Doms, how can subs give you pleasure?

[Submissive penguin]

As a sub I'm asking what specifically can a submissive do to give you pleasure (not just sexually). For example following orders with out hesitation, being restrictive in the beginning then finally accepting full control, or even being a full on brat the entire time. Also what are tasks they can do without your command that will please you?

There are always more questions for the subs so I would like to hear the dom opinions.

[Submissive penguin]

Also what style of sub do you like personality and clothing style

[phteheven]

Enthusiasm goes a long way.

When I'm setting a scene, especially in an online scenario, the partner engaging with that and adding to the fun is really good.

As a dom I wanna be engaged and respected just as much as the sub does. I wanna be that person's dom just as much as they wanna be my sub.

Also, knowing their own limits is really good and helpful. Unexpected things can always happen, and sometimes you discover a new limit you didn't know about before. But when someone comes in and tells me that they have no limits at all, I get suspicious.

[Gengar]

Originally Posted by Submissive penguin

As a sub I'm asking what specifically can a submissive do to give you pleasure (not just sexually). For example following orders with out hesitation, being restrictive in the beginning then finally accepting full control, or even being a full on brat the entire time. Also what are tasks they can do without your command that will please you?

There are always more questions for the subs so I would like to hear the dom opinions.

im sure different dominants like different things but for me personally i love to see pain/torture and humiliating dares carried out very well by a sub who loves to please and loves to carry out tasks as well as they can.

as for favourite personality and clothing style i guess id say cute.

[MissTrapalicious]

I like subs who know what they want and what they are looking for, instead of 'no limits slave' and 'exploring' types. Also submissives who actually want to do their tasks instead of 'no time', 'cant to that' or just simply ghosting. The most important one for me is that they can write more than just a oneliner like 'how r u', especially during online play communication via text is important.

[MissyK]

Originally Posted by MissTrapalicious

I like subs who know what they want and what they are looking for, instead of 'no limits slave' and 'exploring' types.

Agreed. Being able to effectively communicate wants, needs, goals, and boundaries is so important. I don't want to waste my time with someone who can't tell me what they want. Do some self reflection and be able to tell me what you like and why you like it

As for style, I prefer the forced aspect. My main kink is humiliation and I enjoy my partner being humiliated and fighting it the entire time. That doesn't mean always bratting, it just means at no point is my partner actively asking for something humiliating unless I force him to