For your partner, would you ... ?

[Jaro]

Please let us know if you would make any of the following *permanent* changes to yourself or your lifestyle, solely because your partner would like you to.

"Partner" can be a vanilla partner, romantic partner, D/s partner or all of these, so please also tell us which type of partner(s) your answers apply to.

You can skip the questions that do not apply to you.

1. Keep your pubic hair in whatever style he/she wishes
2. Grow facial hair in whatever style he/she wishes
3. Get a full body waxing: total removal of all hair from the neck down
4. Shave your head
5. Let your hair grow (very) long
6. Keep your hair cut (very) short
7. Dye your hair an unnatural color
8. Get one or both nipples pierced
9. Get your genitals pierced
10. Get your tongue pierced
11. Get a tattoo, in a hidden place
12. Get a tattoo, in a visible place
13. Get a boob job, make them larger
14. Get a boob job, make them smaller
15. Get circumcised
16. Become a nudist (like he/she is)
17. Go vegetarian/vegan (like he/she is)

[KittenLicks]

Just looking at the title, I was pretty sure my answers were gonna all be 'yes'. But maybe I have too much faith in how much I love my girlfriend. Green = Yes, Red = No.

1. Keep your pubic hair in whatever style he/she wishes ~ ...but only because she likes it how it is.
2. Grow facial hair in whatever style he/she wishes ~ Not unless "not growing facial hair" is a style.
3. Get a full body waxing: total removal of all hair from the neck down ~ I'd do this without her asking me too. Hair is gross.
4. Shave your head ~ Permanently? I'd rather die.
5. Let your hair grow (very) long ~ Even more hair? Heck yes. <3
6. Keep your hair cut (very) short ~ Another thing I doubt she'd ever ask of me.
7. Dye your hair an unnatural color ~ Sure, sounds fun!
8. Get one or both nipples pierced ~ I'd probably have to think about it, and it's not really my style, but I guess.
9. Get your genitals pierced ~ See above.
10. Get your tongue pierced ~ See above.
11. Get a tattoo, in a hidden place ~ Yes! If it's my girlfriend wanting it, I bet it'd be a super cute tattoo.
12. Get a tattoo, in a visible place ~ Sure, why not. I'd hope it wasn't obnoxious, though.
13. Get a boob job, make them larger
14. Get a boob job, make them smaller
15. Become a nudist (like he/she is) ~ I don't think I know enough about the nudist lifestyle to answer this question.
16. Go vegetarian/vegan (like he/she is) ~ There are some solid moral arguments for this, in the first place, and I don't love meat THAT much.

I'd be amazed if there is anyone that would shave their head for their partner! ^^

[knorke]

I suppose the fact I'm not looking for a vanilla partner excludes that option to begin with, so I'll just answer all for the combination romantic + D type.

1. Keep your pubic hair in whatever style he/she wishes - yes
2. Grow facial hair in whatever style he/she wishes - I'll buy a fake moustache, sure. Going to get weird to wear it every day, but with a good enough Spanish accent, why not?
3. Get a full body waxing: total removal of all hair from the neck down - yes
4. Shave your head - nope, might as well call it a hard limit
5. Let your hair grow (very) long - yes
6. Keep your hair cut (very) short - yes
7. Dye your hair an unnatural color - yes
8. Get one or both nipples pierced - yes
9. Get your genitals pierced - yes
10. Get your tongue pierced - nope, I'm generally not a fan of piercings and tattoos that are very obviously going to show up all the time.
11. Get a tattoo, in a hidden place - No, but... That depends a lot on the kind of tattoo, location, and so on. If I ever get one, it might be something my partner suggests, but honestly not something I'd do if I didn't absolutely know I'd be able to live with it forever.
12. Get a tattoo, in a visible place - no
13. Get a boob job, make them larger - nope
14. Get a boob job, make them smaller - nope
15. Get circumcised - n/a
16. Become a nudist (like he/she is) - no, but more for practical reasons. I get cold super easily, and tend to get sick at about the same rate, so I'd honestly just suffer all the time. The idea is okay, but I'm not the one to do that.
17. Go vegetarian/vegan (like he/she is) - yes (I have considered it in the past, but for practical reasons such as eating at a canteen where most of the days meals containing meat are the better options due to the rather uninspiring salad selection, that wouldn't be great. Also I'd rather be social with my colleagues than eat my salad alone so...)

[Switch528]

Keep your pubic hair in whatever style he/she wishes (Yes)
Grow facial hair in whatever style he/she wishes (Yes)
Get a full body waxing: total removal of all hair from the neck down (Yes, in fact I have had my legs waxed once per her instruction)
Shave your head (Yes.. I actually keep my head shaved)
Let your hair grow (very) long (I would if I could but no hair grows up there lol)
Keep your hair cut (very) short (Yes)
Dye your hair an unnatural color (no)
Get one or both nipples pierced (I Would.. but I would not be happy)
Get your genitals pierced (I would but I would be terrified)
Get your tongue pierced (I would)
Get a tattoo, in a hidden place (Yes I would)
Get a tattoo, in a visible place (It would be depend on what the tattoo was)
Get a boob job, make them larger (no)
Get a boob job, make them smaller (no)
Get circumcised (I already am, but if I wasn't I would)
Become a nudist (like he/she is) (no)
Go vegetarian/vegan (like he/she is) (I am vegan, I would not start eating meat if she wanted me too.)

[MissMaria]

[*]Keep your pubic hair in whatever style he/she wishes I would be okay with that
[*]Grow facial hair in whatever style he/she wishes
[*]Get a full body waxing: total removal of all hair from the neck down Yes no issue there do anyway
[*]Shave your head Nope
[*]Let your hair grow (very) long Already is ish
[*]Keep your hair cut (very) short Only if demanded as a deal-breaking request and even then with extreme reluctance
[*]Dye your hair an unnatural color Sure
[*]Get one or both nipples pierced Nope I could not
[*]Get your genitals pierced See above
[*]Get your tongue pierced See above
[*]Get a tattoo, in a hidden place Happily
[*]Get a tattoo, in a visible place Sure
[*]Get a boob job, make them larger If it would make them happy
[*]Get a boob job, make them smaller I would rather not but if demanded, but again extreme reluctance
[*]Get circumcised
[*]Become a nudist (like he/she is) I would have no issue there
[*]Go vegetarian/vegan (like he/she is) Give up meat I mean sure I could but I would rather not

[GayCackenOffenYom]

My answers reply to a romantic partner:

Keep your pubic hair in whatever style he/she wishes
Yes

Grow facial hair in whatever style he/she wishes
Yes

Get a full body waxing: total removal of all hair from the neck down
Yes

Shave your head
I would consider it

Let your hair grow (very) long
Yes

Keep your hair cut (very) short
Yes

Dye your hair an unnatural color
No

Get one or both nipples pierced
No

Get your genitals pierced
No

Get your tongue pierced
No

Get a tattoo, in a hidden place
No

Get a tattoo, in a visible place
No

Get a boob job, make them larger
N/A

Get a boob job, make them smaller
N/A

Get circumcised
Already am

Become a nudist (like he/she is)
I'd consider it

Go vegetarian/vegan (like he/she is)
No

[LordEdward]

Keep your pubic hair in whatever style he/she wishes
sure
Grow facial hair in whatever style he/she wishes
sure
Get a full body waxing: total removal of all hair from the neck down
nope
Shave your head
never
Let your hair grow (very) long
it is long anyway
Keep your hair cut (very) short
meh fine
Dye your hair an unnatural color
it is a thing i want anyway
Get one or both nipples pierced
no
Get your genitals pierced
no
Get your tongue pierced
no
Get a tattoo, in a hidden place
no
Get a tattoo, in a visible place
no
Get a boob job, make them larger
no
Get a boob job, make them smaller
no
Get circumcised
no
Become a nudist (like he/she is)
hmmm maybe
Go vegetarian/vegan (like he/she is)
noooooo

[Emalice9]

Honestly for my sister I’d say yes to all of these and go further if she wanted

[Scrap]

I will admit to being a little jaded on this subject at the moment. However, if the right person came into my life... well, you never know.


1) Keep your pubic hair in whatever style he/she wishes
yes

2) Grow facial hair in whatever style he/she wishes
yes

3) Get a full body waxing: total removal of all hair from the neck down
absolutely

4) Shave your head
maybe

5) Let your hair grow (very) long
absolutely

6) Keep your hair cut (very) short
maybe

7) Dye your hair an unnatural color
probably

8) Get one or both nipples pierced
absolutely. I am waiting on fund to get them redone anyway.

9) Get your genitals pierced
maybe. my ex and I talked about my getting a PA... never happened.

10) Get your tongue pierced
No. I actually can't due to a genetic fluke.

11) Get a tattoo, in a hidden place
Why not? Maybe a cover up for my 'tramp stamp' I got for my ex

12) Get a tattoo, in a visible place
maybe. depends on the design and location. NOT getting anything on my face, for example.

13) Get a boob job, make them larger
if they are paying for it, sure.

14) Get a boob job, make them smaller
we're going to go with "not applicable" here...

15) Get circumcised
too late. already done

16) Become a nudist (like he/she is)
I already am, so this is another "not applicable"

17) Go vegetarian/vegan (like he/she is)
yeah... no. I respect their opinions and determination to stick with the lifestyle, and will happily drink to their health before cutting into my steak.

[Matt:]

For Sam I would...

You can skip the questions that do not apply to you.

1. Keep your pubic hair in whatever style he/she wishes
   Yes, already do...
   
2. Grow facial hair in whatever style he/she wishes
   I don't like facial hair, but if Sam wanted me to, I would.
   
3. Get a full body waxing: total removal of all hair from the neck down
   This would require a LOT of persuasion, especially my legs. Would lead to questions in summer from friends and family...
   
4. Shave your head
   hmm I might, I have wondered what I'd look like with a shaved head. Would be worried it may not grow back as it was though...
   
5. Let your hair grow (very) long
   No, I would really hate this! My hair looks horrible long too
   
6. Keep your hair cut (very) short
   Sure, it usually is
   
7. Dye your hair an unnatural color
   I don't think so....
   
8. Get one or both nipples pierced
   If Sam really wanted me too
   
9. Get your genitals pierced
   Sorry, but no...
   
10. Get your tongue pierced
    Again, no.
    
11. Get a tattoo, in a hidden place
    Not keen, but could be persuaded if hidden and nothing too crazy lol
    
12. Get a tattoo, in a visible place
    I don't think so
    
13. Get a boob job, make them larger
    n/a
    
14. Get a boob job, make them smaller
    n/a
    
15. Get circumcised
    no
    
16. Become a nudist (like he/she is)
    well she is not....but I would do it for her.
    
17. Go vegetarian/vegan (like he/she is)
    Afraid not, like meat to much!

[Butterfly]

Originally Posted by Jaro

Please let us know if you would make any of the following *permanent* changes to yourself or your lifestyle, solely because your partner would like you to.

"Partner" can be a vanilla partner, romantic partner, D/s partner or all of these, so please also tell us which type of partner(s) your answers apply to.

You can skip the questions that do not apply to you.

1. Keep your pubic hair in whatever style he/she wishes Yes
2. Grow facial hair in whatever style he/she wishes No, I would never let my facial hair grow. I am a fan of plucking anything that grows there.
3. Get a full body waxing: total removal of all hair from the neck down Yes
4. Shave your head No. Not unless there was a reason (ie he was sick and I was doing it to show my support.)
5. Let your hair grow (very) long Yes
6. Keep your hair cut (very) short No
7. Dye your hair an unnatural color Yes
8. Get one or both nipples pierced Yes
9. Get your genitals pierced Yes
10. Get your tongue pierced No
11. Get a tattoo, in a hidden place Yes
12. Get a tattoo, in a visible place Yes
13. Get a boob job, make them larger Yes
14. Get a boob job, make them smaller No
15. Get circumcised
16. Become a nudist (like he/she is) No
17. Go vegetarian/vegan (like he/she is) No

I answered these questions with Mr. Devious in mind. They would be different (a lot more Nos if it were for another play partner or Dom)

[Lucyy]

"Partner" can be a vanilla partner, romantic partner, D/s partner or all of these, so please also tell us which type of partner(s) your answers apply to.
I'll answer as if my gf asked me these questions

You can skip the questions that do not apply to you.
[*]Keep your pubic hair in whatever style he/she wishes
Yeah, I don't see why not
[*]Grow facial hair in whatever style he/she wishes
[*]Get a full body waxing: total removal of all hair from the neck down
Yes
[*]Shave your head
Most likely not
[*]Let your hair grow (very) long
I think it depends on what you consider to be very long hair, so I'll say maybe
[*]Keep your hair cut (very) short
Yes, I already have short hair so that'd fine
[*]Dye your hair an unnatural color
Yes
[*]Get one or both nipples pierced
No
[*]Get your genitals pierced
Nope
[*]Get your tongue pierced
No
[*]Get a tattoo, in a hidden place
Maybe, if it's something cute or that it means something to her/us then yes
[*]Get a tattoo, in a visible place
Same as above
[*]Get a boob job, make them larger
No
[*]Get a boob job, make them smaller
No
[*]Get circumcised
[*]Become a nudist (like he/she is)
No
[*]Go vegetarian/vegan (like he/she is)
She's not vegetarian nor vegan but I would consider it if she was and she asked me to, maybe try it for a while and see how it goes

[atownesq]

I'm answering these based on if I would do for my Mistress and also assuming that I didn't also have a vanilla gf...

Keep your pubic hair in whatever style he/she wishes- Sure, why not
Grow facial hair in whatever style he/she wishesWithin reason, nothing crazy that would cost my job, etc
Get a full body waxing: total removal of all hair from the neck downYes
Shave your headYes
Let your hair grow (very) longNo, maybe if I were retired. It gets curly after a certain length anyway so not sure how long it could really grow anyway
Keep your hair cut (very) shortYes, that's how I prefer it
Dye your hair an unnatural colorNo, again, maybe if I didn't have job/career issues to deal with
Get one or both nipples piercedI'd rather not, but, probably would
Get your genitals piercedAgain, I'd try to talk her out of this, but would probably relent if I had to
Get your tongue piercedNo
Get a tattoo, in a hidden placeMaybe, would rather not
Get a tattoo, in a visible placeNo
Get a boob job, make them larger
Get a boob job, make them smaller
Get circumcised
Become a nudist (like he/she is)Sure
Go vegetarian/vegan (like he/she is)No, I'm a carnivore. I actually tried this once before, the headaches 48 hrs in were too unbearable

[IceMaiden]

Originally Posted by Jaro

Please let us know if you would make any of the following *permanent* changes to yourself or your lifestyle, solely because your partner would like you to.

"Partner" can be a vanilla partner, romantic partner, D/s partner or all of these, so please also tell us which type of partner(s) your answers apply to.
My answers all apply to AM.

You can skip the questions that do not apply to you.

1. Keep your pubic hair in whatever style he/she wishes
   Yes. I've been doing this for over 3 years!
2. Grow facial hair in whatever style he/she wishes
   No. I don't want a hairy face.
3. Get a full body waxing: total removal of all hair from the neck down
   Yes!!!!
4. Shave your head
   No. It would negatively impact my self esteem and invite questions from friends and family.
5. Let your hair grow (very) long
   Yes. I love my long hair.
6. Keep your hair cut (very) short
   No. I don't suit it at all and I have enough issues with my body without purposely adding more.
7. Dye your hair an unnatural color
   Yes.
8. Get one or both nipples pierced
   No. I hate nipple pain and I also often get eczma on my nipples of all places.
9. Get your genitals pierced
   Noooo. Hate this too and again health reasons wouldn't make it a sensible choice.
10. Get your tongue pierced
    Yes. I've had it pierced when I was about 15 but later let it heal over.
11. Get a tattoo, in a hidden place
    Yes.
12. Get a tattoo, in a visible place
    Yes.
13. Get a boob job, make them larger
    Noooooooooo!!! They don't need to be any bigger!
14. Get a boob job, make them smaller
    Yes please. I want this so much!!
15. Get circumcised
    N/A
16. Become a nudist (like he/she is)
    No. I get cold very easily and sick very easily and I would just end up being sick the majority of the time.
17. Go vegetarian/vegan (like he/she is)

Yes. I was vegetarian when I was younger and I didn't miss meat. But as I have problems with blood sugar, not eating the right amount of foods or protein etc now, he would need to make sure he kept my body healthy with other foods.

[imakward]

Keep your pubic hair in whatever style he/she wishes

Yes

Grow facial hair in whatever style he/she wishes

Yes

Get a full body waxing: total removal of all hair from the neck down

No

Shave your head

No

Let your hair grow (very) long

No

Keep your hair cut (very) short

No

Dye your hair an unnatural color

Yes

Get one or both nipples pierced

No

Get your genitals pierced

Never


Get your tongue pierced

No

Get a tattoo, in a hidden place

No

Get a tattoo, in a visible place

No

Get a boob job, make them larger
Get a boob job, make them smaller
Get circumcised

No

Become a nudist (like he/she is)

No

Go vegetarian/vegan (like he/she is)

I would do that