13 Years on Getdare

leadbet · 07-28-2020, 09:48 PM

It looks like it has been over 13 years on Getdare and I have really enjoyed this site. I thought I would try out the AMA. A lot of things are covered in my profile but the condensed version is I'm 40, from Canada, submissive, and enjoy jogging, gaming, and reading. Let's see if this was a huge mistake. :P

Andrew 25:17 · 07-29-2020, 01:40 PM

Well probably a lazy question but by now and looking back for 13 years what is/which are the main difference/s happened in gD?

Do you miss something of "old times" of getDare?

Does getDare helped you to explore your kinks and sexuality? If so, how?

leadbet · 07-29-2020, 11:27 PM

Not a lazy question at all.

Looking back. I don't feel like the site itself has changed much. There are some new people that have brought a lot of positive energy and some old ones who are a lot of fun.I think what has changed more is me, I spend a lot more time on here now then I used to. I have built a routine around reading the dares and truths, then popping into chat. I don't do as many of the dares as perhaps I used to, but I suppose now I am looking more for connection than activities, so what has changed is more me.

Do I miss the "old times"?-No, there was a lot of novelty when it was all super new and surprising, but I like that I've been able to make some connections and have people that I can interact with on a casual and regular basis.

Getdare has helped me explore my kinks. I have met several very patient switches and dommes who have taught me a lot. I've always enjoyed reading the content and found it really got me thinking about what I like and what I don't like.

Anzu · 07-30-2020, 12:01 AM

What was the fuckest - dirtiest experience of yours? Describe feelings and things around it too.
And what improvement do you think this site need?

leadbet · 07-31-2020, 12:55 AM

There are two that come to mind.
On Canada Day I got a little out of hand. I was drinking wine...perhaps a little too early in the day and started my usual routine of reading dares, porn and camming. I'm not even sure what got me started but there were a few people watching me on cam and perhaps something was said but I found my self naked and bouncing on a fitness ball. This was weird because I'd never done this before, it was a little exciting but I help very self conscious about it. From there things progressed to bouncing on the ball with a dildo and more people started watching...between the 3 sites I was on maybe about 35 people? I was starting to get really into it...and getting lots of direction. I bounced so hard that I started to leak...people were calling me "slut" it was intense. Some of the tasks involved putting on nawty girl Halloween costumes, others involved tieing shoelaces around my cock. By the end of the afternoon I was exhausted and a little shameful. It was an amazing experience though.

I don't see any improvements needed for the site. However, a video chat option might be nice, or a random dare select could be fun features.

Jake8285 · 08-21-2020, 06:40 AM

That's a great story haha. What sites do you cam on?

07-28-2020, 09:48 PM	#1
leadbet Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Alberta Canada Posts: 168 Blog Entries: 4	13 Years on Getdare It looks like it has been over 13 years on Getdare and I have really enjoyed this site. I thought I would try out the AMA. A lot of things are covered in my profile but the condensed version is I'm 40, from Canada, submissive, and enjoy jogging, gaming, and reading. Let's see if this was a huge mistake. :P __________________ Likes: cfnm, playful humiliation, exhibitionism, voyeurism, predicament, femdom, some pain some times is ok trying new things, people with senses of humor toys:cockring, plugs, dildos, beads, mini vibes, cam, feeldoe, collar. Dislikes: spanking, clothespins, photos Limits: social suicide, fluids/blood, shaving, Send me a PM or call me a "SLUT" in getdare chat and I'll edge once. (Max of 2 per person/day)

07-29-2020, 01:40 PM	#2
Andrew 25:17 Distinguished Member Join Date: Jul 2020 Location: Italy Posts: 771 Blog Entries: 6	Well probably a lazy question but by now and looking back for 13 years what is/which are the main difference/s happened in gD? Do you miss something of "old times" of getDare? Does getDare helped you to explore your kinks and sexuality? If so, how? __________________ 30, M, Straight LIKES/DISLIKE/LIMITS BDSM Test Reverse PM Dares I'm looking for a sub here I'm in a lovely and kinky discord server since 2 years now and I'm helping spread the word, we're always looking for new people to join us so if you're interested feel free to contact me . Life is much too important a thing ever to talk seriously about it. - Oscar Wilde

07-29-2020, 11:27 PM	#3
leadbet Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Alberta Canada Posts: 168 Blog Entries: 4	Not a lazy question at all. Looking back. I don't feel like the site itself has changed much. There are some new people that have brought a lot of positive energy and some old ones who are a lot of fun.I think what has changed more is me, I spend a lot more time on here now then I used to. I have built a routine around reading the dares and truths, then popping into chat. I don't do as many of the dares as perhaps I used to, but I suppose now I am looking more for connection than activities, so what has changed is more me. Do I miss the "old times"?-No, there was a lot of novelty when it was all super new and surprising, but I like that I've been able to make some connections and have people that I can interact with on a casual and regular basis. Getdare has helped me explore my kinks. I have met several very patient switches and dommes who have taught me a lot. I've always enjoyed reading the content and found it really got me thinking about what I like and what I don't like. __________________ Likes: cfnm, playful humiliation, exhibitionism, voyeurism, predicament, femdom, some pain some times is ok trying new things, people with senses of humor toys:cockring, plugs, dildos, beads, mini vibes, cam, feeldoe, collar. Dislikes: spanking, clothespins, photos Limits: social suicide, fluids/blood, shaving, Send me a PM or call me a "SLUT" in getdare chat and I'll edge once. (Max of 2 per person/day)

07-30-2020, 12:01 AM	#4
Anzu Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2020 Posts: 120 Blog Entries: 1	What was the fuckest - dirtiest experience of yours? Describe feelings and things around it too. And what improvement do you think this site need? __________________ Looking for a submissive top or pup in the UK, all ages are welcome DOM - Likes: Owning, Underwear, Himbo, Bondage, Milking, Edging, Cumcontrol, CBT, JOI, Chastity, Denial, Hypnosis, Clothes Control, Semi-public, Pup play, Jockstrap & sweat ... KIK anzu.123

07-31-2020, 12:55 AM	#5
leadbet Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Alberta Canada Posts: 168 Blog Entries: 4	There are two that come to mind. On Canada Day I got a little out of hand. I was drinking wine...perhaps a little too early in the day and started my usual routine of reading dares, porn and camming. I'm not even sure what got me started but there were a few people watching me on cam and perhaps something was said but I found my self naked and bouncing on a fitness ball. This was weird because I'd never done this before, it was a little exciting but I help very self conscious about it. From there things progressed to bouncing on the ball with a dildo and more people started watching...between the 3 sites I was on maybe about 35 people? I was starting to get really into it...and getting lots of direction. I bounced so hard that I started to leak...people were calling me "slut" it was intense. Some of the tasks involved putting on nawty girl Halloween costumes, others involved tieing shoelaces around my cock. By the end of the afternoon I was exhausted and a little shameful. It was an amazing experience though. I don't see any improvements needed for the site. However, a video chat option might be nice, or a random dare select could be fun features. __________________ Likes: cfnm, playful humiliation, exhibitionism, voyeurism, predicament, femdom, some pain some times is ok trying new things, people with senses of humor toys:cockring, plugs, dildos, beads, mini vibes, cam, feeldoe, collar. Dislikes: spanking, clothespins, photos Limits: social suicide, fluids/blood, shaving, Send me a PM or call me a "SLUT" in getdare chat and I'll edge once. (Max of 2 per person/day)

08-21-2020, 06:40 AM	#6
Jake8285 Member Join Date: Dec 2019 Posts: 40	That's a great story haha. What sites do you cam on? __________________ 30/gay/male/sub/slave Looking for an online master (skype, etc) or dares, trying out new stuff to please my master Likes: posing, anal, anal training, tying, BDSM, clothing, "modelling", pleasing masters, edging, precum Soft Limits: heavy scat, pain Hard Limits: ,anything illegal, family, friends, social