31/trans-female/sub seeks 21+/female/dom in any place

amethyst353 · 09-30-2018, 04:55 AM

31/trans-female/sub seeks 21+/female/dom in any place

Who I am

I am a 31-year-old trans woman.
I have been on hormones for 5 years and have had an orchiectomy.
That means I have breasts, a penis, and I do not have testicles.
I only mention that so you know what my body is like - outside of play partners my transness is no longer a big deal in my life.
I like humiliation games, particularly things like body writing that show signs of submission.
I'm also into moderate pain and impact play as well as bondage.
My limits are scat and heavy pain.
I am willing to try almost anything, but I do take new things slowly.
I send pictures, but they will be without face until trust is built.
I am willing to do video, but that would be well down the road.
I am a little bratty. Nothing to completely undermine a dom, just enjoy a little back-and-forth at times.
I live in the US Central time zone and work M-F, 9-5 but I only sleep like 4 hours a night so am usually active until about 2:30 am.
I can communicate via kik, but I prefer discord.
I have extensive bdsm experience in one-on-one, irl settings. I don't have as much experience with online play.

Who you are

You are a woman or non-binary.
You should value safety, consent, communication, and aftercare.
I don't think I am bratty enough that you need to consider yourself a brat tamer, but you should be okay with a little bit of a smart mouth.
You enjoy having fun and teasing.
You enjoy getting to know your subs as a person in addition to playing with them.
You show caring for your subs when appropriate.
You are good at switching between play time dynamic and real conversation
You have other play partners or you don't - I have no preference or desire for exclusivity

Who we would be

We would start out taking things slow, getting to know each other, and building trust
We would at least check in with each other most days, but not stress if life gets in the way
We will have fun bantering and challenging each other, but at the end of the day it will be clear who the dom is and who the sub is.
There will be rules established for when we aren't together, but most of our play will happen with synchronous communication.

PM me if this seems like a match for you or if you have any questions.

Siren · 09-30-2018, 05:52 AM

This is a lovely ad and I hope you find what you’re looking for

Funfloof · 09-30-2018, 06:42 PM

I also wanted to say good luck, I hope you find what you’re looking for.

Heart · 10-03-2018, 08:47 PM

Very well written ad! Good luck

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alex.jonsa · 10-04-2018, 06:46 AM

Wonderful ad, I hope you find what you are looking for!

KittenLicks · 10-11-2018, 12:04 AM

Hi mari, have a free bump from me, I really do hope you find someone. <3

Happy Me · 10-19-2018, 01:16 AM

This is a really great ad! I hope you find just the right person!

Motaki · 10-19-2018, 03:47 PM

Good luck with your search

Sadly I don't think I have the experience level you're looking for, but I hope you find a Domme who does :3

imakward · 10-26-2018, 04:57 PM

Really wonderful Ad ,im bumping it because it deserves attention

09-30-2018, 04:55 AM	#1
amethyst353 getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Sep 2016 Posts: 498 Blog Entries: 16	31/trans-female/sub seeks 21+/female/dom in any place 31/trans-female/sub seeks 21+/female/dom in any place Who I am I am a 31-year-old trans woman. I have been on hormones for 5 years and have had an orchiectomy. That means I have breasts, a penis, and I do not have testicles. I only mention that so you know what my body is like - outside of play partners my transness is no longer a big deal in my life. I like humiliation games, particularly things like body writing that show signs of submission. I'm also into moderate pain and impact play as well as bondage. My limits are scat and heavy pain. I am willing to try almost anything, but I do take new things slowly. I send pictures, but they will be without face until trust is built. I am willing to do video, but that would be well down the road. I am a little bratty. Nothing to completely undermine a dom, just enjoy a little back-and-forth at times. I live in the US Central time zone and work M-F, 9-5 but I only sleep like 4 hours a night so am usually active until about 2:30 am. I can communicate via kik, but I prefer discord. I have extensive bdsm experience in one-on-one, irl settings. I don't have as much experience with online play. Who you are You are a woman or non-binary. You should value safety, consent, communication, and aftercare. I don't think I am bratty enough that you need to consider yourself a brat tamer, but you should be okay with a little bit of a smart mouth. You enjoy having fun and teasing. You enjoy getting to know your subs as a person in addition to playing with them. You show caring for your subs when appropriate. You are good at switching between play time dynamic and real conversation You have other play partners or you don't - I have no preference or desire for exclusivity Who we would be We would start out taking things slow, getting to know each other, and building trust We would at least check in with each other most days, but not stress if life gets in the way We will have fun bantering and challenging each other, but at the end of the day it will be clear who the dom is and who the sub is. There will be rules established for when we aren't together, but most of our play will happen with synchronous communication. PM me if this seems like a match for you or if you have any questions.

09-30-2018, 05:52 AM	#2
Siren getDare Succubus Join Date: May 2011 Location: the sea Posts: 1,566 Blog Entries: 6	This is a lovely ad and I hope you find what you’re looking for __________________ f/25/bi ama / discord / likes & limits not looking to play with anyone likes: dad jokes, pretty people, vodka. dislikes: granny panties, sloths, tea. however much you use me baby come on use me more

09-30-2018, 06:42 PM	#3
Funfloof Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2018 Location: A fun place Posts: 2	Good luck I also wanted to say good luck, I hope you find what you’re looking for. __________________ Likes: Anal, spanking, some hidden public, body writing Willing to try: clothing control, pet play, bondage Dislikes: Wax, name calling Limits: CBT, intense pain, all other forms of public, permanent Kik: Funfloof

10-11-2018, 12:04 AM	#6
KittenLicks getDare's Naughtiest Kitten Join Date: Apr 2013 Posts: 2,084 Blog Entries: 19	Hi mari, have a free bump from me, I really do hope you find someone. <3 __________________ Trans/Girl/Kitty Likes/Dislikes/Limits PM Dares "Oh god help! Bunny is trapped in KittenLicks signiture 0///0 Save Bunny!!! 9/10" ~ Fieldofbunnies

10-19-2018, 01:16 AM	#7
Happy Me Moderator Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: U.S.A. Posts: 2,092 Blog Entries: 15	This is a really great ad! I hope you find just the right person! __________________ What a beautiful thought it is that some of the best days of our lives haven't happened yet. I’m sick, please be nice.

10-03-2018, 08:47 PM	#4
Heart getDare Succubus Join Date: Feb 2015 Location: Chicago Posts: 1,658 Blog Entries: 193	Very well written ad! Good luck .

10-04-2018, 06:46 AM	#5
alex.jonsa Member Join Date: Feb 2013 Location: canada Posts: 42	Wonderful ad, I hope you find what you are looking for!

10-19-2018, 03:47 PM	#8
Motaki Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2014 Location: UK Posts: 174	Good luck with your search Sadly I don't think I have the experience level you're looking for, but I hope you find a Domme who does :3 __________________ 24/F/Bi/Switch Likes: pussy, anal, pain, wedgies, hidden public, insertion, pet & age play, humiliation Limits: scat, permanent, messy, pics, edging, social suicide, sex Pm me 'insert' and I'll insert an object of your choosing (providing I have it) for any length of time you specify. NOT LOOKING FOR A SLAVE

10-26-2018, 04:57 PM	#9
imakward Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2017 Location: Somewhere i Belong!? Posts: 226 Blog Entries: 7	Really wonderful Ad ,im bumping it because it deserves attention __________________ Likes: Decent Human beings,deep conversations,naughty stuff Dislikes:People with no sense of humor, Limits: The sky,but still not sure about that ^^ if you want to ask me stuff.https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=350970 Happy Me Belongs to me , Marissa353 is my cute slut

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