probably gonna be a little hard to keep track, but if it weren't, what would be the fun on that? Just some questions: does hentai count? Do people's profile pictures count? I'm gonna assume my own profile pic doesn't hahaha. Does it count if it was by accident? And, of course, do I get a pass if the image is censored, and/or have humiliating captions on it?

And lastly, I think you really got me with the rules for taking the money for other reasons, cause I'm pretty sure that's gonna happen, and I'm happy to have punishments for that.

[TiedInLatex]

Your original idea of putting in 5 units pr day is still good. But add this rule:

* If you fail to put in 5 units, you will not be allowed to cum the next day, but are required to watch porn for at least 30 min.

That should quickly teach you to save up.

And of cause, taking units out of the jar? No cumming (at all), but still at least 30 min of porn a day, until you have repaid your "dept" to the jar.

You could also get a jar that do not open - so you cant get you money out before breaking it. That should solve the issue of spending it before you have saved for you sex toys.

You should also decide what toys you are saving for. A but plug? A dildo? Then find it (online or in a shop). Find the price and keep track of your progress. This will help you keeping focused on your goal - as you can always see how far you are from the grand price. When you get the goal and buy the toy, set up a new goal and keep track of that.

Remember to celebrate when you get the toy, and commend yourself on you success... but I guess you will do that. What else is the point of a good sex toy!

[truthful_kinky]

Originally Posted by TiedInLatex

Your original idea of putting in 5 units pr day is still good. But add this rule:

* If you fail to put in 5 units, you will not be allowed to cum the next day, but are required to watch porn for at least 30 min.

That should quickly teach you to save up.

And of cause, taking units out of the jar? No cumming (at all), but still at least 30 min of porn a day, until you have repaid your "dept" to the jar.

You could also get a jar that do not open - so you cant get you money out before breaking it. That should solve the issue of spending it before you have saved for you sex toys.

You should also decide what toys you are saving for. A but plug? A dildo? Then find it (online or in a shop). Find the price and keep track of your progress. This will help you keeping focused on your goal - as you can always see how far you are from the grand price. When you get the goal and buy the toy, set up a new goal and keep track of that.

Remember to celebrate when you get the toy, and commend yourself on you success... but I guess you will do that. What else is the point of a good sex toy!

Thank you so much for the ideas!

I'm not putting 5 units per day, I'm just setting it as the base value for infractions, just letting it clear.

Really loved the ideas, and the 30 minutes of porn are going to be a reeeally cruel torture, so thanks for that hahaha

I made a wishlist on my Swear Jar page, but I'm just saving for now, I'm on my parents house until mid january, so it's gonna be a minute until I can buy stuff.

I'm probably gonna put a bag and a lock as the first item on the list, just so I have a place to hide everything.

And yeah, every toy will get a long long night of celebration!

[Switch528]

The way I saved for my device was setting aside 1 dollar every time I received a task. Also some money anytime I gave, or received an orgasm.

You could do the same.

1. dollar per task
1. dollar every time you touch and/or edge yourself without it being part of a task
5 dollars every time you cum if it is ruined
10 if it is not ruined
20 if you don't recycle and eat it afterwards.

Adjust as needed, and if you can't pay at the time of the action a punishment should happen for sure. For me, It was to sell my own things to a 2nd hand shop, eBay or market place to get the money, I was never allowed to use funds from our regular budget.

Have fun! It sure makes you appreciate the toys more when you have to earn them and/or sell your old things to get the money to do it.

[truthful_kinky]

Originally Posted by Switch528

The way I saved for my device was setting aside 1 dollar every time I received a task. Also some money anytime I gave, or received an orgasm.

You could do the same.

1. dollar per task
1. dollar every time you touch and/or edge yourself without it being part of a task
5 dollars every time you cum if it is ruined
10 if it is not ruined
20 if you don't recycle and eat it afterwards.

Adjust as needed, and if you can't pay at the time of the action a punishment should happen for sure. For me, It was to sell my own things to a 2nd hand shop, eBay or market place to get the money, I was never allowed to use funds from our regular budget.

Have fun! It sure makes you appreciate the toys more when you have to earn them and/or sell your old things to get the money to do it.

I really appreciate your ideas!

They really added to the denial, and i absolutely love that. I had to adjust a little to fit what I already had. For instance, I already had a punishment for not paying, so instead of having to get it, i just put that if I sold something, all the money should go to pay the debt. But I'll probably gonna change it later, so I can force myself to sell stuff also.

Thanks for the help!

[kurjeg]

There are many ways of saving money for this! You can try putting money aside every time that you are masturbating for example. Or you can find a friend that is willing to remind you to put money aside. Sex toys are really fun and everybody should give them a try in my opinion. Some of them can be really expensive, but they are worth it. You can try looking at some of them from sexedlibrary.org if you want to. They are even more fun if you are using them while having sex with someone. It's truly a mindblowing experience, trust me